Wu Bai rarely opened his voice to poke Zhonghua Chenyu's wound Huashen fans counterattacked: You are popular with that song in the music industry, and you can see the competition and collision between artists from time to time. But when Wu Bai criticized Hua Chenyu on a variety show, it caused an unexpected storm. Wu Bai said that Hua Chenyu was not original at the concert, but became popular by covering his songs. These words pierced Hua Chenyu's heart like a sharp blade, and also touched his fans. Hua Chenyu's fans angrily counterattacked: "You're the only one who is popular!"
This controversy caused an uproar on major social platforms for a while. Fans of the two singers engaged in a heated debate on the Internet, with heated rhetoric and emotion. However, behind this inter-celebrity turmoil, we may be able to see deeper problems. Everyone has idols in their hearts, and when these idols are questioned or attacked, we tend to be indignant and defend them. What kind of emotional conflicts and psychological needs are hidden behind such emotions and behaviors?
It reminds me of my own experience. Once, I was also a music lover and had a soft spot for a certain singer. At that time, I was always arguing with others to defend my idols. Until one day, I began to reflect on why others had different opinions about my idol, why I couldn't accept it, was it because I really liked the singer's music, or because I needed him to satisfy some kind of emotional need in my heart?
Perhaps, what we are chasing is not just the music itself, but an emotional resonance, a desire to find a sense of identity and security. When our idols are questioned, it's like our hearts are touched, because it means that the emotional support we rely on is also challenged. However, just like competition in the world of music, life is fraught with challenges and conflicts. When we encounter doubts and controversies, will we also defend ourselves without hesitation, just like the fans of those idols?
Perhaps, we can learn something from this. When our emotions are touched, we may want to pause and reflect on why we are so excited, because we genuinely love what we support, or because we have a need in our heart that has been touched, and this reflection may help us understand ourselves more clearly and deal with similar emotional issues more rationally. In this impetuous society, everyone needs an emotional support, an existence to rely on. Whether it's a music idol or someone else in our lives, we all want to find an existence that we can emotionally resonate with. However, when we encounter challenges and doubts, perhaps we need to be more reflective and tolerant to understand each other's differences, rather than justifying our emotional needs with righteous indignation.
Perhaps, it is in this understanding and tolerance that we can better establish emotional connections between people and better get along with our own hearts. I hope that we can all face our own emotional needs more rationally, and we can also face the differences of others more tolerantly.