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As a well-known singer, Lu Wei has a "brilliant record" of appearing on the Spring Festival Gala 15 times, and her status in the singing industry naturally goes without saying.
It is not easy for a woman to achieve such a huge achievement, but don't think that Lu Wei is a woman and feel that she is very weak.
She has been "rebellious" since she was a child, daring to confront her parents, and is very rebellious.
And most of the songs she sings are "red songs", she is like a "sonorous rose", with a strong aura.
But no one thought that the strong woman who was "full of combat effectiveness" on the stage would have a complete "tragedy" in her love life.
Lu Wei and her boyfriend were once called "fairy couples", which made countless people envious, but it didn't take long for her boyfriend to be diagnosed with terminal cancer and no medical treatment.
Since then, Lu Wei has been almost paranoid about her feelings, and she has never touched love again, and now she is still unmarried at the age of 52, which makes fans worry.
Since childhood, he has been a "ticket friend"
A large part of the reason why Lu Wei can embark on the path of singing is that her family, parents and grandmother are both opera actors.
In 1971, Lu Wei was born in a family of opera, and she has been soaking in the opera garden since she was a child, watching her uncles and aunts perform on the stage every day.
If nothing else, Lu Wei will inherit her grandmother's mantle, but this matter has been strongly opposed by her parents.
Young Lu Wei
's father bluntly said: "It's too hard to learn drama, you are a girl, and you will definitely not be able to do this in the future!"
However, if Lu Wei is an ordinary child, it doesn't matter, she will be "forced" to listen to music every day, and she has also developed a great interest in opera.
Photo of Lu Wei's Yue drama
At this time, her parents didn't realize that Lu Wei was already a little "ticket friend", and after graduating from elementary school, Lu Wei was admitted to the Little White Flower Yue Troupe with her own efforts.
The parents suddenly understood, but it was too late, Lu Wei was already immersed in the world of opera and couldn't extricate herself.
But her father tried his best to stop her, after all, her parents knew how hard it was, and they only hoped that Lu Wei could grow up happily and there was no need to endure those hardships.
As a result, the opposition of her parents made Lu Wei's rebellious psychology "grow" wildly, no matter what her parents said, she was one sentence: "It's impossible for me to give up studying drama." ”
Lu Wei in college
In 1986, Lu Wei was admitted to the music class of Xianghu Normal University, and in order to avoid her parents, she became a teacher directly at her alma mater after graduation.
Although the university is big, in Lu Wei's view, this is a "cage" that binds her, and sooner or later she will rush out of the campus and walk towards the stage of her dreams.
She just needs a chance, a chance to prove herself.
Be heroic and become a soldier
The days of waiting are always difficult, after two years, the 6th National Young Singer TV Contest has opened the selection, and those with excellent results can also be on CCTV.
Of course, Lu Wei would not let go of this opportunity, she turned around and went to sign up, after all, this was her long-standing dream.
Lu Wei successfully won the silver award with the song "Ascending a Look", and after years of accumulation, Lu Wei was relieved for a moment.
Because of her outstanding performance in the competition, she also received an olive branch from the Beijing Haizheng Song and Dance Troupe, which not only realized her dream of singing, but also had the unexpected joy of becoming a soldier.
In order to prove that she was on the right path, Lu Wei mailed a photo of her military uniform to her family, but her father just replied coldly: "You think too simply, you cherish yourself." ”
Photo of Lu Wei's military uniform
But no parent in the world will really be angry with their children, the father just doesn't want to admit that he is wrong, this is a typical "Chinese-style father", never bow his head.
But as soon as he turned around, when relatives and friends came to the house, his father would take out a photo of Lu Wei wearing a military uniform, saying that Lu Wei was not very promising, but the corners of his mouth were about to be suppressed.
Every time he heard someone praise his daughter, the father couldn't even disguise it, laughed, and wanted everyone to know that his daughter was not only a good singer, but also a soldier.
It's just that Lu Wei didn't know these at that time, she was still learning Xi music under Teacher Jin Tielin, and she also suffered a lot.
Lu Wei, who had just arrived in Beijing at that time, was not very adaptable to the weather in Beijing, especially in winter, when she was often shivering from the cold.
But these Lu Wei can still be overcome, the key is that she lives in a small house of 6 square meters in Beijing, the humidity at night is too great, and the quilt dried during the day is still wet after a night.
Jin Tielin and Lu Wei
Not only that, but it is even more difficult for her to go to the toilet at night, she has no private toilet and can only go to the public toilet, and the nearest public toilet is also two streets away.
