In this hustle and bustle of the city, the family is like a tiny island, carrying the weight of life. Parents' mood swings are like a sudden storm, sweeping in from time to time, destroying the peace of mind of the child. This storm is called anger.
In this dizzying age of social media, anger has found a channel to spread in the virtual space. Some parents vent their anger on the Internet, as if expecting to find some outlet for understanding and catharsis in virtual strangers. However, such behavior only creates more chaos in the virtual world, and the child becomes an unfortunate victim of this storm.
Why are parents so angry? Is it because the pressure of life is too great, is it the exhaustion of work that makes them unable to control themselves, or is it because they have too many unfulfilled dreams and regrets buried in their hearts? This anger, like a silent wind, suddenly rags in the family, making the child tremble. And what should have been a warm home has become unpredictable, leaving children unable to find their way forward in the shadow of sadness.
This kind of anger is a human emotion that everyone has experienced to a greater or lesser extent. However, when anger overtakes reason and control, it becomes a devastating force. Parents need to recognize that the impact of their emotions on their children is profound. This not only causes psychological trauma to children in the present, but is more likely to evolve into a more serious problem in the future.
We may look at this storm of anger from another angle. Behind the anger may be the expectations and concerns of parents for their children. However, this way of expressing concern is too overbearing and takes the child away. Perhaps, moderate anger is not a sin, but parents need to learn to find the strength of self-control as they hover on the edge of their emotions.
In this era of rush, people tend to chase a fast-paced life and ignore their innermost needs. However, we can find a rebellion against life, a pursuit of imperfection in the anger of our parents. However, this pursuit should not become a destruction of the child, but a self-improvement.
To stop this storm of rage, we need to revisit the nature of homeschooling. Education is not only the imparting of knowledge, but also the cultivation of the soul. In the pursuit of excellence, parents need to understand that their children are independent individuals with their own dreams and pursuits. Anger should not be allowed to be a barrier to love and understanding, but rather an opportunity to inspire more love and care.
Perhaps, we need more communication, more listening, so that parents and children can build a bridge of hearts. On this bridge, the storm of anger will no longer rage, but will be understood and defused. On this bridge, parents can capture their children's emotions more keenly, and children can face their parents' emotions more calmly.
This storm of anger may never completely stop, but we can find peace in this storm. Family is a warm harbor and a paradise for parents and children to grow together. May this storm slowly dissipate in the sunshine of understanding and love, leaving behind a peaceful clear sky. I hope that while parents are chasing their dreams, they will not forget their original intentions and protect the deep and warm love in their hearts.