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My name is Xiao Wang, I am 23 years old this year, and I am a junior clerk who has just entered the society. I have a good relationship with my mother, and she has loved me very much since I was a child.
Last week, I suddenly received a message from my uncle. He said he was about to buy a house and was very tight on money. Let me stop spending money indiscriminately lately, and save money well is the right thing to do. After I saw the message, I muttered in my heart, thinking that my uncle was preaching.
"Mom, look at this information of my uncle, I'm so long-winded!" I took my phone and complained to my mom.
Mom glanced at the message and said, "Uncle may care about you, and you can't blame him." ”
"If you care, you care, didn't he also say, let him save some money to buy a house, what does it have to do with me?" I said disapprecantly.
Mom smiled and said, "Maybe Uncle wants to remind you to remember to save money, what he said is also reasonable, you also need to save to buy a house in the future." ”
"I didn't say I wouldn't save money, he said that to me as if I only knew how to spend money to play. "When I heard that my mother was still speaking for my uncle, I was a little angry, and my tone was a little heavier.
When my mother saw that I was not happy, she quickly said, "Okay, don't be angry with you." We might as well go out and play for a few days and change our mood!"
As soon as I heard that I had the opportunity to go out, I immediately came to my senses and hurriedly said, "Then where are we going to play?"
"Let's go to Guilin, the scenery is beautiful, and we haven't been out for a long time. Mom suggested.
"Okay, okay, let's go to Guilin! I'll look at the flight tickets and hotels now!" I happily pulled out my phone and started looking up travel tips.
Seeing my excitement, my mother smiled and touched my head: "I'll transfer the travel expenses to your card, remember to pay attention to your safety." ”
"Yes, I'm not a kid anymore. Mom, don't worry, I'll take care of myself. I replied with a smile.
After playing for a few days, I took a lot of beautiful photos in the mountains and rivers of Guilin. I just came back from Guilin yesterday, and I excitedly uploaded the photo to the circle of friends, with the text: "Little uncle, do you see me eating, drinking and having fun, are you angry?"
I just want my uncle to see and take revenge for what he said to me before. Who knows, not long after sending it, my uncle called me and asked me very angrily.
"Hey, Xiao Wang, what do you mean? Uncle's voice was full of anger.
I didn't expect my uncle to react so much, and I was a little surprised, but I still said confidently: "Is there anything wrong with me?"
I was a little puzzled, and asked tentatively, "Uncle, what's wrong with you?" ”
Uncle was silent on the other end of the phone for a while, and then sighed: "Forget it, you better go happily." I really don't have the face to say you again, I was wrong just now. ”
The more I listened, the more I felt that something was wrong, and hurriedly said, "Uncle, tell me, what's going on?"
After hearing this, I immediately understood, it turned out that my uncle had just made up a reason casually before, wanting me to spend less money. He couldn't afford to buy a house, and he was very embarrassed by my revenge.
I comforted softly: "Uncle, you don't have to blame yourself, I misunderstood you." You've always been nice to me, and I shouldn't be mad at you. ”
"Well, forget it, I'm a failed father, and my son still depends on you for help. There was a strong inferiority complex in the uncle's tone.
"No, uncle, you have done a good job! I will definitely pay attention to saving expenses in the future, and I will also encourage my cousin to study hard and go to university, so as not to disappoint your expectations." I hurriedly made a statement.
Uncle was silent for a while, as if touched by my words, and his tone regained a little spirit: "Thank you." I shouldn't have told you that, you just treated me as your uncle and cared about you. ”
"Well, I understand. I replied softly.
Hung up the phone, I had mixed feelings. It turned out that it was all a misunderstanding. My mother saw that I was distracted and asked with concern, "What's the matter? What did my uncle tell you just now?"
I told my mom everything that had happened. Mom nodded knowingly and said, "It seems that we all misunderstood Uncle." He is also very anxious in his heart, so he will say this about you. ”
"Well, I now understand Uncle's good intentions. I nodded.
Mom thought for a moment and said, "Why don't we send some gifts to Uncle to show our apologies." ”
"Great idea!" I say with approval.
