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After more than 30 years of baptism, Li Xiaoke still expressed great dissatisfaction and anger at his father's angry choice to leave his mother Zhang Ruiqi at that decisive moment.
Whenever he recalls the turbulent days of his childhood, the divorce of his parents and the breakdown of his family are like a heavy burden, which overwhelms him.
At that time, he was full of yearning for a harmonious and stable family life, and hoped that his father could spend more time with them. However, fate played a trick on him mercilessly, and he witnessed the escalating conflict between his parents, which eventually led to the disintegration of the otherwise happy family.
At that time, he was lonely, and could only watch his home once full of laughter become dilapidated, and the once harmonious atmosphere was gone.
Today's Li Xiaoke has entered middle age, but the shadow in his heart has always lingered. He sees love and marriage as a flood of beasts, and avoids them. His friends have formed his own family, but he ignores it, alone and alone.
Whenever his father Li Youbin affectionately advised him to find his other half as soon as possible, Li Xiaoke always responded with an indifferent attitude, and even a little bored. Although Li Youbin sincerely promised that as long as he got married, all the wedding expenses would be borne by him, but Li Xiaoke turned a deaf ear to this and didn't care.
Once, he also had the opportunity to participate in many blind date activities, but he always found all kinds of excuses to refuse, and he didn't even have the courage to meet each other. In the face of the persuasion of his family, he always hesitated, and he stopped talking, and that unspeakable expression made people feel distressed.
Although Li Youbin has now reformed a family with Shi Lanya, he still can't fill the gap with his biological son. He has tried many times to persuade Li Xiaoke to let go of his past hurts and embrace a new life.
However, Li Xiaoke's heart has long been deeply imprinted by the trauma of that year, and he cannot forgive his father's original behavior.
Back in 2005, an anti-Japanese TV series called "Bright Sword" was like a brilliant meteor, instantly illuminating the entire Chinese mainland and triggering a warm response. It is precisely because of the successful portrayal of the role of Li Yunlong in this drama that Li Youbin became famous overnight and became a hot star and a household name.
At this moment, although Li Youbin is over forty years old, he has overcome obstacles for many years, and after countless ups and downs, he finally ushered in the peak of his acting career. It was supposed to be the proudest and jubilant moment of his life, but it was surprising that at this critical moment, he made a shocking decision to part ways with his wife, Zhang Ruiqi.
Zhang Ruiqi has long been Li Youbin's staunchest protector and his strongest backing in the bumpy journey. It is precisely because of her wholehearted support and encouragement that Li Youbin was able to gain a firm foothold in the unfamiliar capital of Beijing, and finally realized his dream of being an actor.
And their beloved son Li Xiaoke is the most precious glory in Li Youbin's heart, and it is the crystallization of their husband and wife's love.
However, who would have expected that when his career climbed to the peak, Li Youbin would ruthlessly leave his wife and biological flesh and blood behind. The once happy family atmosphere came to naught in an instant.
And the culprit who caused all these tragedies was Li Youbin himself, who destroyed the family with his own hands.
At that time, Zhang Ruiqi and Li Xiaoke were deeply confused and saddened by Li Youbin's decision, they tried their best to keep and begged, but after all, they were powerless to return to the sky, and they could only watch the harmonious home of the past shattered, and their hearts were like knives.
To understand why Li Youbin made such a ridiculous decision, we have to go back to his hard years in Beijing.
It is said that after Li Youbin left the Changchun Repertory Theatre and stepped into the land of Beijing, his future was confused. As an unknown new actor, he has no connections in this strange city, so he can only rely on his own feet, full of hope and hardship, shuttling between various crews, looking for that faint vitality.
However, Li Youbin came from an ordinary background and his appearance was a little ordinary, which made it difficult to attract the attention of many directors. Although he tirelessly participated in countless auditions, all he got was a few small roles that didn't allow him to use his acting talent to the fullest.
