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Text: Yu Dazui Booth
Editor|Yu Dazui Booth
Recently, the reunion of Wang Lixin and his ex-wife Wu Yating has become a hot topic in the entertainment industry. 3 years ago, the two divorced, and the marriage ended in failure. Now, with their children back to their former homes, everything seems to be back to square one.
During this period, Wu Yating experienced a transformation, and Wang Lixin also learned Xi grow. They went from falling apart to understanding and inclusion. This touching story has become an example for us to learn from Xi.
Wu Yating has transformed from a wife to a woman in charge
Wu Yating and Wang Lixin's marriage was unequal from the beginning. Wang Lixin has a successful career, and Wu Yating is just a small director. At home, Wu Yating takes on all the housework and raising the children. She worked hard to cook and do laundry, and take care of the family. And Wang Lixin can devote himself to work without worrying about his family.
In this way, Wu Yating became the "full-time mother" of this family, and Wang Lixin became a "successful man". This imbalanced relationship is destined to be unsustainable. Eventually, their marriage ended in divorce.
For Wu Yating, this is undoubtedly a huge blow. She fell into a trough and was confused for a while. But Wu Yating did not give up. She began to focus on herself, rebuilding her self-confidence by learning Xi makeup, fitness and more.
More importantly, Wu Yating is determined to make a difference in her career. She works hard to run her own live streaming business, earning income by sharing her beauty knowledge. Wu Yating takes care of the baby alone, takes care of the children during the day, and works live at night.
After 2 years of hard work, Wu Yating's live broadcast career has been a great success. Not only did she earn a high income, but she also completed the transformation from a wife to a woman in charge. Wu Yating gained financial independence and no longer had to rely on Wang Lixin.
When asked whether Wang Lixin would pay child support, Wu Yating said confidently that even if she didn't have the money, she could raise her two children alone. This proves that she has relied on her own abilities to stand on her feet.
Wu Yating's transformation is of great inspiration to contemporary women. It tells us not to pin our fate on men. We must strive for self-improvement like Wu Yating and strive for economic independence. This is the only way for women to succeed and be happy.
Wang Lixin has transformed from a career man to a responsible father
If Wu Yating experienced a transformation during this time, then Wang Lixin is also quietly learning Xi and growing.
In the past, Wang Lixin was a typical career-oriented man. He can devote himself to his work without distractions and cares little about his family. So everything in the family naturally fell on the shoulders of Wu Yating alone.
But after the divorce, Wang Lixin began to realize that he should also fulfill the duties of a father. So he took the initiative to settle his home in Shanghai to take care of his daughter. As long as there is time, Wang Lixin personally goes to the school to pick up her daughter and does her best to be good to her.
Later, I heard that Wu Yating was out to work, and Wang Lixin also took the initiative to say that she could take care of the children. He did not devote himself to his career as before, but regained his sense of responsibility as a father.
Although Wang Lixin's transformation is low-key, it is also commendable. It heralds his transformation from a man who pursues a career to a responsible father. This awakening also allowed him to sublimate his life.
It is also a blessing for a child to have such a responsible father who cares about her. This will help her grow up healthy through the trauma of her parents' divorce.
The two went from estrangement to understanding and found the balance of parenthood
After a period of running-in, the relationship between Wang Lixin and Wu Yating is also undergoing positive changes.
After the divorce, Wang Lixin only called Wu Yating "roommate", and the communication between the two was very different. And for this reunion, Wang Lixin has directly called her name "Yating". This means that he began to face Wu Yating squarely, and the relationship was eased.
Wang Lixin also bluntly praised Wu Yating for working very hard now and making money to support her family. He was glad that Wu Yating could support herself and was no longer a wife who needed to be taken care of.
It can be seen that the states of the two have been reversed. From dominating and being dominated in the past to equality and mutual respect in the present.
The sublimation of this relationship is a blessing for both them and their children. The two find the balance of parents through mutual understanding, so that the children can have two complete homes.
The way Wang Lixin and Wu Yating handled the complex divorce relationship is worth Xi. They choose to be understanding and tolerant rather than hateful and negative. It also brought their relationship back on track at last.
This touching story became an example for us to learn from Xi. It illustrates how communication and understanding can bring a broken family back together. Wang Lixin and Wu Yating have found a balance between being a person and dealing with the world, which is their sublimation to a new level in life.
Netizens are hotly discussed
This incident quickly aroused heated discussions among netizens on the Internet.
Some netizens believe that Wu Yating's unremitting self-improvement is worth learning Xi from modern women, and economic independence is the key to women's firm foothold. Some netizens also believe that Wang Lixin's transformation is also very rare, growing from a highly ambitious man to a responsible father.
Some netizens said that the two of them have learned a valuable lesson in dealing with the complex life relationship, and understanding and tolerance are the keys to breaking the deadlock. More netizens saw that the two went from estrangement to understanding, and left messages saying "I cried" and "I was very moved".
In every way, this is a positive inspiration for our former spouses. They proved that people need to learn to re-understand and tolerate after a relationship breakdown in order to resolve turmoil and achieve sublimation. This is a necessary process in life, and it is also a manifestation of maturity.
epilogue
Wang Lixin and Wu Yating have had failed marriages, but they are not defined by the past. In the precipitation of time, both sides have undergone changes. Wu Yating has become a woman who relies on her husband to be a woman in charge, and Wang Lixin has changed from a career-oriented man to a responsible father. They have moved from incomprehension in the past to inclusion in the present. This touching process became a model for us to learn Xi.
It tells us that in the face of the low point of life, we must be self-reliant like Wu Yating. In the face of shortcomings, we must introspect like Wang Lixin. Only by constantly learning and Xi and making progress can we achieve sublimation and enter the next stage of life.
Do you think this debate reveals the way we should learn Xi life?