When my uncle saw me, he was a little surprised and embarrassed. I stepped forward and gave him a big hug: "Uncle, our family should understand and support each other." These are my thoughts, and I hope you will accept them. ”
Uncle was moved by my actions, his eyes turned red, and he also hugged me: "Thank you, I will support you more in the future." ”
This incident taught me to think more from the perspective of others. Understanding and trust between family members is crucial. I will also face life with a positive attitude and help my family members in need.
Since then, I have been actively changing my lifestyle, saving money, and encouraging my cousin to study hard and Xi to get into college.
I started to keep an eye on each of my expenses, making a table of my family's monthly income and expenses to minimize unnecessary spending. At the same time, I also took the initiative to chat with my cousin and encouraged him to study Xi seriously and not waste time playing games.
One day, my cousin suddenly called me and said in a somewhat depressed tone: "Brother, I've been under too much pressure lately, and the pressure of studying Xi and going to school makes me breathless." I really can't read anymore. ”
I heard that my cousin was going through a low point in his life, so I patiently persuaded him: "Brother, I understand your anxiety, but avoiding it will not solve the problem. We must face the reality, as long as we work hard, we will definitely be able to reach our goals. ”
The cousin was silent, and then said, "I know that you are encouraging me to learn Xi during this time, and I am very touched. It's just that the pressure on my own heart is too great. ”
"Let's figure out how to deal with these pressures together. I said mildly, "You can try to communicate more with friends and teachers and learn some ways to relieve stress Xi." Ourselves, but also believe in life, it will always bring us surprises. ”
The cousin finally got a little energetic and said, "Well, brother, thank you for your encouragement, I will persist for a while and give it a try." ”
"Good, come on!" I encouraged.
I started to have fun in life and tried to live a little bit better. One day, my mother suddenly asked me, "Why have you been happy lately, are you in love?"
I smiled and said, "No, I just think life is pretty good." Our family has become more united. ”
Mom nodded and said, "Yes, since I understood my uncle, our family has become much closer." That's the power of mutual understanding. ”
"I would also like to thank my mom for proposing to apologize and teach me to be considerate of others. It's also good for me to help my cousin. I said gratefully.
"Haha, don't thank me, you've matured a lot yourself. Mom said with a smile.
In this way, with the support of my mother and family, I passed an important turning point in my life and gradually learned how to get along with others.
One day, my cousin called excitedly and said that he had been admitted to the university of his choice. My mom and I were very happy to hear it.
So we decided to visit my uncle again and let him share in our joy as well.
On the day I visited my uncle, I carefully prepared a gift, as well as my cousin's admission letter. When the uncle heard the good news that his cousin was admitted to university, he was very excited: "Great, it's really the pride of our family!"
The cousin also said with red eyes: "It's all the encouragement and support of my uncle and brother, I will definitely live up to your expectations and study hard Xi." ”
I looked at my uncle's relieved smile, and my heart was full of happiness. Being able to bring my family together is what I'm happiest about right now.
This incident has become a beautiful memory for our family forever. It made me truly understand the importance of mutual respect, tolerance and love between family members. Every time I think about this experience, I feel extremely warm and moved.
After my cousin was admitted to university, I also gained some small blessings one after another.
I stepped forward in surprise and said, "Brother, why are you here so late?"
My cousin smiled and said, "Brother, I'll bring you supper, guess you'll work overtime until late before you go home for dinner." ”
I was so moved that I quickly took him to a night snack stall near the company to buy a bunch of delicious food. The cousin said, "Brother, remember to take care of yourself and don't get tired of your body." ”
I smiled and nodded, my heart warm. My cousin has grown up and will care about people.
When I got home, my mother noticed that I had lost weight recently and asked me if I had eaten properly in the evening. I said, "Yes, yes, yes, don't talk about this, I'm going to have good news!"
"What's good news?" Mom asked curiously.
"I'm going to get a promotion and a raise!" I said happily.
"Great! Let's go have a good meal and celebrate!" Mom was also very excited.