In the more than ten years since Li Youbin stepped into Beijing, he has experienced unimaginable hardships and hardships. In order to make a living and support his family, he ran day and night between the major crews, sweating, just for the insignificant remuneration.
Whenever the sun sets and the stars twinkle, he drags his tired body home, longing for a break and relaxation under the care of his relatives.
However, as his son Li Xiaoke grew up, the family's financial pressure also increased. Faced with this predicament, Li Youbin had to devote more time and energy to his work, and even when his son Li Xiaoke was facing a major choice in his life - the college entrance examination, he could not be present to support and encourage.
As a result, the days of a family of three who were once full of laughter and laughter spending a good time together gradually faded away, replaced by the loneliness and loss in the hearts of Zhang Ruiqi and Li Xiaoke.
They have hoped countless times that Li Youbin can squeeze out even the slightest free time to share the warmth and happiness of the family with them.
However, Li Youbin seemed to stay out of the matter, completely ignoring the needs of his family and focusing on his career. Just as Li Youbin was working hard in Beijing, fate played a joke on him, and a sudden change completely changed the trajectory of his life.
In 2003, Li Youbin was fortunate to participate in the filming of the TV series "Jiangshan". In this crew, he met a young actress Shi Lanya, who was 13 years younger than him. Shi Lanya not only has a beautiful and moving face, but also plays a key role in the heroine in the play, which can be called the hot new little flower at that time.
The tacit cooperation between the two in the play made Li Youbin have strange feelings for this lively and cheerful girl. At first, he saw this subtle emotion as a spur of the moment, trying to keep it deep in his heart.
After all, he is already a married man with family responsibilities, and his wife Zhang Ruiqi and son Li Xiaoke are looking forward to his return.
However, as the relationship between the two deepened, Li Youbin found that his heart began to waver. He was deeply attracted by Shi Lanya's youthful energy and enthusiasm, which formed a strong contrast with the calm and introverted personality of his wife Zhang Ruiqi.
In the long wait, Zhang Ruiqi's gentleness and virtuousness seem to have lost its former glory.
Under Shi Lanya's affectionate instigation and encouragement, Li Youbin resolutely and resolutely accepted the grand invitation to star in the TV series "Bright Sword". It is with this widely watched and rave reviews work that Li Youbin became popular overnight like a comet and became famous.
However, while his reputation is growing, Shi Lanya, who is his agent, is always by his side, taking care of his daily daily chores. The relationship between them gradually sublimated in this daily companionship, and finally gave birth to a shocking love story.
When Li Youbin feels that he has fallen deeply into this love, he must make a difficult choice - whether to stick to his existing warm and happy family life, or heed the call of his heart and pursue a new life path? After some painful struggles, he finally firmly chose the latter - divorce and go to the palace of marriage with Shi Lanya.
Li Xiaoke once tried his best to prevent his parents from divorcing, and he begged his father countless times to consider it carefully, but Li Youbin seemed to have made up his mind and remained unmoved. In the face of his son's grief, he still insisted on his opinion and did not waver.
In the end, this family, which was originally full of laughter and happiness, was shattered, replaced by endless despair in Li Xiaoke's heart. He witnessed the ruin of his home with his own eyes, and watched his mother Zhang Ruiqi look sad and tears rippled.
And his father, Li Youbin, was relieved and ecstatic, and turned a blind eye to it.
It turned out that what really prompted Li Youbin to make such a decision was that he had already dedicated his heart to the young and beautiful Shi Lanya. On the occasion of his fame, he did not hesitate to choose to enter the palace of marriage with Shi Lanya, and was ruthless to his past wife and children.
Seeing his father drifting away from him, but spoiling his stepson Han Han in every way, Li Xiaoke's heart completely lost its home. He once had a dream of a beautiful family, but now this dream has been shattered by his father's selfish behavior, and it is difficult for him to find sustenance in his heart.
Since then, Li Xiaoke has been completely disappointed in his father Li Youbin, and he began to close himself off and refuse to talk about anything related to marriage, and to this day, the pain is still difficult to heal.