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I used to think that I had chosen a gentle and obedient wife, but then I realized that she was just imitating. She was my second wife, and my ex-wife was a strong woman, and I always felt stressed with her, so I chose to divorce. However, in the days after my marriage, I found that I did not like my gentle and obedient wife, because everything about her lacked authenticity.
Less than a year after we got married, we found out that each other was not suitable, and I tried to communicate with her, but was defeated by her gentleness and obedience every time. "Don't say that, dear, I'll change it. That's how she always answered. Gradually, I found that the communication between me and her was so empty, and her gentleness and obedience were only on the surface, but they could never touch my heart. Gradually, I became reticent and just immersed in my own world every day.
Until one day, she asked me, "Honey, what's wrong with you, why are you always so silent?" I tried to speak, but for a moment I didn't know how to express it, so I chose to run away, "It's nothing, I'm just a little uncomfortable." She seemed to believe my lies, but she kept her eyes on me, as if trying to find the answer in my eyes. I knew she cared about me, but I couldn't feel her sincerity, her gentleness was just imitating my ex-wife.
I don't regret leaving my ex-wife, her aggressiveness does put me under pressure and I feel like I can't keep her satisfied. My current wife, on the other hand, always suffers from my silence and loneliness in silence, but never tries to truly understand me. Our relationship was like acting, and I was exhausted. Every day, I wonder if I should get divorced again.
However, I was well aware that divorce would not solve my problems because the root of the problem was not my wife, but myself. I was shrouded in the shadows of the past and couldn't let go. What I want is someone who really understands me, not someone who only imitates me. Now I realize that I am not ready to start my marriage again.
"What are you thinking, dear?" my wife's voice interrupted my thoughts, and I looked up at her, her eyes full of concern. "I'm just a little tired. I answered truthfully. She didn't speak, just sat silently beside me and gently held my hand. At that moment, I felt her sincerity, she was not imitating the tenderness of my ex-wife, but from the care of her heart.
"Thank you. I whispered, and she smiled slightly, "I'll be there for you as long as you need me." Her voice was full of determination. I looked into her eyes, and it was sincere and warm that I had never seen before. Perhaps, I should give her a chance to understand her heart, instead of blindly denying her. Perhaps, this is what I have been looking for, someone who really understands me.
I don't regret leaving my ex-wife, her strength is my past, and now I may need gentle companionship. I believe that this time, we will find our own happiness.
"I knew I was going to be stronger. I slowly voiced my concerns. "You don't have to push yourself, everybody has moments of vulnerability. She replied softly. "Perhaps, I need time to adjust my mentality. I said with a wry smile. "I'll be with you all the time, no matter what happens. She took my hand and gave me a powerful look.
Gradually, I discovered that her gentleness was not powerless gentleness, but tolerance and understanding of life. "You know, I've been waiting for you to open up, and your strength is not resistance, but acceptance. She stared into my eyes. "I didn't realize that gentleness and strength can exist at the same time. I said with emotion. "Yes, everyone has their own inner strength, it just needs to find a way to release. She smiled.
After spending some time together, I found that her smile was so healing. "I love you. I suddenly spoke what was in my heart. "I love you too. There was a glint of happiness in her eyes. "This time, I will put you in the warmest place in my heart. I said solemnly. "I know we're going to be together forever. She gazed at me affectionately.
Perhaps, every relationship needs time to polish, and true love does not care about the strength of the other party, but the understanding and tolerance between the two. I don't regret leaving my ex-wife, because the old is gone, and the new is the best beginning. I am willing to work with her to feel this new tenderness and strength. This time, I believe that our love will be even better because we have found our truest self.
We sat by the lavender flower sea and watched the sun slowly set. "I'm willing to start over. I said with a smile. "Thank you, I'll try to make you see who you really are. There was a sparkle of determination in her eyes. "This time, we worked together to create our own happiness. I hugged her gently. "Yes, we will always be together. She snuggled into my arms, a happy smile blooming from the bottom of her heart.
On our third wedding anniversary, I had a surprise for her. "Honey, you know what, I feel like these three years have been the happiest of my life. I said to her gently. "Me too, thank you for giving me the courage to start over. Her eyes glistened with gratitude. "So, are you ready?" I asked with a smile. "What are you ready?" she looked at me in surprise.
I made her a hearty dinner with my own hands, and the table was filled with her favorite dishes. "Honey, you're too hard. She looked at me with emotion. "And that's not all, there's a special movie in the evening. I smiled mysteriously. "Which movie is it?" she asked curiously. "It was the movie we watched together on our wedding day. I told her excitedly.
In the evening, we watched the classic love movie of the year hand in hand, and I quietly enjoyed her smile and touch. At the end of the movie, we look at each other affectionately, "Honey, have you been happy these three years?" I asked. "It's so happy. She replied with a smile. "Then, I want to say that marrying you is the most correct decision in my life. I looked at her affectionately, "I love you." Tears glistened in her eyes, "I love you too." ”
This time, we do not say goodbye to the past, but welcome the sunshine of the future and move towards a better tomorrow together. This time the marriage is no longer imitation and pretense, but real and honest. In the fragrance of lavender, we find the power of love, and together we will write our own happy story.
