She was once the "No. 1 Beauty in Shanghai" and was known as the "Elf in Reality", but for the sake of so-called love, she gave up her career and became a full-time wife trapped in the family.
Eight years after marriage, she left a long suicide note full of remorse and accusations, jumped from the 28th floor, and ended her young life.
She is Shen Lijun, what has she experienced?
1. Sugar-coated poison
Shen Lijun made her debut as a graphic model, and later participated in film and television dramas, and also endorsed games, and was a popular "otaku god and goddess" at that time, and the media even evaluated her as "the first beauty in Shanghai", netizens contacted the game she endorsed and praised her as "an elf in reality".
In those years in the entertainment industry, Shen Lijun was highly sought after, and Louis Koo, Huo Jianhua and others who had worked with her also affirmed her star journey, and she could have had an infinitely bright future.
However, Wu Kaixin's appearance completely changed her life.
When they first met, Shen Lijun was sunny and cute, and Wu Kai was new and elegant and funny, and they naturally attracted each other's attention.
After falling in love, Wu Kaixin was very attentive and considerate to Shen Lijun, walking and chatting with her, watching movies with her, and traveling around the world with her, eager to be by her side every day.
As a wealthy second generation with a solid family background, whether it is brand-name clothes and bags, or luxury cars and villas, Wu Kaixin is not stingy, and gives Shen Lijun as gifts one after another.
After a period of "bombardment", Shen Lijun was deeply trapped in "love" and couldn't extricate herself.
At this time, Wu Kaixin's attitude slowly cooled down, and the positions of the two in the relationship began to be reversed, the person who had been sticking to each other and refused to let go became Shen Lijun, and the person who had been paying for each other with a big grin also became Shen Lijun.
Where can the girl who is carried away by love see the changes clearly?
After eight months of love, Shen Lijun and Wu Kaixin got married, and the married man no longer saw the gentleness and thoughtfulness he once had.
Before marriage, Shen Lijun clearly knew that she and her boyfriend had completely different interests and hobbies, but she naively thought that the other party would accommodate her like when she was in love, and the reality pierced her illusions.
After marriage, Wu Kaixin not only often stayed home at night because of playing mahjong or drinking, but also always accused her of "hypocrisy" and "princess disease" when Shen Lijun persuaded him to go home, which made Shen Lijun feel cold.
More importantly, Wu Kaixin also joined his parents to repeatedly ask Shen Lijun to give up her career and honestly be a full-time wife at home to take care of the family's daily life.
Shen Lijun was reluctant at first, after all, it was her dream to enter the entertainment industry, and her annual income of hundreds of thousands of dollars was the capital for her to straighten her waist, of course she was unwilling to give up everything she had worked hard for.
However, in the midst of round after round of brainwashing, she eventually relented.
So, she "killed" herself on the stage, and turned to the family wall all day with firewood, rice, oil and salt as a companion, she didn't feel fun in it, but she thought, for love, it's all worth it.
But Wu Kaixin told her with more and more excessive behavior that none of this was worth it......
2. Ending life in the agony of marriage
After marriage, Shen Lijun gave birth to two children for Wu Kaixin, she thought that this would make their married life happier and sweeter, but she never thought that this prompted her to go to a deeper hell.
Shen Lijun was born weak, and Wu Kaixin had a high sperm malformation rate, so after pregnancy, in order to avoid miscarriage, Shen Lijun took more than 200 injections of fetal protection injections without interruption, and spent the entire pregnancy in bed.
And morning sickness before birth, lochia after birth, she didn't avoid any of them, and the symptoms were very strong, during that period, she seemed to be shrouded in the smell of blood and sweat.
At that time, Wu Kaixin, as a husband, was still intoxicated on the mahjong table, neither caring about his wife nor his children.
When the children are a little older, Shen Lijun is keen to buy all kinds of beautiful clothes and shoes for them, and strive to provide them with a happy and warm environment to grow up.
And Wu Kaixin, a rich second generation worth hundreds of thousands or even millions, is often angry because Shen Lijun buys clothes and shoes for hundreds of yuan for her children, because it is "too expensive".
It was also at this time that Shen Lijun discovered the fact that he had cheated many times, and his cheating "little three" even frequently sent her intimate photos to provoke her.
Shen Lijun was mad, her first thought was divorce, but her mother-in-law persuaded her to "endure it and it will pass", Wu Kaixin threatened her, threatening "If you divorce, none of the children will belong to you." ”
She was helpless.
After a long time, she no longer asks her husband to love her and be loyal to her, she can accept her husband's blatant cheating and the provocation of the "little three", and the only thing she hopes for is that her husband is responsible for his children.
However, Wu Kaixin couldn't even do this.
For his two children, he is unwilling to let go, but he also does not want to bother to take care of them, and he even mentioned to Shen Lijun many times that he wants to send a five-year-old and a three-year-old child to a full-time care institution.
Shen Lijun was about to be laughed at.
In such suffering, Shen Lijun spent eight years, but fate seemed to torture her not enough, so that she was diagnosed with terminal cancer.
When she told her husband about her illness with grief, all she got was a look without fluctuation and a painless "I will collect your body".
Shen Lijun's resentment that had accumulated for many years exploded in an instant, she didn't care about the children on the side, and scolded Wu Kaixin, while the other party grabbed her hair mercilessly and slammed her on the coffee table.
It's a mess.
In September 2018, Shen Lijun fell to her death, and at the end of her suicide note, she wrote: "The path I chose is now making me desperate." ”
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Shen Lijun's suicide note