Introduction: Is there a real war in this world? I can tell you without hesitation, there must be. For example, between my parents-in-law and mother-in-law, it is definitely true love.
Before her mother-in-law passed away, she thought that after she left, her father-in-law would have no one to take care of her, and because she was worried that her father-in-law would have no one to take care of her, she actually helped her father-in-law find a wife. At the time, I couldn't understand it. But when I knew the truth, tears rained down in an instant.
Narrator: Wang Qin (female)
Finishing: Xiao Xie is in Huadu, Guangzhou
Hello everyone, my name is Wang Qin and I am 42 years old.
In 2005, I was introduced by a matchmaker to Dahui. A year later, we entered the palace of marriage. After we got married, we lived with my parents-in-law all the time.
My parents-in-law are very easy to get along with, and they treat me like their own daughter. It is said that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is difficult to get along with, but I have been with my mother-in-law for 11 years and have hardly had any conflicts. During those 11 years, our family lived a peaceful and happy life.
However, nine out of ten things in life do not go as planned. In July 2017, my mother-in-law was diagnosed with ovarian cancer (advanced). From then on, my family's happy life came to an abrupt end.
After several rounds of chemotherapy, my mother-in-law's vitality was greatly damaged, and she lost a lot of weight, which was heart-wrenching to watch. During that time, we all knew that my mother-in-law wouldn't last long. So whatever my mother-in-law asks, we will try our best to help her meet it.
After chemotherapy, my mother-in-law said to my father-in-law in front of me and Dahui, "I'm afraid I won't be able to take care of you in the future, I don't think I can last long." Let me tell you, I don't worry about my son and daughter-in-law, what I'm most worried about now is that after I'm gone, you will have no one to take care of. So, I'm going to help you find a wife before you die. ”
When my father-in-law heard this, he shook his head and said, "Old woman, don't think about it, your illness can be cured, you won't leave, don't be so pessimistic......"
The pictures are not related to this article, mainly to relieve visual fatigue
The pictures are not related to this article, mainly to relieve visual fatigue
Two months later, my mother-in-law's condition worsened, she didn't eat and didn't talk much. She called me to her side and said that she had something to say to her best friend, Aunt Mei, and asked me to call and invite Aunt Mei over.
Aunt Mei and her mother-in-law grew up together, and the relationship between the two has always been like sisters. Not long after hanging up, Aunt Mei rushed over. My mother-in-law asked me to go outside, saying that she wanted to talk to Aunt Mei alone. They didn't know what they were talking about that day, but they talked for a long time anyway.
Within a few days, Aunt Mei came over with an aunt. She looked about the same age as her mother-in-law. Aunt Mei asked us to call her Aunt Peng, who looked quite young, dressed cleanly and decently, and spoke softly and gently.
Aunt May said to us. I never expected that my mother-in-law would have such an idea. My husband and father-in-law were very surprised, and we were very sad at the same time. You must know that the reason why I helped my father-in-law find a wife may be that my mother-in-law feels that her time is running out.
According to Aunt May,,。 She has a daughter and is married. Aunt Mei also told us that the reason why my mother-in-law asked Aunt Peng to be her father-in-law's wife was mainly because Aunt Peng was her father-in-law's first love.
It turned out that my father-in-law's first love was not my mother-in-law, but Aunt Peng. Back then, when the father-in-law reached the age of falling in love, someone introduced Aunt Peng to him, and the two had a good impression of each other, and when it came time to talk about marriage, Aunt Peng's parents asked the father-in-law to be the son-in-law, otherwise, they would not agree to their marriage.
This is mainly due to Aunt Peng's family background, but her parents did not give birth to a boy, thinking that after their daughter got married, the family property was inherited, so the Peng family decided to find a son-in-law.
But the father-in-law's parents firmly disagreed with the father-in-law being the son-in-law. My father-in-law and Aunt Peng were separated in this way.