In the morning light, my wife and I walked along the lavender estate. The fragrance of lavender behind us reflected the light of the morning glow, and we walked quietly. "Honey, I've always felt beautiful that we walked together. She said softly. I nodded, "Yes, it's all beautiful. She stopped, turned around, and suddenly said, "I still want a home." He looked at me expectantly.
"A home," I thought silently, ....... "My dear, I know about your previous marriages, but I want you to give us a chance, a home we have built together. Her expression was determined. "Maybe we need a little more time. I said thoughtfully. "Time is not an issue, the important thing is that we are willing to face it together. She looked at me affectionately. I had an epiphany that this was not only a desire, but also a strong commitment to our future.
When she got home, she began to get busy, decorating the warm abode. "Honey, you've really put a lot of thought into this home. I whispered. She turned around, smiled and said, "This is our home and the harbor of our love." Every movement of her is so attentive and warm. I was touched by her sincerity, and our home was gradually furnished by her warmth and comfort. Every setting exudes her tenderness and love.
After dinner, we sat on the couch in the living room, and she carefully pulled out a photo album. "This is an album of our memories. She handed it over and said with a smile. Open the album, every page is a photo of us together, and every picture is a moment of happiness. "This is our picture walking in a sea of lavender flowers. She pointed to a photo, "This is a group photo of us at the wedding." She pointed with her finger and a happy smile on her face.
"My dear, every moment is so precious to me. She said softly. "Me too, I feel very blessed. I held her hand tightly. "It's a journey we've been through together, and every moment is a precious memory for us. She said affectionately. "This home carries our love and memories and it is our warm haven. I said with emotion.
This time, together we have created a home for each other that truly belongs to us. Here, we have experienced happiness and warmth together, and we are managing the dreams of the future together. In this home, we have our own stories and memories together, which is the truest portrayal of our love. This time, we became the warm home that the other party has been looking forward to, with dreams, love, and always on the road.
This time, together we walked out of a home that truly belonged to us. Here, we experience sweetness and touching together, if love is a power, then we already have everything. My wife and I have stepped into a new phase of life together, and every eye contact is a mark of love. "Honey, you know what, I always want to be with you. She said softly.
After going through ups and downs, I finally found the love of my life. In this love, both of us are trying to change ourselves and respect each other together. In this warm home, I began to Xi this new warmth. And she has also become my life's support.
"Are you tired, dear?" she said with concern, looking at my exhaustion. I smiled and shook my head, "No, I'm happy to have your care." She took my hand, "Let's go together, this time I'll bring you a place I want to experience with you." Her smile was full of anticipation.
We came to an abandoned lighthouse, where the breeze was blowing and the waves were crashing against the reef, it was really beautiful. "Honey, is this the place you'd like to share with me?" I asked curiously. "Yes, it's a place for me to calm down, and we can share warmth and tranquility here. She held my hand tightly.
Standing on the lighthouse, I felt an inexplicable sense of relief in my heart. She looked at me, smiled and said, "I know the pain has been bothering you before, but this time, we face it together. I was silent as she continued, "Honey, we have all been through the past, but we are also welcoming the future life together. Behind your strength, I see our love and persistence. ”
After experiencing setbacks, I began to re-examine my life and regain new courage. Her gentleness and love made me feel truly happy. "My dear, this time, I am willing to be by your side all the time, no matter what happens. She held my hand tightly, her eyes full of determination.
In the trembling sound of the lighthouse, we guard this sincerity and warmth together. Her words are like the sea breeze, blowing away the gloom of the past. On the way home, she looked sideways at me, smiled and said, "This time, let's build a better future together." Her eyes were full of hope and warmth, "Yes, we face it together." This time, I opened the window inside me and waved goodbye to the future. And she became the most real and beautiful existence in my life.
With her steadfastness and loving companionship, I gradually let go of my struggles with the past. This time, we are stepping into a new life together, and every morning is a proof of love. "My dear, I think this time has been the happiest time for me and you. She said softly. I looked into her eyes, full of gratitude and cherishment.
We walked together on the beach, and the sunset was like a golden curtain, reflecting her warm smile. "My dear, do you know, with your company, I feel that this world is full of hope and light. She looked at me with sincere eyes. I clasped her hand and smiled and said, "Yes, with your love, I can face the future bravely." ”
On the way home, we snuggled all the way and enjoyed the tenderness of the night. She looked at me and said softly, "My dear, you have been through too much, and I am willing to walk hand in hand with you through every journey." "I felt a wave of warmth rise in my heart because her company made me feel the possibility of life again.
In her determined countenance, I saw a bright future. Every morning, every dusk, is a true portrayal of our love. She has become my support and has brought me new strength. This time, we face the future together, and we sail the unknown ocean together. This happiness is no longer a copy and imitation of the past, but a common construction of ours.
This time, we built a real and happy home together. Here, we run-in, forbearance, and understanding, which is the perfect love we have created together. This happiness is a new beginning for us together, and it is also a beautiful scenery that we interpret for each other. In her sincerity and determination, I found the love I had longed for in my life.