Hello everyone, I'm Daddy~
Some people say that this is an era when "everyone can become famous in 15 minutes", and even 3-year-old children can rely on their cuteness and cuteness to quickly get out of the circle.
But the crux of the matter is, when you are young and are loved by thousands of people, how to grow up slowly from the spotlight and physically and mentally?
So, today let's talk about the "emoji girl" who was popular all over the Internet.
01. The "emoji girl" who was popular all over the Internet at the beginning, after 7 years, the current situation is embarrassing
7 years ago, there was a group of cute and cute 3-year-old girls' emojis, which quickly swept across major networks and fulfilled the "aunt's heart" of countless netizens.
This little girl, named Kwon Yuo-er, is a little girl from South Korea.
may mention the name, everyone will feel unfamiliar, but back then, this little girl melted the hearts of many people with lightning speed, and can be called a representative figure of the "Trick Me into Giving Birth to a Daughter" series.
Up to now, many friends may still use this little girl's picture as their avatar, and in many chat groups, the popularity of this cute baby is also high, and she often loses no time in appearing.
For example, when chatting, give a nice touch.
For example, I don't want to talk to you anymore, and I pouted with a cute face.
Another example, suddenly selling you cute treasures.
It can be said that wherever this cute baby passes, it can set off an iceberg and melt the cute softness.
During that time, Quan Yuer became popular from abroad to China, and netizens turned into "pet baby madness", and the popularity swept wave after wave.
However, as Kwon Yuer grew up, the direction of the Internet changed, and the comments of netizens began to be mixed.
And the reason why this is so is not because "the cute baby is not cute", but because netizens found that the "ambition" exposed by Quan Yu's second mother is somewhat worrying.
Since her daughter became an Internet celebrity, Kwon Yuer's mother didn't waste half of this opportunity, and she has registered accounts on major platforms in various countries one after another, and she is bound to seize this wave of "outlet".
Later, the second child of the law who grew up slowly was discovered by netizens and began to incarnate as "eating broadcasts" and appeared frequently.
Of course, as long as there is still light in the child's eyes, lively and lovely healthy growth, there is nothing to say.
But the crux of the matter is that recently, when some netizens saw the live broadcast of the second child, they bluntly said that they couldn't recognize her anymore.
In the live broadcast, the once smart and cute little girl has disappeared, replaced by a stereotype and dullness that seems to be set on the formula with a smile and a smile.
When to interact, when to explain food, and when to smile, it seems that they have all been carefully designed in the Internet era, and have lost the purity and beauty that should have been.
The every move of the second child, the maturity is not quite in line with the age, coupled with the more and more girl group dance moves, it is indeed full of emotion and sighing.
What's even more worrying is that in the live broadcast, she often needs to eat some high-calorie foods such as instant noodles, cakes, fried chicken, etc., which is really harmless for a 10-year-old girl?
Everything makes people feel a kind of trance and uneasy heartache, and it seems that in the infinite temptation of fame and fortune, even a childish child has begun to become chaotic and unknown.
reminds me of a sentence in "A Tale of Two Cities":
It's the best of times, and it's the worst of times.
But for children, if they are coerced by the outside world to take advantage of the "convenience of the times" and get involved in this competition for fame and fortune, what impact will it have on their growth?
02. What kind of effect does it affect children to be "overexposed"?
Becoming famous at a young age is the ardent expectation of many parents for their children, and in this era of short videos, it seems that it is getting simpler and simpler to dream of turning it into reality.
As a result, many parents take advantage of the times to let their children be overexposed, and eventually become famous and occupy a place on the Internet, but when parents enjoy the dividends of the Internet, have they ever thought that these things will bring a lot of impact and harm to their children.
First of all, fame at a young age can disrupt a child's normal life
For children, they should grow up carefree at an innocent age, but once they become famous at a young age and are overexposed, they will completely change their life trajectory and normal life.
Just like the "emoji girl" Kwon Yuer, she should grow up freely and happily, but she has no choice but to bear the firewood, rice, oil and salt of the adult world, which not only affects her normal Xi and life, but even needs to eat some junk food during the live broadcast at the cost of her own health.
Is this kind of life really what parents want? Is this kind of life really what children want?
In addition to Kwon Yuer, there are also some child stars who became famous at a young age, who had to catch up with announcements and shoot magazines every day at a young age, running between various crews, and losing the childhood fun that should have belonged to them.
Secondly, it is easy to lose oneself when a teenager becomes famous.
Under the sought-after aura and vanity, it is difficult for even adults to be unmoved, let alone immature children.
Especially those children who become famous at a young age, under the attention and pursuit of others, they will feel that they are different, and over time, it is easy to form an arrogant and arrogant character, and gradually lose themselves in the applause and pursuit, and even sometimes go the wrong way and forget the original intention.
Finally, fame at a young age is also a big challenge for the parent-child relationship.
Some people will wonder, isn't becoming famous at a young age a thing to be proud of for both parents and children?
But have you ever thought that when we want to carry these fame, fortune and applause, we are bound to lose something.
For example, the normal life of the child is disrupted.
For example, whether parents can maintain their original intentions in the face of monstrous wealth and let their children grow up slowly like normal people.
For another example, will the child himself become rebellious and untouchable after being sought after by all kinds of pursuits?
It is precisely because of the various problems hidden behind the "fame" that it will bring a series of challenges to the parent-child relationship, such as some children who do not want to appear on camera every day and act on the scene, but have been pushed forward by their parents for a long time, so that a deep layer of resentment and anxiety is buried in their hearts.
As everyone says: fame, fortune and shackles go hand in hand. Sometimes if you want to gain something, you will inevitably lose something.
03. The helmsman on the road of children's growth - parents
Someone on the Internet asked: The child is cute and cute, should parents seize the opportunity to make their child a "child star".
There is a high praise answer at the bottom: Ask yourself, when the wealth of the sky falls, can you catch it, can you keep it?
In fact, in the era of short videos, parents record their children's growth by taking videos, which is understandable in itself, and if there is still some income in the process, it is a surprise.
But the crux of the matter is that when the child suddenly explodes and the monstrous wealth sweeps in, as the helmsman of the child's growth, can the parents, as the helmsman on the road of the child's growth, be able to maintain their original intention and not be trapped by these fame and fortune, or let the family go with the flow under the dividends of the times and give up the track and direction that should belong to the normal operation of the family?
This may be a difficult question to answer, but it is also an easy question to answer.
Because I believe that the love of parents for their children is far-reaching.
Finally, I would like to conclude with a quote from the thinker Rousseau, who said:
Nature wants children to be like children before they become adults, and if we disrupt this order, we will produce some precocious fruits, which are neither plump nor sweet, and which rot quickly.
Of course, I also want to ask everyone, if this question is in front of you, what will you choose?