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Good guy, it's the first time I've seen the plot of all the people persuading in Lianzong...
If you don't make a sound, it's just the first ⬇️ hot search
看这热度，得有多气人啊... 😳
The incident originated from the variety show "The Battle of Love".
The show is carried out in the mode of competition + love comprehensive, 10 couples preparing for marriage have to pass a series of true love trials.
For example, walking in a wedding suit and walking in a quagmire ⬇️
Blindfolded ⬇️
Racing tug-of-war ⬇️
There is also a terrifying soul torture session ⬇️
The question is, with so many tests, what can you do if you win?
The program team gave the answer: a generous marriage fund ⬇️
On the setting, belike Han Zong's "290 Million: Marriage War". ⬇️
The two protagonists in the hot search are one of the contestants.
Male Zhang Bohou,
Under the age of conspicuous bag brother ⬇️
The first person in Chinese paddle tennis ⬇️
Athletes, but cowards ⬇️
Woman Zhai Yu,
I love to cry my sister ⬇️ in the year
He is also a tennis player ⬇️
The character is more sensual, and it is easy to drop small pearls.
But the competition is not soft,
Look at how confident ⬇️ this declaration is
Anti-difference 🈶
He is timid, she is domineering.
The age difference is 3 years ⬇️
Because of the common hobby of tennis, he is called "cricket cp".
A sister dog cp stacked with sweet buffs
Since it is a love series, the two are a couple preparing for marriage.
Sugar is also sweet enough, of course.
The beginning of love is love ⬇️ at first sight
In a college tennis match, Zhang Bohou saw Zhai Yu for the first time and was shocked by her beauty:
"How can there be such a beautiful girl. ”
I secretly swore that I must make her my girlfriend.
A common hobby plus love at first sight,
Zhang Bohou regards Zhai Yu as his whole world ⬇️
Zhai Yu also felt preference ⬇️
The relationship between the two soon grew from friends to lovers.
In Zhai Yu's description,
Although it is a sister and brother relationship, she is not the one who has always been compatible with each other, but the other party is constantly accommodating.
For example, she loves spicy food, but Zhang Bohou never eats it.
But he was willing to try it for her, and even changed his taste ⬇️
In daily interactions, Zhang Bohou often changes himself because of Zhai Yu's preferences.
The world is spinning + a unique preference,
This love has been talked about for 7 years.
also showed their tacit understanding of long-distance love in the show:
The battle of the quagmire, relying on tacit understanding and physical fitness, won the first place ⬇️
Li Ai couldn't help but shout for the two of them: "What's the seven-year itch, it's obviously seven years of sweetness, okay!"
tire contention,
The boys work in pairs to snatch 50-kilogram tires.
The winner advances directly, and the loser's partner continues to compete.
Zhang Bohou unfortunately met Gu Yuanxi ⬇️, who was higher in physique and strength than him
Soon defeated.
Because of his failure, Zhai Yu had to participate in the next round of challenges.
For this, Zhang Bohou felt guilty.
Zhai Yu patted his chest and spoke confidently: "It's okay, my sister will protect you next." ”⬇️
Later, he also said: "What men can't do, let women do it." ”
The expression is full ⬇️ of murder
(Who knows, there really is!)
Sister is not shouting empty slogans...
When he said he wanted to win the match, he really knocked the opponent out ⬇️ quickly
Because the victory was not easy to come by, and it was a competition with familiar female guests,
Sister couldn't help but drop the ⬇️ little pearl again
(Crying bag real hammer...) ）
Zhang Bohou sincerely cheered ⬇️ for her victory on the sidelines
Carry her across the river ⬇️
Thoughtfully clothe her and soothe her emotions ⬇️
domineering crying Sister Bao x timid as a younger brother
Tachibana is coming, and it's all knocked!
As a result, within two days of sweetness, the orange mammary gland couldn't stand it.
The tacit understanding in the competition link is not worth the lethality of a face-to-face opening.
During the small talk after the meal, a female guest initiated the topic,
Ask everyone how they usually get along ⬇️ with friends of the opposite sex
After all, it is a love complex, and several couples are in a relationship where they are emotionally stable and about to enter marriage.
In this part provides a good template for getting along:
I won't talk alone with friends of the opposite sex on WeChat for a long time ⬇️
Seldom alone ⬇️ with friends of the opposite sex
When you can't shirk it, you will try to bring your lover with ⬇️ you
The main one is a sense of security.
When asked if anyone thinks they or the other person has done a bad job in this matter,
Zhang Bohou's speech,
contributed to the famous scene ⬇️ of the first persuasion in the history of Lian Zong
Zhang Bohou and Zhai Yu traveled to Spain together.
