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What should I do if I am used as an ATM and only borrow but not repay? Is borrowing money addictive?

author:Uremia is simple

#2023年度创作挑战#

The old man's phone rang again, and there was no need to guess, it was the so-called good friend again, because the old man had no friends except him.

Sure enough, after listening to the old man's answer, he said impatiently: Okay, don't say so much, don't you just want to borrow money......?

Mom, this is an addiction to borrowing, and the two times I borrowed it before haven't been repaid, and I use the old man as an ATM, so I borrow it if I don't have any money.

What should I do if I am used as an ATM and only borrow but not repay? Is borrowing money addictive?

When the old man hung up the phone, I walked over and said, "Are you his ATM?"

The old man smiled and said, "What's the solution?" He said he'd pay it back in two days.

The last time I borrowed it, I also said that it would be repaid in ten days, and now it's been ten days, and I borrowed it before, but I only borrowed it and didn't pay it back, so I didn't pay it back until the middle of last month, and I really suspect that I was lying to the old man.

The old man had a very sweet mouth, and his surname was Li, saying that he was from the old man's own family and would take the old man to make money, but as a result, he didn't even have a job.

The old man had done a good job in Chimelong, but he encouraged the old man, and immediately resigned, and followed the old man Li to a karaoke shop for the night shift, and it was okay to stay up late, but after two months, he closed down.

The old man became a jobless vagrant again, and finally coaxed the old man to go to work, but was easily lost by that person, and now, there is still a month's salary that has not been paid, and the boss has run back to Dongguan.

What should I do if I am used as an ATM and only borrow but not repay? Is borrowing money addictive?

Then he lied to the old man and said that he would help find a job, he himself crossed the river with mud bodhisattvas, what ability did he have to help others find jobs?

But the old man believed him, it was useless for me to say anything, I asked him to find a job, and said that the old man Li would help him find it, I was also drunk, I don't know if that person gave him a trick, so believe him.

Then there is borrowing money, although it is not much, a few hundred yuan at a time, but it is always borrowed and not repaid, what does it mean?

What's more, the old man is not going to work now, how can he have money, this stinky old man lends him very refreshing, every time he borrows, I say it's a lie, he looks disdainful, and says it's just a few hundred yuan, what is the fraud?

I didn't bother to say it, anyway, he didn't believe it, he just gave me this virtue, and he was reluctant to use it for me, so he spent it indiscriminately, hundreds of hundreds, and didn't care.

What should I do if I am used as an ATM and only borrow but not repay? Is borrowing money addictive?

It's also strange to borrow money, once you lend it once, you can't stop, and you will borrow it when you lack money.

Last year, my classmate told me that she couldn't pay off her credit card, and the implication was to borrow money from me, but she was embarrassed to speak, she knew my situation, she was sick, what money could she have?

I thought about my classmates at the time, not to mention that the relationship is okay, and it should be necessary to help in emergencies. took the initiative to say that she could borrow 10,000 yuan to repay the credit card, and she was very grateful and said that she would pay it back immediately.

It's very creditable, and it was repaid after a few months, and on WeChat, I spent 10 yuan on the withdrawal fee, it doesn't matter, they are all classmates.

What should I do if I am used as an ATM and only borrow but not repay? Is borrowing money addictive?

As a result, I didn't have any money yet, and the next day I said on WeChat that she owed another classmate and urged her to repay the money, and asked me to lend it to her again, pay back that classmate first, and then pay me back after a while.

I was embarrassed to refuse, after all, she had just returned it to me, and there was money, so I had no choice but to transfer it to her.

It's probably three or four months, and then I paid it back, and I still use WeChat, and I lost ten yuan, so I should eat one pound less meat.

Then it didn't take long for me to give me WeChat again: Jianghu emergency, wait.

When I received WeChat, I was playing outside, to be honest, I didn't want to borrow, three days of borrowing, annoying, and awkward.

And it seems that they should all be borrowed.,The first time I was embarrassed.,Now it's a direct order.,It's like I owe her to pay her back.。

What should I do if I am used as an ATM and only borrow but not repay? Is borrowing money addictive?

So I didn't reply immediately, and deliberately stayed cold, thinking that according to her cleverness, I should think that I was reluctant to borrow.

It wasn't until the evening that I texted back, saying that I was playing outside during the day and didn't look at my phone, so I deliberately asked her what was the matter?

She said that she was in a hurry to use the money and asked me to borrow 10,000 yuan, but I hesitated and said that I didn't have 10,000 yuan, so I used some. There are still 3,000 left for the New Year.

Then she said that she would borrow 3,000, and she didn't consider me for the New Year, and I was really embarrassed to refuse, so I had to borrow her 3,000.

It's only been two months. I paid it back, and I lost three yuan this time, what can I say?

There is also a classmate who borrowed it once, and then borrowed it every once in a while, and the borrowed one said that he would pay it back.

I remember that day I called him and said that he was in the hospital, ready to be hospitalized, had to pay the hospitalization fee, and had no money on him, I thought he should understand what I meant and would take the initiative to pay me back.

As a result, people didn't mention it at all, I really had no choice, I could only be cheeky and beg for money, and the other party immediately promised to pay me back immediately.

But after waiting for a day there was no news, and the next day, I had to call again, and then transfer the money to me, with an unhappy face, as if I owed him money and didn't pay it back, and even the friendship faded, alas, good intentions became bad people.

What should I do if I am used as an ATM and only borrow but not repay? Is borrowing money addictive?

So I think that this money really can't be borrowed casually, borrowing, is to make trouble for yourself, people will think that you have money to talk about, and you will come to borrow it when you are short of money in the future, and when you have an ATM, you will come to withdraw it if you are short of money.

Although I can pay it back, I really feel aggrieved and treated like a tool. And the economy is good, people like us don't have a lot of money in the first place, that little money is planned, as soon as you borrow, the plan will be disrupted, if you encounter an emergency, and you don't pay it back, then it's troublesome.

If you meet someone who is not trustworthy and asks him to pay back the money, it is really like a grandson, and the person who borrowed money has become an uncle.

Now my old man is like this, he borrowed once, and he often came to borrow, and he only borrowed but did not pay back, and only the old man took his time, and when the time came, people went back to their hometown, and saw where the stinky old man went to find someone to repay the money.

But the old man doesn't care, even if he doesn't pay it back, the old man won't ask for it, he looks at others and money very lightly, so he picks at his family, me and my son.

What should I do if I am used as an ATM and only borrow but not repay? Is borrowing money addictive?

In short, I now feel that this money really can't be borrowed easily, and I borrowed money in minutes to help, but not only could I not even make friends, but also made myself feel like a ruthless and unrighteous person.

Of course, emergency relief is not to help the poor, sometimes it is necessary to help save emergencies, after all, everyone has times of difficulty.

But if you want to do what you can, you have to look at the tailoring of people, and you have to look at people in emergencies, don't let yourself become Mr. Dongkuo, then it is unreasonable, it is too chilling!

Family, have you ever encountered something troubled by borrowing money? Welcome to leave a message to share!