Preamble:
Life is like a journey, there will be scenery and thorns on the way, some people meet on the way, some people pass by on the way, and some people will walk hand in hand for a while, whether the ending is beautiful or regretful, this journey will leave a deep imprint in the heart. And what I want to talk about today is Ma Su and Kong Linghui, who have formed relationships for 11 years on this journey.
1. I have been in love for 11 years, but I can't achieve positive results
Ma Su, whose real name is Marseille, was born in an ordinary northeastern family. As a child, she showed a talent for dancing and dreamed of becoming a dancer one day. And for this dream, she went to Beijing to participate in the art examination of the military art troupe, and she was able to successfully be admitted to the military art, but she also experienced a lot of difficulties and obstacles. During this period of study, she met Kong Linghui, who was born as a sports student, and the two began an 11-year emotional entanglement. 11 years is long enough for a relationship, and it should be time to achieve positive results.
However, fate played a cruel joke, and when everything was settled, the two could only end each other with helplessness and regret. Ma Su, perhaps because her career has been climbing, and Kong Linghui has also been unable to meet because of his sports career. The rhythm of life and life trajectory of the two people are very different, and it is also because of this reason that the relationship between the two has not been able to progress. After 11 years, when the dust settled, when Ma Su looked back on the relationship again, she could only end it with blessings and regrets.
Second, the burden of feelings, the glory of the career
Whether it is in a relationship or on the road to a career, everyone is more or less burdened with some baggage.
For Ma Su, her feelings seem to have become a stumbling block to her career, no matter what time it is, her name will be followed by a "Kong Linghui's girlfriend". For Kong Linghui, his burden is on his shoulders, and this "girlfriend" has never seemed to be able to become an important role in his life. When a person gives himself wholeheartedly, whether it is in his relationship or on the road to his career, he hopes that the people he loves can always be by his side.
However, the reality often makes some cruel jokes, when a person's career cannot meet, the person he loves starts his own brilliant life. Whether it is in a relationship or on the road to a career, everyone is more or less burdened with some baggage. For Ma Su, her feelings seem to have become a stumbling block to her career, no matter what time it is, her name will be followed by a "Kong Linghui's girlfriend".
For Kong Linghui, his burden is on his shoulders, and this "girlfriend" has never seemed to be able to become an important role in his life. When a person gives himself wholeheartedly, whether it is in his relationship or on the road to his career, he hopes that the people he loves can always be by his side. However, the reality often makes some cruel jokes, when a person's career cannot meet, the person he loves starts his own brilliant life.
3. After the breakup, their respective lives
When the dust settled, Ma Su and Kong Linghui also chose their own lives. For Ma Su, her career seems to have encountered some bottlenecks, and she will never return to her former peak.
And on the road of relationship, perhaps because of the previous relationship, she was hurt a little, and she no longer had the courage to face who to compose a new love song with.
Kong Linghui, on the other hand, chose to devote himself wholeheartedly to his sports career, no matter what the outside world said about him, no matter what kind of burden he had carried, he was interpreting himself with practical actions.
No matter what kind of field we are in, we can't be a stumbling block in other people's lives, we should all become a ray of sunshine in each other's lives, care for them with our hearts, and accompany them with our hearts, so that our lives will become more colorful.
Epilogue:
Whether it is in the relationship or on the road of career, everyone is more or less burdened, and when everything settles, we should also learn to let go and accept. No matter what the outcome is, this journey will leave a deep imprint in our hearts and will also become a beautiful scenery in our lives.