Encounter a local paddle tennis tournament ⬇️
A sister who is much older than him sent an invitation to Zhang Bohou to form a team.
He didn't think the game was important, so he agreed.
After listening to this, others felt that something ⬇️ was not quite right
But seeing that he spoke so brightly, he couldn't bear to interrupt.
Zhang Bohou continued to immerse himself in the joy ⬇️ of teaming up with a strange sister to win the championship
A male guest couldn't help but speak: What about your girlfriend?
Zhang Bohou replied lightly: "Look." ”
？？？
Looking around, there was a look of disbelief.
The face of the orange substitutes belike⬇️
Start Soul Torture:
"Why didn't Zhai Yu fight?". ⬇️
"Why don't you two fight together?". ⬇️
As mentioned earlier, the two met at a tennis match.
They have also teamed up together to play games and win championships ⬇️
Travel together and meet local competitions, and the chosen partner is by your side.
Why did he go to great lengths to regroup?
Zhang Bohou's explanation was that because he cared more about other people's feelings, he was embarrassed to refuse and agreed.
The key point was that he didn't even ask Zhai Yu how she felt, but directly informed her that she had teamed up with someone else. ⬇️
A female guest finally couldn't help but spit out the fragrance:
"What's the matter, you have a girlfriend!"
Zhang Bohou put aside the topic again, saying that Zhai Yu had been angry with him for a long time because of this incident.
Everyone couldn't sit still when they heard this:
Who can hold back from being angry?
The point of anger is that he found another female partner to participate in the competition, and he did not discuss it with his lover, and finally informed him in the form of a notice.
But Zhang Bohou was completely unaware.
On the night of the victory, he went back to the hotel and fell asleep ⬇️
(I won't say how speechless I am, it's all in the picture...) ）⬇️
It wasn't until he found Zhai Yu hiding in the bathroom crying in the middle of the night that he realized what he had done wrong.
Liu Zhaoting, who hadn't spoken much, also asked Zhai Yu,
In short, why not?
In the show, the guests didn't understand,
The observation room was also furious ⬇️
The audience outside the show was also angry enough ⬇️
Do you not keep it and let yourself grow nodules?
This can be talked about for 7 years (Forehead bitter smile .jpg)
This clip was broadcast and quickly topped the hot search.
scared the two of them to post an explanation ⬇️ in the middle of the night
Zhang Bohou: If you make a mistake, you won't refute it.
Zhai Yu: Domineering shouting let Zhang Bohou watch it himself.
But no one in the comment area paid for it...
Zhai Yu's ⬇️
Zhang Bohou's ⬇️
I can understand why everyone is so angry, and no one can bear this grievance.
But to say that Zhang Bohou doesn't care about Zhai Yu at all, it's not likely.
At least Zhai Yu himself said that he felt preference.
However, Tachibana also observed that the atmosphere is indeed good ⬇️ when the two are alone
Once in a competitive environment, Zhang Bohou will always unconsciously ignore Zhai Yu's feelings.
For example, the blindfolded obstacle link in the show,
Zhai Yu is blindfolded, Zhang Bohou is in charge, and the two of them have to go through many checkpoints together.
Other guests in this session,
There are encouraging ⬇️
⬇️ Mutual
Always turn back and command ⬇️ carefully
When it comes to Zhang Bohou, there is only "acceleration".
I just buried my head in myself, and I didn't think about the situation of the people behind me blindfolded.
As a result, Zhai Yu kept falling ⬇️
绊倒 ⬇️
יהוה יהוה... ⬇️
For Zhang Bohou's apologies,
Zhai Yu gave extreme tolerance ⬇️
I also understand the characteristics ⬇️ of athletes who don't want to lose when they enter the arena
But Zhang Bohou is in an intimate relationship, Xi habitually enjoys the stability, tolerance and understanding brought by this relationship, and takes these for granted, unknowingly putting the lover's feelings behind.
Whether it is in love or marriage, it is not wise.
It's inevitable that it will cause controversy...
A couple in another variety show "Love's School Trip" seems to be facing the same problem.
Wang Yanlin and Ai Jiani.
Campus couple, in love for 7 years ⬇️
After graduation, they broke up for 5 years, and they chose each other ⬇️ again after going around and around
The scene of breaking the mirror and reuniting is completely an idol stills into reality.
Sweet, and really sweet.
Wang Yanlin's eyes are always full of ⬇️ love when he looks at Ai Jiani
Entertain her ⬇️ anytime, anywhere
When she got to the kitchen, she wasn't allowed to do any work ⬇️
The only requirement for Ejani is to be ⬇️ happy
Aijani's feelings about this marriage are:
"This marriage is a couple. ”
The audience also spoke highly of their marriage - a model for reunion.
