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A bright sword made He Zhengjun, who played the role of "Political Commissar Zhao", completely famous and became a powerful actor loved by the public.
But many people don't know that He Zhengjun and international superstar Gong Li actually have an unknown past, at that time, the two fell in love with each other, but for what reason did they not come together.
It wasn't until many years later that He Zhengjun's wife was exposed, and people discovered how correct He Zhengjun's rejection of Gong Li was......
An encounter with his wife
In 1990, when He Zhengjun was filming in Yunnan, he was deeply attracted by a woman in the crew, and this woman was He Zhengjun's wife Fan Yu.
Fan Yu is 6 years younger than He Zhengjun, although there is an age difference, but when the two get along, there is no generation gap.
Fan Yu felt that He Zhengjun could just bring her a sense of security, but in the face of this relationship, He Zhengjun was very cramped, because He Zhengjun didn't know how to get along with girls!
Fan Yu's first impression of He Zhengjun was fierce, with a look of not approaching, and even ridiculously that the first time the two came into contact, it was He Zhengjun who took the initiative to salute Fan Yu and drink, which scared Fan Yu at that time.
This kind of reckless behavior became the reason why He Zhengjun chose He Zhengjun.
When he fell in love with He Zhengjun, He Zhengjun did not make any achievements in the entertainment industry, on the contrary, it can be said that at that time He Zhengjun was the most depressed.
Therefore, there are many people who persuade Fan Yu and feel that it is not a good decision for her to choose He Zhengjun.
But in fact, these people's views are not right, after the script was completed, He Zhengjun and Fan Yu divided their own things, and the only thing that kept the two sides in touch was their concern for each other.
In those two years, He Zhengjun spent all his savings in order to pursue Fan Yu, and saw that there was no money, so He Zhengjun didn't do anything, and directly asked for marriage, and the two officially entered married life.
At that time, it was the happiest moment for the two, in Fan Yu's eyes, although they lived in a dormitory of 9 square meters, they lived a very happy life.
Gong Li and He Zhengjun
He Zhengjun and Gong Li met at the Central Academy of Drama, at that time, He Zhengjun was a veritable "school grass", and the opposite sex was very high, which even made Ni Dahong envious.
He Zhengjun is a very shy person, although he has a good relationship with the opposite sex, but he has not had close contact with any women, and his favorite thing to see is to read books and draw.
Sometimes one or two bold girls come and say some playful things, which will cause He Zhengjun's cheeks to be slightly red and the people around him laugh.
However, this does not mean that He Zhengjun is a person who does not know love at all, he has already had a figure in his heart.
In He Zhengjun's heart, his favorite time is when there is no class, because during this time, there are always girls who like to run to his house, such as Gong Li.
Once, Zhang Guangbei and Ni Dahong, who were in the same dormitory as He Zhengjun, came back from playing basketball, and before they entered the dormitory, they had already heard Gong Li's singing and He Zhengjun's guitar.
He Zhengjun more or less knew that he had Gong Li in his heart, but he was too thin-skinned and didn't dare to speak, so he could only delay it like this.
The most feared thing in a relationship is procrastination, and no one will always wait for the other party to take the initiative.
Soon after, Gong Li found resources, planned to go to the countryside to experience life, and prepared to film, when she heard the news, many people went to see her off, but He Zhengjun was not seen.
But it's not that He Zhengjun doesn't want to, but he doesn't dare, He Zhengjun felt at the time that it was a bit unreasonable for a big man to go to see him off, and if others gossiped again, what was going on?
But in fact, it was just an excuse He Zhengjun made for himself to give up, he never dared to take that step, and in the end, their relationship ended in such a not very "decent" way, and after goodbye, they could only be ordinary friends.
Later, Gong Li and Zhang Yimou came together, and their careers developed rapidly for a while, and she had already reached a height that He Zhengjun could not reach, and she became a person of two worlds with him.
On the other hand, He Zhengjun was diligent and diligent after graduation, and he ran for nearly 12 years before finally ushering in the day of his emergence.
See the light at the end of the tunnel
What makes He Zhengjun keep working hard is not how to catch up with Gong Li, but for the guilt of his wife and daughter.
Since Fan Yu got married and gave birth to a child for herself, she took the initiative to give up her career and concentrate on raising her husband and children at home, which undoubtedly made the family's finances more compact.
For the sake of a better life for his family, He Zhengjun's personality began to change, and he began to beg people everywhere to find resources and make more money.
Seeing that her husband was so tired, Fan Yu didn't persuade He Zhengjun, but He Zhengjun didn't think so, he said that it was not a shame to ask for help, and it was really a shame to let his wife and children suffer with him.
It is precisely because of his attitude that he ushered in the day of his emergence.
With the help of his wife, He Zhengjun devoted himself wholeheartedly to his career, and finally in 1998, He Zhengjun won the Golden Rooster Best Actor Award with "National Anthem" and came to people's eyes.
After that, He Zhengjun's career officially went uphill, he earned more and more money, and he lived in a big house as he wished.
However, although the days are better, they also ushered in a new problem, that is, He Zhengjun is not romantic at all, even if he goes out shopping, he squats on the side and smokes, and after he arrives, he is even more reluctant to go, which makes Fan Yu very helpless, not only once complained about He Zhengjun.
In 2004, He Zhengjun participated in "Bright Sword", and the reason why he filmed this drama was mainly for his father.
He Zhengjun's father once went to the battlefield, and he desperately hoped that his children could also become soldiers in the future, but He Zhengjun did not take this path, which always made his father a little regretful.
Therefore, participating in the drama "Bright Sword" is a way for He Zhengjun to fulfill his father's wish.
After "Bright Sword", He Zhengjun's career reached its peak, but looking back, he found that he was completely absent from the growth of his children and the care of his family.
For this reason, He Zhengjun began to deliberately reduce his work and take care of his wife and daughter, because the usual work is done by Fan Yu, there are not many housework left for He Zhengjun, so He Zhengjun simply picked up needlework and started to do women's work.
In He Zhengjun's view, this is not a shame, after all, his family is his pride.
Epilogue:
Today's He Zhengjun is in his 60s, although he has entered old age, he is still fighting for his acting career, and his loving life with Fan Yu has also become a model among husband and wife.
Resources:
"Starry Night Story" variety show
"Glorious Bloom" variety show
"Film and Television" variety show