But these have never defeated Lu Wei, she desperately learned to Xi singing, fantasizing that one day she can also stand on the highest stage.
Unexpectedly, Lu Wei's fantasy finally came true, and she appeared on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala, allowing the national audience to hear her voice.
After the Spring Festival Gala ended, this stubborn girl walked for more than two hours at night, stepping on the snow and making a "crunch, crunch" sound, but she couldn't wait to go faster because she wanted to go home.
The scene of the Spring Festival Gala
As soon as she got home, she couldn't wait to call her parents: "Mom and Dad, have you seen it? ”
At that moment, Lu Wei cried uncontrollably, as if she had become a little girl again, and she had too many grievances in her heart to tell her parents.
Lu Wei and her parents
Even if they are thousands of miles away, they still can't hold back their tears, just like what is written in the poem, "The light boat has crossed ten thousand mountains".
The Spring Festival Gala not only improved Lu Wei's fame, but also allowed her to harvest an unforgettable love in her life.
Eternal death loves, heartache
In 1997, 26-year-old Lu Wei met the love of her life, a Shandong man, tall, and graduated from a prestigious school, 5 years older than Lu Wei.
The two talked about everything together, from career to ideals, and then from life to love, and it didn't take long for the two to fall in love.
If nothing else, the two will get married and have children after a period of love, and spend their lives together.
However, in the second year of their relationship, Lu Wei learned an unacceptable news that her boyfriend had cancer, and it was still terminal!
Lu Wei panicked for a moment, she tried hard to adjust her emotions, but she still burst into tears, because she couldn't even deceive herself, she understood what the word "late" meant.
The boyfriend, who was originally tall, lost weight rapidly under the torture of the disease, and looked empty when he put on a hospital gown.
Every time Lu Wei saw this scene, she couldn't help but feel distressed, she had to comfort her boyfriend with her singing voice, humming over and over again, as if time would not pass too quickly.
But in 2000, my boyfriend still left, which is actually a miracle, a terminal cancer patient can last for two years.
Maybe her boyfriend also wants to accompany Lu Wei more, even if it is good for a minute longer, but God is ruthless, so that the two people who love each other so much are separated like this.
Lu Wei hugged her mother and cried uncontrollably, every time she recalled the bits and pieces of the past two years, Lu Wei's heart was like being twisted by a knife, and she was in pain.
Even if her boyfriend has died, Lu Wei will still go to see him, maybe Lu Wei's tears have dried up in those two years, and she is silent every time she goes to her boyfriend's tombstone.
Or maybe the real pain is the silence of great sorrow, but we have no way of knowing, only that Lu Wei has no plans to get married since her boyfriend died.
Today's Lu Wei is 52 years old and still alone, and she often shares some food and beautiful scenery on her social accounts, allowing us to see a different Lu Wei.
Up to the hall, down to the kitchen
Lu Wei left the impression on the audience that she was tough, unstained with dust, and seemed to belong to the stage as soon as she was born.
But according to the photos shared by Lu Wei, this is completely different from the audience's stereotype of her.
In March 2023, Lu Wei and her friend Sun Hao rowed and swam together, looking still beautiful and generous.
She will also often appear in the army to comfort the soldiers, wearing a military uniform with a heroic posture, speaking softly, soft and glutinous.
It was at this time that everyone thought that Lu Wei was a girl who lived in the water town in the south of the Yangtze River since she was a child, and her hometown was in Hangzhou.
We can also see from the photos she shared that she was sitting next to the firewood hot pot and burning firewood, and couldn't help but sigh that in fact, Lu Wei was also an ordinary person when she left the stage, and she would enjoy the fireworks in the world.
summary
Judging from Lu Wei's current living state, she is no longer as sad as before and has started a slow life.
Maybe I still can't forget my boyfriend, and I won't get married for the rest of my life, but it doesn't matter, as long as Lu Wei feels happy, it's enough.
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The information in this article is from:
[1] Baidu Encyclopedia Lv Wei-https://baike.baidu.com/link?url=gqY9986ecNyNJWa3bu3SzkAQKUSZPoyTpcPToQCjpIUvWXAfN8TjbgTOqHHF1WfX8hwWIaQ7-XlSZuvYlVydk_
[2] Zhejiang Online Ningbo-http://nb.zjol.com.cn/system/2017/06/02/021526875.shtml
[3] China News Network-https://www.chinanews.com/kong/2012/01-10/3593035.shtml
[4] CCTV-https://news.cnr.cn/zt2017/zgdwt/yylm/jdt/20180415/t20180415_524199530.shtml