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The second aunt is the kind of person who always treats family trivial matters with a straightforward attitude. Every time there is a happy event at home, such as a wedding at a relative's house or a full moon wine, she can always find various reasons not to participate, and even specially arrange various reasons that seem objective and practical, but are actually vague to deal with. This time it was her family's turn to have a happy event, but she didn't expect it, but she began to panic.
One day, I was sitting around the house, bored looking at my phone. Suddenly, the mobile phone rang, and the name of the second aunt was displayed on the screen. I'm a little curious because she doesn't usually like to call at night. After receiving the phone, the anxious voice of the second aunt came: "Do you know, my family is going to hold a grand wedding this time, but I really don't have the confidence to deal with it, can you help me come up with an idea?" It turned out that her children were getting married, and she was worried that her wedding event would not be as grand as others', and she began to feel anxious.
"Weddings are one of the most important things in life, and this is the only time in your child's life, so why would you be so hesitant?" I tried to enlighten her.
"You don't understand, every time someone else's happy event is so grand, my family ...... this time," the second aunt said incomprehensibly.
"Other people's happy events have nothing to do with yours, you just need to have your own wedding. Besides, happy events still vary from person to person, and it doesn't matter whether it's grand or not, what matters is the heart. I patiently explained to her.
"However, I always feel that if I can't do it, I will be laughed at. The second aunt's voice trembled a little.
"Fool, do you care what people think of you? you just need to plan a warm wedding for your child, everything else is secondary. "I tried to comfort her.
"I ...... I see, thank you. The second aunt's tone gradually calmed down.
In the next few days, I would receive daily calls from my second aunt, who asked me about wedding planning, such as wedding decoration, menu design, and so on. With the joint efforts of me and her, she gradually became full of confidence. Finally, on the wedding day, looking at the happy appearance of the second aunt's children and the bride, she finally forgot her previous troubles. The whole wedding was full of family warmth and touch, and became a beautiful memory that the family will never forget. Looking at the happy smiles of the newcomers, the second aunt finally let go of the burden in her heart and was really happy.
After the wedding, my second aunt and I drank wedding wine in the corner of the wedding banquet and enjoyed the blessings of the guests. I suddenly asked her, "Second aunt, you didn't forget to refuse to come to your relatives' happy event just now." "I deliberately teased her.
The second aunt smiled but didn't say a word, and twisted my shoulder: "Little guy, you also know that I used to always find excuses to avoid this kind of scene. But now I want to say that it's not because I don't think it's good to do happy events, it's just that I always feel a little burdensome and don't want to get involved. She said apologetically.
"Looks like this wedding has made you see things differently. "I noticed that she seemed to have something on her mind.
"Yes, thank you for your help. This wedding was very warm and touching, and I also felt that I had changed and learned to face and accept. The second aunt said with some emotion, "I always felt that I had to take care of the overall situation, and I was afraid that my own affairs would cause trouble to others." But now I understand that everyone has the right to pursue their own happiness and deserves the blessings of family and friends. ”
I looked at her with some emotion in my eyes: "Second aunt, I haven't seen you so honest and sincere in so many years, maybe this matter is really meaningful to you." ”
"Yes, maybe I never really understood what happiness was, I was just being dragged down by some worries. But now, I think I'm starting to get it. The second aunt was silent for a moment and said in a firm tone.
We talked for a long time in the middle of the night wedding banquet about happiness, responsibility, growth...... The second aunt seems to have found the deep expectation in her heart. And I also learned that everyone has their own happiness, and behind happiness is the responsibility that needs courage to face and bear.
Gradually, the wedding ended, and the words of blessings from the family lingered in my ears. On this night full of happiness, the second aunt also seemed to have found herself. She looked into the distance, a warm smile on her face. What I saw in her eyes was no longer the anxiety and uneasiness of the past, but more of a kind of stability and satisfaction. Perhaps, at every stage of life, we need to go through some growing pains and struggles, and learn to face and accept.
Everything is changing in an incredible way, because we are willing to bloom with different powers. I believe that the second aunt's life will be better because of this wedding. May this warm happiness always accompany her.
After the wedding, the second aunt seemed to become more cheerful and open-minded. She offered to hold some family gatherings and invite friends and family to share the joy together. At a party, she pulled me and said as she drank her drink, "Young man, thank you so much for giving me so much encouragement and help." I used to feel like the whole world was revolving around me, and I felt that I was carrying too much responsibility and pressure. Who knows, it turns out that happiness is so simple, as long as I open my heart and accept happiness, I finally understand. ”
I replied with a smile: "Second aunt, everyone will encounter problems, the important thing is to learn to face them." And you did it, and you understood that your happiness is so good. ”
She looked at me deeply: "In the future, I will participate in more happy events of relatives and friends, and repay everyone with my sharing and blessings." Because I now understand that happiness needs to be shared, and it also needs to be giving. ”
I put down the wine glass and gently patted her shoulder: "Second aunt, I believe that your heart will touch many people." Happiness will continue to be passed on. ”
Since then, my second aunt and I have become more friends and confidants. Every time she gets together, she actively participates and shares her joy. That open-minded and cheerful attitude also infected the relatives and friends around him, and a more harmonious atmosphere was permeated in the family.