In this way, I finally ushered in a small success in my life. Gathering with my family to celebrate happy moments makes me feel fulfilled and happy like never before.
In the evening, I took the initiative to call my uncle and share the latest good news with him. The uncle was very happy and said with a smile: "Ah, I've been lucky lately, it seems that it is a lucky star!"
I humbly said, "Thanks to the encouragement and support of my uncle and family, I am where I am today." ”
The uncle smiled and said: "Each other, our family cares about each other and achieves each other, this is the greatest happiness." ”
I nodded and said, "I will continue to work hard, and I will also help my family realize their dreams, and we will move forward hand in hand." ”
The uncle said encouragingly: "Okay, this is mine!
I feel more mature and steady, and I've learned to appreciate the little things in life.
On weekends I invited my mom and cousin to the playground to play. We screamed on roller coasters and pirate boats, took pictures on the merry-go-round, and ate so many good foods.
My cousin said, "Brother, it's been a long time since we've been out to play together, and I feel like I'm back to when I was a kid again!"
I smiled and said, "Yes, it's been busy for a while, and today we're going to be kids again and let ourselves go!"
"Thank you, brother, I will feel very happy every time I am with you!" The cousin said sweetly.
I reached out and ruffled his hair: "Me too, brother, being with my family is the source of my happiness." ”
When I came home in the evening, my mother said happily: "I had a lot of fun today, and the picture of our family harmony is so warm!"
Time flies, and in the blink of an eye, my cousin is about to graduate from college.
My cousin called and said excitedly: "Brother, I have already gotten it, and I have been guaranteed to study for graduate school, so I can continue to study for graduate school at my current school!"
I was very excited: "Awesome brother, your efforts have not been in vain, this is the result you deserve!"
My cousin said shyly: "It's all thanks to your encouragement and support, brother, that I have the motivation to keep moving forward to achieve today's results." ”
I smiled and said, "Okay, thank yourself for the results, don't be too modest." This is something you have earned through your own strength, you have to be confident!"
My cousin said happily: "Okay, thank you, brother, I will definitely continue to work hard!"
Hanging up the phone, I happily told my mom the good news. My mother was very relieved and immediately said that she wanted to buy a gift to visit her cousin.
When I came to my cousin's school, as soon as I saw him, my mother gave him a big hug: "My son has grown up and can be self-reliant, I am so proud of you!"
The cousin also hugged his mother tightly, his eyes were a little moist: "Mom, all this is the kindness of you and your family, and I will definitely try to repay you." ”
Watching my younger brother grow step by step, I felt like I had fulfilled a wish. We had a warm family reunion time.
I smiled and nodded, "Good idea, that's it!"
A week later, my family and I boarded a plane to the island. This is my cousin's college graduation trip, and it is also a rare time for our family to reunite.
On the island, we enjoy the sun, the sand and the turquoise blue sky. At night, we can bake a campfire by the stove and count the stars, which is simple but very warm.
This trip brought our family closer together, and we couldn't get enough of it.
My cousin said, "I feel like I'm back in my childhood, and I feel super happy to be able to be coquettish and willful with my family." ”
I laughed and said, "In the future, as long as we have time, we will come back to this kind of family trip, and it will never be too much." ”
My mother said happily: "Seeing that you brothers have such a good relationship, I am the happiest mother in the world!"
After I came back, I also posted the photos of this trip on my friends with great interest. also wrote: "The joy of family with my family is the most precious treasure in my life." ”
Not long after, the uncle called, smiled and said: "Look at the circle of friends you posted, I am envious to death!
I smiled and said, "Uncle, you're right, our family relationship is getting better and better." It's all thanks to my uncle who reminded me to understand each other and cherish my family. ”
The uncle said with relief: "Okay, okay, I'm also very happy to see your brothers get along in harmony, so I'm relieved." ”
I smiled and nodded, feeling like I already had the most precious thing in my life.
In a blink of an eye, my cousin has also come out to work in society for many years. He often invited me to dinner and discuss work and life.
One day at dinner, my cousin said to me mysteriously, "Brother, I have something important to tell you, but you have to keep it a secret!"
I smiled and asked, "What, let's see!"
