There is a saying on the Internet that says, "A man's heart, a needle under the sea." ”
You think you know him, but you only know the side he wants you to know. But in fact, there are also some unknown dead holes in men's hearts. These dead holes are their deepest secrets, and they are also their most vulnerable places. If you can master these dead holes, you will be able to grasp his heart better.
1. His past
Everyone has a past, and men are no exception. Their past may be scarred or glorious. But either way, it deserves our respect and understanding. A wise woman will not keep asking about a man's past, but will give him enough space and time to heal. Because they know that only when a man is truly willing to let go of the past will he devote himself to the present relationship.
Second, his spiritual needs
Men care more about their spiritual world than love. What they need is understanding, respect, and recognition, not endless bickering and suspicion. A wise woman will always pay attention to the man's mental state, understand his needs and thoughts, and give him enough space and time. They know how to listen to a man's voice and will give him positive feedback and support. Only such a woman can truly enter a man's inner world and become his soul mate.
Another example is a sentence circulating on the Internet: "The beauty and loneliness in the depths of the soul always need someone who understands it to accompany you." ”
3. His self-esteem
Men's self-esteem is their most precious thing. They can endure poverty, hardship and frustration, but they can never bear to be questioned and insulted. A wise woman will always take care of a man's face and self-esteem. They know how to save face for men in public, and they will also give men enough support and encouragement in private. They know how to maintain a man's self-esteem and make him feel respected and loved.
As the rephrased sentence in "Girls' School": "I have always been unable to believe that love can be so hot and lasting, but I have always been moved by you." ”
To love someone is to know what they are all about. This includes not only his strengths and strengths, but also his weaknesses and weaknesses. And men's emotional death hole is the deepest secret and vulnerability in their hearts. It is only when you truly understand and respect these dead holes that you can truly grasp His heart. Therefore, a wise woman will not treat a man with strength and suspicion, but will understand and support him with her heart. Because they know that such a woman is the most precious person in a man's heart.
Finally, may we be accompanied by loved ones for the rest of our lives, share endless joys, love each other when we meet, and be united forever!
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