But there will be times when the perfect model is overlooked.
In daily life, this relationship does look perfect, and Wang Yanlin also shows 100% thoughtfulness.
However, he is blind to the actual needs of his partner.
Aijani is an actress, but after getting married and having children, she had to leave her job.
On the one hand, the camera is always harsh, and the physical condition after giving birth is not good, and it is impossible to achieve the photogenic state.
On the other hand, there is a need to take care of children, Wang Yanlin is in the crew all the year round, and the children must be taken care of.
For the sake of her small family, she swallowed her grievances, but she never let go of the work she liked.
Aijiani's predicament is not the predicament that most women face after childbirth.
When Zhu Dan asked Wang Yanlin what he thought about his partner's appeal.
His reply was: "Isn't it normal for me to raise her, she is my wife." ”
Such a promise looks beautiful,
But a person who aspires to realize his self-worth is not necessarily happy when he listens to it.
Wang Yanlin was also given the label of "performative personality" because of this.
I just want to output the concept of loving my wife, ignoring the essential needs of the other party.
On the contrary, it was the words of Wu Qianyu, who had just met, that moved Ai Jiani ⬇️
Jin Sha's encouragement made her choke even more.
pointed out Aijani's sacrifice ⬇️
Affirm her talent ⬇️ as an actress
knows that she can't let go of her concern for her children now,
So he reassured her that when the time was right, she would go and realize her dream ⬇️
Finally, don't forget to remind her to affirm her self-worth ⬇️
Looking at Ai Jiani's expression, you can know how grateful she is to Jinsha for her words ⬇️
What she needs is not vague promises, but confidence and hope to return to the workplace.
Wang Yanlin's bug is also reflected in many occasions of outsiders, putting the feelings of others before his partner.
During the trip, it is of course no problem to serve as a student on duty and take care of everyone.
But in this case, there is a contrast, and there is harm.
In the program, men and women act separately,
Boys get together to make dumplings ⬇️
Girls go out and enjoy life ⬇️
Wang Yanlin is indeed a perfect duty student,
Teach everyone to make dumplings ⬇️
Take over the job ⬇️ of cooking dumplings
Dipping sauces ⬇️ are also prepared for the tasting session
All kinds of trivial things are taken care of.
When the girl came back,
Shi Boxiong picked up the dumplings and ran to the door, wanting Mr. Wu to eat the first bite of dumplings ⬇️
The two couples next to them were also busy giving their lovers a hot meal ⬇️
Wang Yanlin just said hello ⬇️ to Ai Jiani from a distance
Just to amuse others,
Leave Aijani alone to bury ⬇️ her head in the hardships
This clip is quite controversial,
It is said that he plays very harmoniously with others in a familiar environment, but ignores the existence of ⬇️ his wife
Busy being funny and not expressing love ⬇️
Both inside and outside the words point to Wang Yanlin as an outsider > partner in the workplace.
Tachibana thinks that this matter is not that serious, but it can't be completely ignored.
Maybe it's because his status in the circle is not high, and he plays a happy role in variety shows all the year round, and he himself is happy to be a conspicuous bag.
In this atmosphere, I unconsciously picked up my former coat and put myself in.
And he and Aijani, the relationship between the broken mirror and the reunion makes each other cherish this relationship more, and Xi is used to releasing tolerance, understanding and care.
Wang Yanlin is like a fish in water in the crowd, and his optimistic personality and the quality of taking care of people will make him more comfortable.
Take care of people as etiquette, put other people's feelings in front, and the victim is only Aijani.
Ai Jiani is familiar with this atmosphere, and also understands Wang Yanlin's original intention, so she chooses a considerate way.
It's just that this matter is not big or small.
In the early stages of a relationship, they will emphasize each other's specialness, always surround each other, and regard each other as the center of the world.
As we get acquainted with each other, we become more and more informal in our relationship patterns, knowing that the other person will choose to be considerate.
Zhang Bohou is, and so is Wang Yanlin.
took the strange sister's request as a holy decree, and never thought that Zhai Yu would be lost.
(They are still sisters and brothers, who understands the lethality of this "sister".) ）
Put the joys, sorrows and sorrows of the guests around you in the first place, and never thought that happiness has a reference.
Zhai Yu's grievances have been spoken, what about Ai Jiani?
Relationship collapse is often not the result of landslides, and moments of heartbreak are sometimes hidden in the minutiae.
Human beings are social animals, and social relationships are important.
It's just that when you're busy taking care of your surroundings, don't forget to look back at the person who has always been considerate but has been neglected.
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