The cousin said shyly: "I'm in love, the object is a special girl, and I'm going to propose to her!"
"Wow! Congratulations!" I congratulated in surprise, "You introduced your girlfriend to me, I'm glad you found a good home!"
The cousin nodded and said, "I'll take her home to meet her parents in a few days, and then you'll see the real person." ”
When I got home, I excitedly said to my mother, "Mom, my cousin is getting married, and the partner is very good!"
"Really? Great!" Mom was also very happy.
In this way, a few days later, my cousin brought his girlfriend to the house. The girl is beautiful and lovely, and her manners are dignified and polite.
My mother also liked this daughter-in-law, and said with a smile: "I see that she is careful and considerate, and she will definitely treat you well, and I am relieved that you have found a good partner." ”
The cousin smiled shyly as well, and the family was immersed in an atmosphere of joy.
Soon after, the two decided to have a wedding. My cousin came to me to discuss the details, and I was very enthusiastic to help him plan and contact the venue, catering, accommodation and other matters.
Finally, the grand and warm wedding took place as scheduled. The cousin has a happy smile on his face, and he has an intimate lover in his life.
I watched him tie the knot, and I also felt sincerely relieved and happy. At night, I sat quietly on the balcony by myself, looking at the starry sky overhead, and suddenly I felt a sense of fulfillment.
Perhaps, this is the state of life that I have been pursuing for many years. Seeing that my family is well, I feel satisfied and happy. I will continue to do my best to solve problems for my family and work together with my family.
I hurriedly asked, "Uncle, what's wrong?"
Uncle sighed softly: "It's nothing, it's just that I suddenly feel that you have all grown up and become a family, and I am still alone, and I am suddenly a little lonely." ”
I hurriedly comforted him and said that I would go back to see him often and would not let him be lonely. Only then did the uncle say gratefully: "Having you lovely children is the greatest comfort in my life." ”
There are ups and downs in life, but with family by your side, everything will happen. I cherish the joy of family in front of me even more.
After my cousin got married, I gradually had plans to start a family.
One day, my mother called me mysteriously and said with a smile: "Son, my mother told you a blind date, the object is in good condition and beautiful, you can go and meet it." ”
I smiled and said, "Okay, Mom, I'll listen to what you say." Let's see how it feels. ”
Thus, a traditional parental arranged marriage began. The other party's parents had dinner with our family, and the girl was really gentle and beautiful, and her manners were generous and decent.
After dinner, I chatted with the girl alone for a while, and I thought she had a good personality.
When I got home, my mother eagerly asked me, "How is it, is the other party still what you want?"
I smiled and said, "The girl is nice and beautiful." Let's get in touch for a while and see how it feels. ”
Mom said happily: "That's good, you are also old, and it is time to start a family." Mommy is counting on you!"
So more than a month later, in the presence of both parents, I officially proposed to the girl and got engaged.
At the engagement ceremony, my cousin, as the best man, smiled and gave me a ring: "Brother, congratulations on finding your other half, you will be happy." ”
I was also full of emotion: "Yes, time is so fast, our brothers have become a family one by one." ”
My cousin patted me on the shoulder: "In the future, we will always get together as a family, and don't be alone." ”
"That's right!" I smiled and nodded.
The wedding date is getting closer and closer, and my mother is busy helping me prepare for marriage. I saw her excited and busy appearance, and couldn't help but sigh: "Mom, I'm about to get married, I'm sorry for not being filial to you for so many years." ”
The mother hurriedly said: "Son, you have always been a good child, and now I am relieved to have my own family." I want to bring new members of my family to see me often!"
"Mom by a certainty!" I said solemnly.
Finally, in the presence of my relatives and friends, I married Ruyi Langjun. The wedding scene was filled with happiness and joy.
"Uncle, I will often bring my family back to see you. I said solemnly.
The uncle smiled and said, "Good boy, you have to live a good life, uncle just needs to know that you are safe and happy." ”
I shed tears of gratitude. Thank you to the people in my life who have inspired me and cared for me. In the days to come, I will definitely pass on and continue this love.