Bu Yi is an ordinary old man, he has just retired, and he can finally live a leisurely life. Who knows, his face was not full of joy at all, but full of worry.
It turned out that Buyi Rough Food found that he had developed some bad Xi in his life, which made him feel worried.
The first thing I realized was that I had recently become mobile phone-in-hand. Whether at home or out, he always buries his head in playing with his mobile phone, watching videos and watching the news, as if he is completely addicted.
To make matters worse, Bu Yi has been playing with his phone like this for a month, not noticing that this has become one of his bad Xi.
In addition, he also found himself singing and dancing loudly in public, completely ignoring whether it would affect others. He was even more horrified to realize that he would even crawl in the trees and perform all sorts of dangerous and difficult maneuvers to show that he was still young.
This is obviously also a very dangerous and inappropriate behavior, and it has become another bad Xi of my own.
In addition, Buyi Coarse Food was shocked to find that he often lost his temper with his family for no reason, and he got angry at every turn. He knew that this had seriously affected the family atmosphere and made the home a place where there was no warmth to speak of.
This is also one of the bad Xi that must be corrected.
After careful consideration, Buyi found that he had a total of six bad Xi habits that needed to be corrected. He looked at himself in the mirror, his face full of sadness, and admitted that quitting these bad Xi was a very difficult task.
But for the sake of his own happy life, Cloth Rough Food decided to break these bad Xi and regain the joy of life.
The first bad Xi I found myself correcting was that my phone was used for too long. He calculated that he spent most of the day playing with his phone.
Not only when I was at home, I would keep scrolling through mobile phone videos; Even when he is away from home, he will keep staring at the screen of his phone for fear of missing any information.
This kind of long-term use of mobile phones has seriously affected the normal life of cloth clothes and coarse food. During the day, he is addicted to the virtual world, completely ignoring his family and real life; At night, he was reluctant to put down his mobile phone to sleep, resulting in headaches and eye soreness.
Moreover, playing with mobile phones for a long time also made Bu Yi Rough Food depressed and anxious, and he was always afraid of missing out on important information.
What's more, using mobile phones for a long time also puts cloth clothes and coarse food at a huge risk of being scammed. According to relevant surveys, more than 60% of the elderly have been victimized by various scams through mobile phones, among which online fraud is the most serious.
He found that he often saw false information in various posts, and many strange numbers sent him spam text messages.
Bu Yi realized that his heavy dependence on his mobile phone had drained his energy and put him in danger of being deceived. He is determined to break this bad Xi, reasonably control the time of using his mobile phone, reserve enough time to spend with his family and friends every day, and stay away from his mobile phone for more than 1 hour to keep his mood calm.
Quitting the bad Xi of mobile phones will be an important step in retaining blessings.
The second bad Xi I found myself in need of correction was to often engage in dangerous violent movements in public places. Whenever he walked in the park by himself, he would suddenly let go of his hands and feet and start dancing a dangerous square dance on the grass, as if he were going to show it for others.
Once, the cloth coarse food even fell in love with a tall tree on the side of the road, so he climbed it directly. As he climbed, he had to look back to see if anyone was watching him below.
I thought that I could prove that I was still very young and energetic. As everyone knows, this kind of behavior is very dangerous, and once you miss and fall, the consequences are unimaginable.
What's even more exaggerated is that when Buyi saw that there was fitness equipment in the park, he went up and waved it around, wanting to show that he was still strong. He completely disregarded his physical condition and used all kinds of equipment.
As a result, once accidentally, Buyi Coarse Food fell off the balance ball and almost broke his leg.
These violent movements are not only dangerous, but also have a serious impact on the image of cloth and clothing. Passers-by will avoid him when they see him like this. Cloth Clothes and Rough Food realized that they must break this bad Xi, no longer dance in public, climb trees, and use unfamiliar equipment, and must pay attention to their own safety.
In this way, he can avoid accidents and avoid being looked at differently by others.
The third bad Xi I found myself in was often forcing young people to give up their seats on buses. Whenever he took the bus with coarse clothes, he always put on a weak appearance as soon as he got on the bus, and he pretended to be limping when he walked.
Once in the car, Bu Yi began to look around the remaining seats, targeting the young man with a strong body. Then he staggered over and said to the young man, "Young man, give up a seat to the old man."
"Even if there are no empty seats on the bus, the coarse clothes will forcibly drive the young people out of their seats.
What's even more despicable is that in order to force young people to give up their seats, they will even threaten the other party: "If you don't give up your seat, don't you respect the elderly?" His actions caused displeasure among the other passengers on the bus, but the cloth was unimpressed.
Cloth clothes and rough food realized that his practice of relying on the preferential treatment of the elderly but ignoring the feelings of others has seriously deviated from public morality and ethics. This made his image in society plummet.
In order to save his reputation, Buyi is determined to quit this bad Xi and give young people love rather than power suppression.
The fourth bad Xi I found myself in cloth clothes was to often lose my temper with my family at home for no reason. Whenever the family members behaved slightly unsatisfactory, Buyi would immediately scold each other loudly.
For example, once, when the son of the coarse cloth accidentally stuck the rice to the tablecloth while eating, the coarse food immediately flew into a rage and slapped the table, which scared the son a lot.
The cloth clothes and coarse food scolded his son for wasting food, and said that his son was "useless".
Even his coarsely clothed wife often suffers from his inexplicable anger. Once my wife's hand accidentally touched the vase on the coffee table, and the cloth clothes and coarse food immediately scolded, saying that my wife was "clumsy".
