#头条创作挑战赛#
"If there are troubles in your life, it is your way of thinking that is wrong. ”
Flexible thinking is an asset that you will use throughout your life, and it will help you regain clarity in difficult situations.
Many problems arise because the mind is bound.
If the human mind is trapped in one place,
Stubbornly believing that there is only one solution to a problem, then the status quo will never change.
The painter Rockwell once said from his own experience:
"Insight comes first and foremost from being thoughtful. ”
The insight that can solve the problem must also be indispensable to the new thinking generated by the collision of old thinking. New thinking is a new way out.
01
It's about socializing
Don't reverse the basic order of interpersonal relationships.
- Understand first, then make friends
The sea in the world knows the depth, only the human heart is difficult to measure.
When you first meet someone, you can only say three points, and you can't throw away all your hearts.
The scars in your heart may become an after-dinner conversation when they reach others;
Your unintentional remarks may become evidence that others attack you in the future.
The words are shallow and deep, and the gentleman is precautioned.
Understand who he is first, and then consider how many words to say.
Always follow a reasonable order in order to live up to others and not hurt yourself.
- Listen first, then speak
There is a saying: Only by listening well to others can you speak better about yourself.
If you have a request for someone, learn to listen first.
This process will quickly bring you closer to others.
Once others feel comfortable with you, many things can be easily solved.
02
About cognition
True knowledge comes from within, not from others. At the same time, only knowledge that comes from the heart can lead to true wisdom.
The way is not to seek, but to seek from the heart.
True wisdom is the observation and insight into the nature of things with the mind.
The heart is reason, and it is the root of sensing all things.
Learning Xi enlightenment is not to seek from the outside, but to go inward.
Activate your own experience and feelings, and mobilize the potential for inspiration.
The unity of knowledge and action, and the promotion of action with knowledge, will form its own knowledge system, and finally seek the wisdom of the scriptures.
Someone once said, "It's a great thing to use the experience and knowledge that humans already have to create." ”
Goethe said: "There is no future for those who cannot learn from the experience of 3,000 years." ”
When a person's eyes are fixed on the square inch in front of him, it is difficult to look up and see the vast mountains and rivers.
Only by learning from others' strengths, learning from excellent ideas Xi, riding the wind, and taking advantage of the situation.
It will surely break the solidified ego, meet the light of the wisdom of the predecessors, and move forward steadily.
03
It's about growth
In this life, there are boundaries in vision and high walls in thinking.
Only by constantly improving oneself can we cross the fence in our hearts.
To read, to experience, to broaden the breadth of horizons.
Only by breaking the monolithic cognition and cultivating a pluralistic mindset can we stand in a higher dimension and see the many facets of the world.
Only then will we use flexible perspectives and strategies to find a breakthrough in the problem and easily break the situation.
A person who is strong at heart, allows everything to happen.
There are such walls in the journey of life.
It may block your bright future and leave you with regrets, or it may trap you in a square inch and make you feel lonely.
In the face of life's difficulties, stop blindly competing.
Learn to be indifferent, allow everything to happen, accept parting, enjoy loneliness, and one day, all difficulties will turn into a bright and smooth road.