The pictures are not related to this article, mainly to relieve visual fatigue
The pictures are not related to this article, mainly to relieve visual fatigue
After the Spring Festival in 2018, the mother-in-law's situation became more and more serious. After lunch on March 9th, my mother-in-law called me, my husband and father-in-law to my side, explained a lot of things, and finally asked me to call Aunt Mei and Aunt Peng.
The mother-in-law explained the aftermath, which means that she may not be able to hold on. I hurriedly called Aunt Mei and Aunt Peng, but fortunately, the place where they lived was relatively close to our house, only two or three streets away. About five or six minutes later, Aunt Mei and Aunt Peng came in a hurry.
Aunt Peng cried and said, "I promise you, don't worry, I will definitely help you take good care of him." ”
After taking a look at Aunt Mei, the mother-in-law left this wonderful world forever.
After the mother-in-law left, the father-in-law was very sad and washed his face with tears all day long. I advised my father-in-law that people can't be resurrected after death, so let him want to open up. The father-in-law choked up and said, "
Half a month after my mother-in-law left, Aunt Mei came over to discuss the matter between her father-in-law and Aunt Peng. Aunt Mei said: "Before her death, my mother-in-law specially asked Aunt Peng to take care of her father-in-law, so she wanted Aunt Peng to come to my house as soon as possible, so that it would be convenient to take care of her father-in-law." ”
The father-in-law refused directly, only to see him say to Aunt Mei: "The old woman has just been gone for half a month, and I will find my wife, which is not suitable." I don't think I can look for it until at least a year later, otherwise I'm sorry for her. ”
Later, no matter how Aunt Mei persuaded her, her father-in-law just didn't agree. In desperation, Aunt Mei had to say, "Let's talk about it after that year." ”
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In the blink of an eye, my mother-in-law has been gone for more than three months.
On June 21, 2018, Aunt Peng came uninvited, and I happened to be on vacation at home. At about 9 o'clock in the morning, I was about to go out to buy groceries, and just walked to the door, I saw an old lady walking towards my house from a distance, and when I got closer, it turned out to be Aunt Peng. After saying hello, Aunt Peng said, "You don't have to go grocery shopping, I brought a big bag of vegetables, enough to eat." ”
After entering the door, Aunt Peng said directly to her father-in-law: "Today, let you taste my craftsmanship." With that, he went into the kitchen.
The food cooked by Aunt Peng was delicious, and I ate three bowls of that meal, and my father-in-law also ate two bowls. After the meal, Aunt Peng cleaned the kitchen and tidied up her father-in-law's room. It can be seen that when it comes to cooking and housework, Aunt Peng is definitely a good hand.
Before leaving, Aunt Peng said to her father-in-law:
My father-in-law said: "I've worked hard for you today, don't be in a hurry to move in first, let me think about it, and talk about it when the time is ripe." ”
My father-in-law doesn't know how to cook. When my mother-in-law was alive, my father-in-law did not touch the spring water with his fingers at home, and lived a life of opening his mouth with food and stretching out his hands with clothes. After the mother-in-law left, eating became a problem for the father-in-law. Although my father-in-law lives with us, my husband and I are busy with work and often need to travel, so sometimes we can't take care of my father-in-law.
For the next month or so, Aunt Peng ran to our house every day, she cleaned our house and cooked delicious meals for my father-in-law. Gradually, I noticed that my father-in-law had a smile on his face and was in much better spirits than before.
Once, I asked my husband, "You said that Aunt Peng helps our family with housework and cooking every day, what is she trying to do?"
My husband said, "At the time, I thought so too.
The pictures are not related to this article, mainly to relieve visual fatigue
The pictures are not related to this article, mainly to relieve visual fatigue
Although my mother-in-law has a serious illness, the family does not spend much money, mainly because my mother-in-law has serious illness assistance and commercial insurance.
My father-in-law has 300,000 yuan in savings and a retirement salary of more than 5,000 yuan per month. It can be said that his conditions are still quite tempting to Aunt Peng.
