1. Don't judge people.
Don't talk about the rights and wrongs of others.
Talking about the rights and wrongs of others is a very bad way to behave.
The ancients told us that if we are always checking ourselves and are not timeless, how can we have the strength to check others.
Confucius also said, "Bow to oneself and take responsibility for others." ”
In life, you have your right and wrong, he has his right and wrong, right and wrong are always unclear, many of them are based on personal positions to produce personal judgments, and people are often burdened by right and wrong.
ps: It is better for two people to communicate without talking about the third person, and only talking about good things, talking about things that are worth learning and Xi.
There will be more than three people to talk about the scene, not to mention those who are not present.
When making friends, you must keep your eyes open, and don't make deep friends with people who like to talk about others, because the more people who like to talk about others, they will have many shortcomings and don't face them squarely.
Only by being righteous can we be righteous.
2. Introspection.
Self-examination is very necessary.
Self-reflection lies in constantly reflecting on oneself and being good at taking responsibility.
If people always blame others for seeing other people's mistakes, they will not see their own shortcomings, but self-reflection can see their own shortcomings and correct them in time, so that they can make themselves better and better.
Knowing how to introspect is great wisdom; Dare to introspect is brave.
A gentleman's mistakes are like eclipses of the sun and the moon, which can be seen by everyone, but after being corrected, they will be respected more highly. ps: Now I will pay more attention to the people and things around me, and if I find that I still have something that I am not doing well enough, I will write down reflections, remind myself not to make the same mistakes again, and continue to know myself and improve myself.
3. Self-knowledge.
Only when you know yourself well can you know how many pounds and taels you have and how much value you have, so that you can know yourself.
If you are too confident, you will not know the weight.
If you are too self-conscious, you will feel inferior to others.
Self-knowledge comes from self-cultivation and self-prudence.
Because self-examination can be self-control and self-discipline, self-discipline can be self-respecting and self-respecting, and self-respect can be self-confident and self-reliant.
Self-esteem is integrity, self-knowledge is wisdom, and self-control is self-cultivation.
In the event of an emergency, he can judge the situation, be good at pursuing advantages and avoiding disadvantages, and rarely have a sense of frustration, and his expectation will be higher.
4. Seek merit with mantras.
Speaking is an art, knowing how to speak, what to say on what occasion, this is a strategy of speaking, but there is a standard for this speech, that is, to tell the truth.
Telling the truth is rare, especially at certain times and situations.
It's the truth that really touches people's hearts.
However, on some occasions, it is necessary to pay attention to the way in which it is spoken. ps: One sentence can make others laugh, and one sentence can also annoy people.
There are differences in personality between people in all aspects, and when encountering occasions and things that are inconvenient to speak out, being subtle can produce the effect of roundabout speech.
Be mindful at all times and speak the right word.
Thanksgiving for every day's encounter, I wish you all peace, health and auspiciousness.
