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My name is Li Qiang, I am Chinese New Year's Eve years old, and I am a white-collar worker working hard in Shanghai. Going home for the Chinese New Year is not only the joy of reunion, but also a lot of pressure.
"Brother Qiang, you're back!" As soon as I stepped into the house, my sister Li Fang pounced. She was wearing a newly bought red dress, and her face was filled with the joy of the Spring Festival.
"Don't always play with your phone when you come back this time, spend more time with your parents. She muttered as she helped me with my luggage.
I smiled and nodded, but I was thinking about the cost of going home this time. In the past, every time I came home, I would bring some souvenirs to my family and buy gifts for my parents and sister. But this year was different, the company was not doing well, and my bonus was greatly reduced.
In the evening, the whole family sits around the dinner table, and the atmosphere is warm and lively. When my parents ask me about my work and life, I always report good news and not bad news.
"Brother Qiang, I heard that your housing prices in Shanghai have risen again, is it true?" asked my cousin Xiaogang suddenly. Xiao has just graduated from college, found a job in his hometown, and is curious about life in the big city.
"yes, it's going up badly. "I tried to make it as light as possible, but there was a wave of anxiety in my heart. Mortgage, cost of living, future planning...... The pressure of all this weighed on my heart like a mountain.
"Brother Qiang, don't you need to save some money for the New Year? I heard that your company is not in a good mood this year. Li Fang said half-jokingly.
I smiled and didn't say anything, but my heart was full of mixed feelings. These days, I've been spending more than I can afford at home. The health products I bought for my parents, the shopping I took my sister to, and the socializing among those relatives......
The next day, I suggested that the whole family go on a trip to relieve the stress. But when I saw the higher and higher costs, I couldn't help but start to regret it. In five days at home, my expenses have reached almost 30,000 yuan.
"Brother Qiang, have you encountered any difficulties lately?" At night, my father was smoking in the living room and suddenly asked me.
I was stunned for a moment, then shook my head in denial, "No, it's not difficult. ”
But my father's gaze made me nowhere to hide. He is the typical Chinese father, who is not good at expressing emotions, but always has insight into my heart at critical moments.
At that moment, I felt pressure like never before. I began to wonder if it was a wrong choice to go home this time. This feeling slowly fermented in my heart, and finally prompted me to make a decision - I want to leave my hometown and stay in the city for the New Year.
I told my family that I needed to go back to Shanghai early because of work. Although they all seemed a little disappointed, they still expressed understanding.
That night, I lay in bed with a lot of thoughts. I think back to the warmth of my home, the deep love of my parents, the care of my sister, and the no
Words spoken and things not done. But at the same time, I also know that this departure is a necessary respite for me.
The next day, I returned to Shanghai alone. In the empty apartment, I felt both relaxed and lonely. I turned on my computer and started working on some of the backlog, trying to keep myself busy and forget about the guilt and anxiety.
A few days later, Xiao Zhang, a colleague from the company, sent a WeChat message: "Brother Qiang, how is the Chinese New Year?
"It's okay, it's just a bit more expensive. I replied.
"That's the price of going home, but home is always a warm place. Xiao Zhang's words made my heart warm, but I quickly calmed down again.
At this moment, I received a message from my sister Li Fang, who sent me a family photo, in which I smiled a little reluctantly. Li Fang left a message below: "Brother, you seem to have something on your mind, and you have time to call home more when you return to Shanghai." ”
I stared at the picture with mixed feelings. I think of my parents' growing gray hair, my sister's dependence on me, and the warm atmosphere of my home. I began to reflect on whether I was too selfish and only thought about my own feelings and ignored the feelings of my family.
Over the next few days, I started making frequent video calls with my home. Every time I see the smiles on my parents' faces and hear my sister's giggles, my mood becomes happy. I have also become more and more aware of the importance of family to me.
One night, I came across an article online about a story about the balance between family and career. The protagonist of the article works in a field and faces the problem of estrangement from his family. I felt a deep sense of empathy and suddenly decided to write a short story on the subject myself.
I started to think about the storyline, the characters, and I wanted to express my longing for my family and my attitude towards work through this story. In the process of writing, I felt more engaged and happy than ever. I even began to consider whether I could try to become a part-time web novel writer, using my spare time to write, not only to do what I love, but also to share my feelings with more people through stories.
I wrote for several days and finally finished my first web novel. I posted it on a fiction website and told my family. My sister Li Fang was the first to reply to me: "Brother, you wrote so well, I was about to cry." You should have done it sooner. ”
My novel quickly gained traction on the site from some readers, who commented that my story was very real and moving. This encouraged me and strengthened my determination to continue writing.
Just when I was immersed in the joy of writing
My life also changed a bit. I was in charge of a new project in the company, which meant more pressure and challenges at work. I started looking for a balance between my busy work and writing.
One night, I worked late and got home in the early hours of the morning. I turned on my computer and tried to continue writing, but found that I couldn't concentrate. I felt tired and frustrated, and began to wonder if I could really handle the stress of work and writing at the same time.
That's when I received a message from a reader: "Your story touched me and reminded me of my family. Thank you and hope you can keep writing. This message was like a ray of sunshine that shone into my heart and gave me the motivation to keep going.
The next day, I had lunch with Xiao Zhang. I confided in him my confusion and stress.
"Brother Qiang, you have to learn to relax and find a work-life balance. "Your writing is great, but don't neglect your physical and mental health." ”
I deeply reflected on Xiao Zhang's words. Yes, I need to find a balance. I decided to set aside some time each day for myself to write, but at the same time make sure to get enough rest and relaxation.
Just as I was trying to adjust the pace of my life, I received a call from my sister Li Fang. "Brother, the story you wrote last time, our teacher also read it, she said that you wrote very well, and I want to invite you to our school to give a lecture!"
