The secret of the success of Zeng Guofan, a great official of the Qing Dynasty: these two kinds of people should not have a deep friendship, so as not to get into trouble!
From birth, humans are destined to be social animals. From ancient times to the present, successful emperors have always had a few loyal ministers around them. As the old saying goes, even the evil Qin Hui has a few good brothers who dig out their hearts and lungs. It can be seen that no matter who you are, you will have a few friends and confidants around you. But the quality of the friends around you will definitely affect your success. In fact, making friends is also the most important point on the road to success. Today, the author brings the secret of the success of Zeng Guofan, a great official of the Qing Dynasty, these two kinds of people should not have a deep friendship, so as not to get into trouble!
Although the failure of the Qing Dynasty in the last years cannot be changed, the failure of the state cannot prove that there are no capable people. Zeng Guofan, Zuo Zongtang and others have fought all their lives for the righteousness of the country, and they are honest and loyal. Zeng Guofan was also a well-known acquaintance in ancient times. As long as Zeng Guofan likes it, almost all of them have become celebrities and good generals, I believe many people are curious, what is Zeng Guofan's trick to know people?
Zeng Guofan believed that these two kinds of people around him should not have deep friendships, so as not to get into trouble! This first type of person is a person whose eyes flicker when he speaks and who are Xi habitual and thoughtful. If you find that when you chat with someone, he is always Xi with his eyes flickering and thinking secretly, then most of these people are very deep. They will never go toe-to-toe with you on the bright side, but choose to shade you behind your back. Therefore, Zeng Guofan never made friends with this kind of person who likes to think secretly, because this kind of person will not really help you on the road to success, but will only stab you behind your back. This kind of person should not be deeply acquainted, so as not to get into trouble.
And this second type is the person who is obedient on the surface, but in fact dissatisfied. In fact, this kind of person is very common in life. In life, they cling to others and will unconditionally obey the opinions of others. But he often cheats behind his back, doing things that he doesn't know and doesn't think about. It can be seen that people who are too docile around them often secretly show their minions. Therefore, Zeng Guofan specially proposed that you should not trust those who will always obey you, after all, the ancients left a message of loyalty and rebelliousness. The person who is really good to you will only clearly point out when you have done wrong, instead of deliberately selling your trust to you! In this way, this kind of person should not be deeply acquainted, so as not to get into trouble.
It can be seen from this that Zeng Guofan's success is not easy! I wonder if you have any insights after listening to Zeng Guofan's clever plan to recognize people, and would like to share it with you? Welcome to leave a comment below and discuss it with you.