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"Good character is the true wealth of the heart, and it is good upbringing that sets off this character. —this is a quote I saw in a book.
Since ancient times, upbringing, in fact, refers to a person's cultural and moral cultivation.
Cultured people, they will always pay attention to their words and deeds,
However, those who are not educated often lack moral character and personal cultivation, and act very freely, without taking into account the feelings of others, and are very selfish.
In life, everyone must like to associate with educated people and stay away from those who lack education, so what are the obvious manifestations of uneducated people?
"If a person is uneducated, he will know it at a glance": an uneducated person will have these three obvious manifestations:
01. There is no public morality and lack of quality in public.
Uneducated people often have no public morality, and will do some behaviors that affect others in some public places, lacking the quality that people should have.
For example, some people are outside, like to litter, obviously there are trash cans nearby, just don't want to take a few more steps; know that you can't smoke when you enter the elevator, and often go your own way, and you won't extinguish the cigarette butts before entering the elevator, which makes the elevator smoke smell very strong, which affects the physical and mental health of the same elevator person.
There are also some people who speak very loudly when they take the subway, or use their mobile phones to watch videos at a loud volume, which will undoubtedly cause trouble to those who like to be quiet in the same train.
If you notice that someone around you is constantly behaving like this, then there must be something wrong with this person's character and it is best to stay away.
02. Speak more casually and rudely, and will not pay attention to the occasion and observe other people's faces.
Some people like to interpret uneducated behavior as being straightforward and speaking with personality.
In fact, a truly cultured person is very careful when he speaks, and will take into account the current situation, and some words are not suitable for saying and will not affect others.
And those who lack education especially like to express themselves, they don't pay attention to the occasion when they speak, they don't observe the faces of others, they say things very casually, rudely, and even sarcastically mock others in public, which makes people sound very uncomfortable.
You contradict him, and he says you're too stingy, he's just joking.
In essence, such behavior is very selfish, and it is a prerequisite for people to communicate with each other and respect each other. It's not that you can express yourself as much as you want, without taking into account the feelings of others, which is disrespectful to others, and it is also a manifestation of low emotional intelligence and lack of personal cultivation.
03. Extremely jealous, likes to probe into other people's privacy, and then talk nonsense behind their backs.
There is also a major manifestation of uneducated people, that is, they especially like to probe into other people's privacy.
The essence of social networking is to be mutually beneficial, to share valuable information with each other, to communicate with each other on an equal footing, and to be honest.
However, such people will not think like this, they will extract the information they want to know from your mouth.
If they find out that you are living a good life or have achieved something in some way, they will feel uncomfortable in their hearts, they will be extremely jealous, and they will make irresponsible remarks behind their backs, adding fuel and vinegar, and they will not see the good of others in their hearts.
For such people, even if you have a good relationship, you must be very vigilant,
The more people we are familiar with, the more aware of our weaknesses, and once the other party wants to attack us, it is easy.
Their behavior will affect our lives, ruin our reputation, and cause us a lot of trouble, so it is better to stay away from them and not have any contact.