I was pleasantly surprised by the news, but also a little hesitant. "I'm an ordinary white-collar worker, what can I say when I go to give a lecture?" I said with some uncertainty.
"Brother, just tell me about your writing experience and your story, we all want to hear it!" Li Fang said excitedly.
With Li Fang's encouragement, I decided to accept this invitation. This is the first time I've stood on the podium in front of a group of enthusiastic students and told my story and writing experience. I talked about how I found time to write in my busy schedule, and how I expressed my emotions and thoughts through writing. My words resonated with the students, who actively asked questions and the atmosphere was very lively.
This experience strengthened my belief that I can impact and inspire more people through my story. I'm starting to take my writing more seriously while also looking for inspiration in my work.
Over time, my novels have become more and more popular on the site. I started receiving invitations for some business collaborations, including writing training, novel adaptations, etc. These new opportunities have enriched my life.
In the process, I also re-examined my relationship with my family. I've started to pay more attention to communicating with my family, and no matter how busy I am, I always find time to video chat with my family. I am also planning to take my parents on a trip to Shanghai in the future so that they can experience my living environment.
My life is like
It's on a new track. During the day, I am busy with projects and meetings in the company, and at night, I am immersed in the world of my novels. I began to learn how to find a balance between my busy work and a fulfilling personal life.
However, just when everything seems going well, life always gives you unexpected challenges. The company's new project suddenly encountered major difficulties, and as the project leader, I was under a lot of pressure. Overtime became the norm, and I even spent several weekends in the office.
This kind of intense work is starting to affect my writing. I found it increasingly difficult to concentrate on conceiving new storylines, and sometimes I didn't even have the interest to turn on my computer. The pace of updating my novels began to slow down, and many readers expressed their dissatisfaction and concerns in the comments section.
One night, I sat alone at my desk, staring at a computer screen in a daze. I felt a sense of loss and powerlessness that I had never felt before. Do I continue to hold on to my dream of writing, or do I dedicate myself to my work?
At this moment, I received a call from my sister Li Fang. "Brother, why haven't you updated the novel recently? ”
I sighed and told her about my predicament. "I'm really busy right now and probably can't update as often as I used to. ”
"Brother, do you remember what you told me before? Writing is not just a hobby for you, it is also a way for you to express yourself. You can't just give up. Li Fang's words were like a wake-up call, waking me up.
I started to rethink my time management and life priorities. I decided that no matter how busy I was, I would make sure to dedicate at least one time a week to writing. I started to adjust my working methods to be more productive and strive for more personal time.
At the same time, I realized that I couldn't let my work completely dictate my life. I needed to find a way to live my work and personal life in harmony.
I began to communicate with my colleagues and leaders in the company to seek their understanding and support. Luckily, they were understanding of my situation and agreed to adjust my work schedule to alleviate some of the stress.
After rediscovering the time to write, I felt a sense of excitement and satisfaction that I had not felt in a long time. I started to spend every weekend immersed myself in creating. The pace at which my novels are updated is slowly resuming, and the enthusiasm of my readers is returning.
I also started to try to write some work-related articles and stories, incorporating my career experience and insights into my work. These new ventures have been loved by readers, and my novels have grown not only in number, but also in depth and breadth.
Just as I was slowly regaining my balance, I received an unexpected phone call. I was an editor at a publishing house, and they were interested in my novel and wanted to publish it as a book. This is undoubtedly a huge surprise and inspiration for me. I readily agreed, and began working with the editor to prepare for the publication of my novel.
During the publication process, I was profound
I experienced the challenges and joys of the transition from online novels to physical books. I worked closely with the editors to revise the manuscript over and over again to make sure every detail was perfect. In the process, I have gained a deeper understanding and improved my writing skills.
At the same time, I started promoting my upcoming book on social media. My readers have responded enthusiastically to this news, and their support and anticipation have given me tremendous motivation.
On the eve of the publication of my book, the company's project finally took a turn for the better. After several months of hard work, the project successfully passed the important stage audit, and my team and I received praise and awards from the company. My efforts have not been in vain, which makes me feel very satisfied and proud.
On the day of publication, I received my first physical book. Holding this book, I felt an indescribable sense of excitement and accomplishment. I immediately called home and shared this joyful moment with them. Although my parents didn't know much about online novels and publishing, they were very happy and proud to hear my excitement.
When the book was released, the response was unexpectedly good. Not only did the readers of my web novel buy it, but it also attracted a lot of new readers. On my social media accounts, readers share their thoughts on reading my book every day, and I feel incredibly relieved and encouraged by the positive feedback.
Inspired by the success of the book, I began to plan my next work. At the same time, I haven't forgotten to balance my work and life. I continue to work hard at the company while maintaining close contact with my family and making sure that I have enough time each week to write.
I also started participating in various writing and literary activities, and met a lot of peers and readers. These exchanges and interactions have brought new inspiration and perspectives to my writing.
A few months later, I received an invitation that excited me. I was invited by the literature department of a university to be a guest lecturer to share my writing experience and career insights. It's a new challenge for me, but I'm looking forward to it.
I started preparing for my lessons and presentations, and I hope that through my stories and experiences, I will be able to inspire young people who are passionate about writing. In the lecture hall of the university, in front of a group of students full of curiosity and dreams, I felt a sense of accomplishment that I had never felt before.
Through these experiences, I have come to understand my purpose and value in life. I am not only a company employee, but also a writer who can influence others through words. I began to cherish and enjoy this diverse lifestyle even more.
My family has been my solid backing throughout this process. Every time I communicate with my parents and sister, I feel grounded and warm. I know that no matter what happens in my life in the future, home will always be my safe haven.
As time went on, so did my second book
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