He even denied his wife's many years of companionship.
Cloth clothes and coarse food often lose their temper, causing the atmosphere at home to become extremely heavy and depressing. The children and their wives did not dare to say superfluous words, for fear of angering the cloth and coarse food.
Buyi realized that his temper had seriously damaged the happiness of his family, and this had to be corrected.
The fifth bad Xi I found myself in cloth and coarse food is that every time I go to socialize, I will only be close to people. In order to please others, cloth and coarse food will grovel and say irrelevant compliments.
Once I went to the birthday party of the deceased and met a former leader. Cloth clothes and coarse food immediately stepped forward excitedly, and with a smile and even called "chief guide" and "leader", saying that his achievements back then were all thanks to the leader's support.
In the end, he exaggerated that he would never forget the kindness of the leader.
Even if you are not familiar with it, you have to come forward and be courteous and send all kinds of flattery. He tries to curry favor by saying pandering words, but often the opposite is true.
People are not surprised when they hear the sycophants of cloth and food, and treat him as a person who flatters others for a living.
Cloth and coarse food realized that his approach was very undignified, and he also lost his sincere character. He was determined to break this bad Xi and treat people with sincerity instead of relying on flattery.
The sixth bad Xi I found myself was to often comment on others and say irresponsible remarks. He likes to spread around, criticizing the shortcomings of others, but never examining himself.
For example, when the neighbor's child sees his neighbor's children's grades regressing, he says that it is because the neighbor spoils the children too much; Seeing that an acquaintance's business failed, Buyi said that this person must be mismanaged.
As everyone knows, these negative comments may hurt the parties.
Once, when Buyi saw a new neighbor who had just moved in, he laughed at the poor taste of the other person's clothes behind his back. This is overheard by the new neighbor, which leads to a very tense relationship between the two from the beginning.
Such casual criticism of cloth clothes and coarse food often arouses the disgust of others. There are also people who criticize others like cloth clothes and rough food, and in turn criticize the shortcomings of cloth clothes and rough food, which leads to the shame of cloth clothes and rough food.
Cloth and coarse food realized that in order to quit this bad Xi, we should no longer judge others casually, but understand each other.
After reflection, Buyi realized that the above six bad Xi habits were all consuming his blessings to varying degrees.
First of all, playing with mobile phones for a long time not only wastes time, but also makes cloth clothes and coarse food lose contact with reality and become slaves swayed by the Internet. This ruined the quality of his life.
Secondly, regular dangerous sports can not only lead to accidents, but also leave a barbaric impression among the neighbors and gain social ostracism.
In addition, the forced relinquishment of seats on the bus demonstrates the arrogant attitude of trampling on others and losing people's respect.
In addition, he was angry with his family for no reason, which destroyed the warmth of the family and made the cloth and coarse food lose the joy of life.
In addition, flattering people everywhere shows the hypocritical character of cloth clothes and food, making him a clown who pleases others.
In the end, criticizing people everywhere and finding fault with others' shortcomings makes cloth and food make many enemies in the neighborhood, and life becomes unhappy.
All kinds of bad Xi that alienate people's hearts are gradually consuming the enthusiasm for life in the hearts of cloth and clothing. He realized that if he didn't get rid of these bad Xi, he was stepping towards the opposite of a happy life.
Cloth is determined to make a change.
In order to redeem his blessings, Buyi summoned all his courage and began to correct his bad Xi step by step.
For mobile phone dependence, cloth clothes and coarse food have established a rule that the use of mobile phones cannot exceed 2 hours a day. He also frequently participates in neighborhood activities to reintegrate himself into the community.
In terms of outdoor activities, cloth clothes and coarse food no longer carry out difficult action performances. Instead, he opted for gentle exercises such as tai chi that were appropriate for his age, so that his body could be moderately exercised.
When taking the bus, the cloth and coarse food take the initiative to give up the seat to the young people. He always has a smile on his face and is in harmony with passengers of all ages.
Back home, cloth clothes and coarse food no longer lose their temper at will. He took the time to listen to his family's ideas, giving praise and encouragement. Life is warm again.
Cloth and coarse food are no longer flattering people everywhere, but treat people with sincerity and express their own unique opinions. He gained the respect of more of his friends.
In the end, cloth clothes and coarse food control themselves no longer comment on others at will. Instead, he gave his neighbors more understanding and kindness.
Through continuous efforts, Cloth Clothes and Coarse Food have successfully eliminated these bad Xi that cost blessings. He regained his positive and optimistic attitude, and his life became more colorful.
The story of coarse food shows us that breaking bad Xi is the key to happiness.
Through the story of cloth and clothing, we can draw an important lesson from life: to achieve happiness, we must first quit those bad Xi that consume blessings.
The six bad Xi in the story of cloth and rough food all hurt his quality of life to a greater or lesser extent. These bad Xi made him lose face in front of his family and neighbors, and also wasted his time and energy needlessly.
What's more, these bad Xi are eroding the enthusiasm for life little by little.
However, after realizing the seriousness of the problem, Buyi still mustered up the courage to correct it. He did not give up lightly because of his age or the long-term formation of Xi habits, but insisted on getting rid of bad Xi habits little by little and regaining blessings.
The story of coarse clothing proves that each of us has the power to change. The key is to face up to your bad Xi and take action to correct them. With perseverance and perseverance, we can get a new life, just like the coarse clothes and food.
So, let's start today, reflect and quit the bad Xi in our lives.