Once, Shen Aojun and Nie Yuan were a pair of golden boys and girls in the entertainment industry, and their 8-year relationship made outsiders think that they would grow old together.
But in 2006, when Shen Aojun took out all his savings of 2 million and proposed to Nie Yuan, he found that his heart was no longer in him.
Back then, Nie Yuan didn't dare to face Shen Aojun who was holding a bank card, and whispered: I'm sorry, I'm in love with my little junior sister, and I'm going to let you down in this life.
Originally, it was a happy proposal, but he didn't expect to be betrayed by his boyfriend, and when Shen Aojun heard that sentence, it was like being struck by a thunderbolt from the sky, and he couldn't stand steadily.
She instantly figured out why they had been in love for 8 years, and the other party never mentioned marriage, it turned out that he never thought about marrying her at all.
After that incident, Shen Aojun fell into deep pain and couldn't extricate himself.
Time flies, 17 years have passed in a blink of an eye, has she come out of the pain, has she found happiness again?
Shen Aojun is an actress who is loved by the public, and her audience is very good, if it weren't for the emotional injury she suffered too much, maybe she would have been among the first-line by now.
Shen Aojun, who was born in 1976, has a good-looking facial features, although there are four children in the family, their family does not favor sons over daughters, and parents do their best to provide their children with education.
Her eldest sister was admitted to the Shanghai Theater Academy that year, and became an acting teacher after graduation. After graduating from the Shanghai Theater Academy, she joined the Shanghai TV Xiaoyingxing Art Troupe and made her debut by shooting an advertisement for "Pepsi Cola".
In 2001, she filmed the first drama in her life, called "The Love History of the Tang Dynasty", although her performance in this was very jerky, but she still fulfilled the director's expectations, and the director believes that as a newcomer, it is quite good to have such a performance.
Shen Aojun is an actor who has made rapid progress, although the number of her works is not large, every time she appears, she will make people feel bright.
For example, in 2003, she filmed "Divine Doctor Xilaile", and was nominated for the Golden Eagle Award for Best Actress.
When her career began to flourish, she also fell in love with a man.
It was during the filming of "The Love History of the Tang Dynasty", she and Nie Yuan, who played the role of a debate monk, fell in love because of the play, and in just a few months of filming, they got along day and night, because of the same interests and hobbies, they soon rubbed a spark of love.
After the filming was over, their relationship also continued outside the play, exactly like all couples in love in the world, and they couldn't wait to be inseparable from each other.
When they were filming outside, they were talking on the phone, and their happy appearance was envious of others, and even their friends thought that their marriage was a matter of eight or nine.
But as time went by, Shen Aojun's career entered its peak, but Nie Yuan was still playing tricks, and the situation of strong women and weak men made Nie Yuan's big man feel very uncomfortable, and he also had a problem with this relationship in his heart.
Once a rift has been created in a relationship, it can never be repaired. In the world of love, the man is usually more rational, while the woman is usually more emotional, they believe that love is love, and when the relationship is deep, they will naturally get married. But the man usually thinks about all kinds of problems, wants to start a business and start a family, once any problems arise, it will affect the development of the relationship.
When Shen Aojun wanted to marry Nie Yuan with joy, and hinted from time to time, Nie Yuan would refuse every time on the grounds of his career, and after a long time, Shen Aojun took it seriously.
But she was too eager for marriage, too eager to have a home with Nie Yuan, so at the beginning of the article, she took out her 2 million savings as the cost of the wedding to propose to Nie Yuan.
She thought that if she carried everything, the other party would give her a home.
But he waited for Nie Yuan's empathy and farewell.
Because she loves her so much, even if she is covered with scars, she is willing to let go.
After the breakup, she fell into deep pain, locked herself in the house all day long, washed her face with tears, did not go out or take on the show, and seemed to be reduced to becoming famous again and making more money.
At the same time, she was not reconciled, and spent 8 years growing up with a boy, but before the boy grew up, he abandoned her, and it was not easy for anyone to put this matter.
Fortunately, she still has family and friends who love her, although they don't usually express their love, they have been loving Shen Aojun with practical actions.
They encouraged her with words, accompanied her with sincerity, helped her get out of the pain of falling out of love, and also introduced him to Shen Aojun when they met a good boy.
The first blind date was introduced by her family, and it was also her last blind date.
The other party was a diplomat, humorous, knowledgeable and self-contained, and soon captured Shen Aojun's heart.
After a brief encounter, they were convinced, and before proposing, the diplomat bought a diamond ring with two years of hard-earned wages. The moment he saw the diamond ring on his hand, Shen Aojun understood that the man in front of him really loved her.
is different from the previous relationship, being loved turned out to be reluctant to let her suffer, and is willing to give everything.
In 2009, they entered the marriage hall and welcomed their children the following year. Now Shen Aojun is held in the palm of her husband's hand, and she no longer has the gains and losses of her first relationship.