On July 27, 2018, my father-in-law fell and the instep of his left foot was swollen and he couldn't walk for a while. It can be said that people are inseparable from the moment around you. My husband and I don't have time to take care of him. At this time, Aunt Peng said to us, "You can go to work with peace of mind, and I will take care of him." It's just that he can't live without people 24 hours a day, so I can only move in. ”
Considering that my father-in-law is indeed inseparable from people, and we can't take care of him all the time, only Aunt Peng can do it. In this way, Aunt Peng moved into our house.
My father-in-law injured his leg this time and lay in bed for 42 days. In these 42 days, my husband and I only have time to take care of him on Sundays, and the rest of the time is taken care of by Aunt Peng. Therefore, my husband and I are very grateful to Aunt Peng.
Who knows, a few days after her father-in-law's leg injury was healed, Aunt Peng actually asked her father-in-law for 50,000 yuan.
That night, I was so angry that I said loudly to my husband in the living room: "
Suddenly, my father-in-law walked out of the room, and he stopped me: "Daughter-in-law, you can't say that about Aunt Peng, you misunderstood her." ”
The pictures are not related to this article, mainly to relieve visual fatigue
The pictures are not related to this article, mainly to relieve visual fatigue
My father-in-law told us that the reason why Aunt Peng asked him for 50,000 yuan was mainly to buy a house. Aunt Peng said that it was not suitable to live with our family, and it was too crowded. It just so happened that she didn't want to live in her daughter's house all the time (Aunt Peng didn't have a house of her own), so she wanted to buy a small house to live with her father-in-law.
Aunt Peng said that she has 190,000 yuan in savings, and if she scrapes together another 50,000 yuan, she can buy a small house of 5 or 60 square meters. It seems that we misunderstood Aunt Peng.
In the end, my father-in-law paid 50,000 yuan, and we also took 50,000 yuan as decoration fees. In this way, my father-in-law and Aunt Peng had a house that belonged to them.
The house that Aunt Peng bought was not far from our house, only two or three miles away. Every day after work, my husband and I went directly to eat, and it was my father-in-law and Aunt Peng who asked us to go over to eat.
After a long time, I said to my husband: "
After dinner that day, my husband offered to give my father-in-law some living expenses, but my father-in-law didn't think about it and refused directly. Her husband gave it to Aunt Peng again, but she didn't want it, she said: "We are a family that loves each other, what kind of money do we give, and we are not outsiders." I tell you, as long as you come to eat every day, your father and I will be happy. Don't worry, your dad gave me his salary card, and his pension is fully enough to cover the family's living expenses. ”
Since living with Aunt Peng, I have noticed that my father-in-law's face has improved a lot and he looks red. The spirit is also quite good. It can be said that it is a second spring.
After Aunt Peng came to my house, she has been diligent and hardworking, she is very good to my father-in-law, and she gets along well with us. On weekdays, she never nagged in front of us and never asked us anything. At first, my husband and I called her "Aunt Peng", and after a while, we called her "Mom" directly.
Once, I couldn't help it and asked Aunt Peng:
"Mom, what are you trying to do so hard to take care of our family?"
Aunt Peng said: "Girl, I don't want anything, just that your father-in-law is a good man." Let me tell you, your father-in-law is my first love, and we love each other and are forced to separate. What kind of character your father-in-law has, I know very well. Think about it, if your father-in-law didn't have a good character, how could your mother-in-law help him find a wife before he died.
Being separated from your father-in-law when I was young was my biggest regret. When I am old, it is my greatest blessing to be able to live with your father-in-law.
Therefore, I must serve him well and drink well, and let him spend a happy and carefree old age. Even if he has nothing, I will take good care of him forever. ”
At the beginning, my husband and I thought that the reason why Aunt Peng was with my father-in-law was because of my father-in-law's savings and pension. When I learned the truth, I burst into tears......