Time passed quietly, and one day, I went to my second aunt's house as a guest. She carefully brewed a pot of fragrant Longjing tea for me, and I sat down, feeling the fragrance of tea and the faint smile of the second aunt. She sighed quietly and said to me, "Over the years, I seem to have really changed, and I feel that life is no longer so cumbersome, but full of expectations and enjoyment." ”
I said excitedly, "Second aunt, I'm really happy for you. Your change is also a kind of transformation of your own life. ”
She smiled slightly: "Yes, I have found my own happiness and learned to enjoy the beauty." Perhaps, maturity is to learn to face and accept better, and to be optimistic about new challenges. ”
We looked at each other and smiled, and I believe that the second aunt found inner peace and happiness in this journey. And I, in the process, also learned that happiness is actually around us, as long as we open our hearts and face it sincerely, happiness will follow. The ordinary life is also more full and happy because of this understanding. The story of the second aunt also gave me a deeper understanding of growth and happiness.
The afterglow of the sunset that day was reflected outside the window, as warm as the smile of the second aunt. She said with emotion: "I can't imagine that after so many years, the bits and pieces of life have also taught me how to face it calmly, to feel the beauty of life, and to learn to share and give." All of this makes me feel that this is happiness. ”
She continued: "Perhaps, I was always thinking about how to please others, but I ignored my own feelings. And when I began to face it calmly and truly pursue my own happiness, I realized that this is the true meaning of life. ”
I smiled with deep feeling and said: "Maybe it's the tempering of experience, or maybe it's the baptism of years, we finally learn to taste that precious happiness in ordinary life." ”
The second aunt smiled and sighed softly: "Yes, maybe life is like this, occasionally take a wrong step, but also learn to face it calmly." Only in this way can we feel the beauty of life. ”
As night fell, we continued to talk about happiness. Perhaps, happiness does not need to be so exaggerated, but hidden in a sincere and kind heart. This understanding of happiness also made me feel more moved and experienced, and planted the seeds of happiness in my heart. The experience of the second aunt is not only her own growth, but also a kind of inspiration to each of us, so that we can learn to feel happiness in ordinary days.
Life may be a journey about happiness. Perhaps, when we feel every subtle beauty with our hearts, when we know how to calmly face the ups and downs of life, we can find that happiness is actually around us. Perhaps, this is the best appearance of life. I hope that the story of the second aunt can also stir in our hearts, so that we can get that sincere happiness in our ordinary lives.
Under the warm moonlight, my second aunt and I gradually dispersed the topic. She picked up the teacup and said with a smile: "Thank you for your companionship and encouragement all the time, and you have also taught me to feel life with my heart and enjoy happiness." ”
I also smiled and said: "Maybe every experience in life is a kind of harvest, I hope we can all learn to feel and cherish in ordinary life." ”
We were smiling and savoring the aroma of tea together. The bright starry sky under the moonlight is accompanied by the light breeze, quiet and warm. Perhaps, every feeling in life is a happy harvest. This happiness is also hidden in ordinary days, as long as we experience it with our hearts and feel it with our hearts. Perhaps, it is this understanding of happiness that makes our lives full of infinite possibilities, and also makes us understand that our happiness is not easy to come by, and makes us feel the beauty and happiness of life from the heart.
I nodded, feeling the same way: "Yes, maybe happiness doesn't need to be bustling and noisy, it is hidden in the bits and pieces of life, and we feel and taste it with our hearts." Perhaps, this is the true happiness. ”
The second aunt smiled slightly and said firmly: "Yes, learn to feel the bits and pieces of life, learn to feel with your heart, I think this may be the true meaning of life." ”
The starlight outside the window is still bright, quiet and beautiful, and we continue to enjoy this peace and happiness. The mood at this moment is peaceful and beautiful, because we understand the meaning of life and the true meaning of happiness.
Every experience, every insight, is a part of happiness, and this happiness also makes our lives more fulfilling and happier.
On that quiet night, I talked a lot with my second aunt, and she also shared a lot of her innermost feelings and experiences. Perhaps, everyone has their own happiness, as long as you feel it with your heart and pursue it with your heart, happiness will hide in every corner of life, quietly waiting for us to discover and understand. This is the most sincere and pure happiness, and it is the happiness that each of us deserves.