Xu Fan's early life and love for opera.
People know what I mean, and water knows what I worry about. Xu Fan, who grew up in a family of opera, has been accompanied by opera since he was a child.
She was born in Wuhan, Hubei Province, in a famous Yangge artist family, and her parents were both from Chu opera families, and she has a certain reputation in the local area.
Xu Fan's earliest memory is that his parents conjured different expressions on the stage, wearing splendid costumes and singing moving dialogues.
Whenever parents put down the theater, they would tell the story on stage at home. Xu Fan was smart and clever, and quickly memorized many jokes and lyrics.
She likes to secretly practice Xi on the side of the stage when her parents are not paying attention, imitating her parents' expressions and postures. Seeing it in his eyes, the father couldn't bear to interrupt his daughter's little dream, but just told her not to stain her clothes and left. The mother couldn't help but snicker and praised her daughter for her talent.
The stage has become the cradle of Xu Fan's growth. She loves opera and thinks it is the best career in the world. Her parents were worried about her career in the art world.
They know that this is a long and arduous journey, and they only rely on their dedication to art. But Xu Fan disagreed, she believed that as long as she worked hard, she would be able to leave her mark on this road.
Newborn calves are not afraid of tigers: the stubbornness and dream-chasing of young Xu Fan
Going to college and holding the admission letter is Xu Fan's first freedom. She is innocent and innocent, full of unrealistic illusions about the malice outside. Her parents did not agree with her to participate in the art examination, but they could not stop their daughter's desire for the stage. Xu Fan secretly applied for the Hubei Drama Academy and chose the undergraduate major of Peking Opera performance.
At that time, Xu Fan didn't understand anything. She only knows that she loves drama and wants to show her style on stage. The conditions in the school are rudimentary, with plenty of heating in the winter, and the buzzing electric fans in the summer do not stop mosquitoes from disturbing people. Xu Fan never complained, she practiced Xi basic skills and plot acting day after day, and worked hard to digest the teacher's guidance.
Sometimes practicing late at night, the exhausted Xu Fan just lay on the desk and took a nap. When I woke up the next day, my eyes were always blue and black, but my smile was still bright. She didn't complain, just because she finally caught up with her dream and came to the palace of drama. This is where she spreads her wings.
Changing paths: from drama class to Wuhan Repertory Theatre
Unfortunately, this rare opportunity did not last long. Just when Xu Fan was devoting himself to his Xi, the school suddenly announced that the drama performance major would be cancelled as a whole. This is undoubtedly a huge blow to Xu Fan, who loves the stage. However, she was not discouraged and resolutely chose another path.
Under the introduction of a teacher, the young Xu Fan came to the Wuhan Repertory Theatre to apply for a job. It's different from the campus, it's more busy, but it's just as exciting. After repeated auditions, Xu Fan relied on her own to make her finally selected and officially became a full-time drama actor.
Since then, Xu Fan has gradually shown his talent on the stage. She learns Xi efficiently, has a good memory, and quickly gets started with various types of plays. The veteran actors not only taught her acting skills, but also taught her a lot of stage experience.
Xu Fan kept it in mind and became more and more prominent. She finally found her stage and the path of life she dreamed of.
The opportunities and challenges of Chinese opera
After a performance, a professor from the Central Academy of Drama with a high reputation stepped forward and praised Xu Fan's performance. He invited Xu Fan to Beijing on the spot to apply for his acting department. This will be a new starting point for Xu Fan.
Chinese opera is the most noble dream place in Xu Fan's heart. However, the exam is extremely difficult and extremely competitive. Facing the performing arts talents from all over the world, Xu Fan thought about it heavily. Her family also did not support her leaving her home again to speculate and questioned her abilities.
Xu Fan chose to believe in himself. She tried her best to prepare for the competition, and finally successfully passed the third-level re-examination with her own strength. When I received the admission letter, I cried out loud with excitement and joy. From then on, Xu Fan will meet new challenges and usher in a new Xu Fan.
While studying at the Central Academy of Drama, Xu Fan met the teacher Wang Zhiwen. Wang Zhiwen is in the limelight in the college, and his talent and demeanor in teaching have left a deep impression on the students. Once after class, Wang Zhiwen left Xu Fan to communicate alone, and the two had a good impression from then on.
With the increase in communication with Wang Zhiwen, Xu Fan gradually fell in love with his witty and humorous personality. After an academy activity, Xu Fan mustered up the courage to confess his heart to Wang Zhiwen, and Wang Zhiwen agreed to her on the spot.
But on the day of the date, Xu Fan saw Wang Zhiwen discussing something intimately with another girl. In the face of Xu Fan's questioning, Wang Zhiwen just casually perfunctory, which made Xu Fan feel hurt.
Later, Xu Fan learned that Wang Zhiwen also had an ambiguous relationship with several other girls. The long-accumulated anger was about to erupt, and Xu Fan and Wang Zhiwen had a fierce quarrel.
Wang Zhiwen has never been able to face his feelings seriously, but uses Xu Fan as a plaything to adjust his life. This failed relationship made Xu Fan understand that a person's attitude towards feelings is crucial.
Career start: Xu Fan's acting career
After graduating from university, Xu Fan joined the Hunan Provincial Repertory Troupe. Here, she played many important roles with her impressive performance prowess, and soon became one of the core actors in the repertory troupe.
The seven-year relationship between Xu Fan and Feng Xiaogang not only made them deeply admire each other, but also allowed Xu Fan to cultivate a deeper understanding and tolerance. In the face of the outside world's criticism of this marriage, as well as Feng Xiaogang's various rumors in the past, Xu Fan faced it with a calm mind.
Regarding the outside world saying that she felt uncomfortable, Xu Fan said that this was the opinion of others rather than the truth. No matter what challenges her marriage may bring, she believes that with love and understanding, we can get through it together.
She has never complained about Feng Xiaogang's past, nor will she restrict the freedom of others for the sake of her own face.
Xu Fan believes that marriage is an agreement between two people to accompany each other for life, and it is not something that can be completely determined by a piece of law. What is more important is mutual respect, tolerance and support. Every relationship is not perfect, the important thing is how to grow, and one party can gradually get better without giving up.
In Xu Fan's view, marriage requires understanding and trust, not rules. As long as both parties are attentive, they can get through any ups and downs. This may come from the knowledge and experience she has accumulated on stage.
She knows how to endure and what it means to give. This mature insight is the secret of the lasting relationship between her and Feng Xiaogang.
Xu Fan and Feng Xiaogang's happy life
Over the years, Xu Fan and Feng Xiaogang have gradually gotten better like boiled frogs in warm water. Despite speculation from time to time, they all responded with the most peaceful attitude. Now, Feng Xiaogang's condition is under control, and Xu Fan is still living a bright life.
The two often participate in the activities of game companies together, and will post happy group photos to each other. Last year, they also attended events together and walked in and out intimately in front of the camera. It can be seen from the expression exchange that their relationship is the same as before, which makes netizens envy and praise.
After a long time of scribbling, Xu Fan and Feng Xiaogang have achieved a rare "long-term relationship" in the entertainment industry. They use their actions to interpret what it means to truly know and stay together. Now, Xu Fan no longer comments on his feelings, but uses daily sharing to reveal his happiness.
This may be the philosophy of love that they understand together - speak with life and express giving with support. What time is indelible, and it is always the beauty that echoes each other with their hearts.