Question: If you are given 3 million every month, are you willing to get up early and wait for a "father"?
Recently, I don't know why, Nie Yuan suddenly became popular, and the reason was very tempting: because he gave his wife 3 million living expenses a month.
PS: The marketing account has gone viral, and the exact source is unknown for the time being
If the sheep is not mistaken, Nie Yuan was scolded for his last fire.
When my brother participated in "The Man Who Does Housework", he was sprayed into a sieve by many people because he was too machismo, but as soon as the news of 3 million came out this time, the comments on the whole network changed?
Nie Yuan, overnight, became a representative of "high-class" machismo...
@秦子越, are you aggrieved or happy?
Qin Ziyue, born in 87, is an actress in Chinese mainland, but after marrying Nie Yuan in 14 years, there is basically no such person in the entertainment industry.
The reason... There is a high probability that it is in Nie Yuan.
Brother participated in a talk show when he and Wang Hui were not divorced before, and the host talked about Wang Hui's retirement after marriage, Nie Yuan's first response was-
"I have machismo. ”
Pretty honest.
The host made up for Nie Yuan, saying that he didn't want his wife to come into contact with the complicated environment in the circle.
Unexpectedly, my brother's reply was not whether the environment was good or not, but that he was afraid of feeling while filming
In order to prevent himself or his wife from "cheating" during filming, Nie Yuan chose to let his wife give up her career and devote herself to the family, and work hard to build her career outside.
But we all know that where the economic power is, the right to speak is there.
And since the broadcast of "Yanxi Raiders" in 18, Nie Yuan has really become popular again, and compared with his wife Qin Ziyue, who is idle at home, he is obviously the one who can make more money.
Later, "The Man Who Does Housework" was launched, and Nie Yuan behaved very "underwhelming" in the show!!
A man who does housework?Nie Yuan is a bit like a man who is an emperor
Nie Yuan's favorite thing to say to Qin Ziyue in the show is: Qin Ziyue, you listen to me.
For example, Qin Ziyue chose a more formal dress to wear in order to participate in the show, but Nie Yuan came up...
Qin Ziyue said that he could not wear this, but he hoped that everyone would be happy.
Nie Yuan's words at this time became: It's not that I said to let you take it off, it's that I think it's not good.
Qin Ziyue compromised verbally and in action, but it was not difficult to see that she still felt aggrieved, because she couldn't help but complain to the staff that the dress was not deliberate.
As far as the performance in the show is concerned, Qin Ziyue's family is serving you Nie Yuan, because my sister said that men are the heavens of the family...
For example, Qin Ziyue's parents also lived with the couple, and the two old men got up early in the morning to cook, but Nie Yuan slept until the afternoon.
The whole family didn't eat a bite of food in order to wait for him to get up, but after his brother got up, he said very lightly: What is there to wait for?
After eating, Nie Yuan ran out to play ball, and the housework was taken over by Qin Ziyue's family.
And Nie Yuan did not disappoint the next day, my brother slept for half a morning and didn't get up, as if he forgot that he had a shooting task.
During this period, Qin Ziyue kept going to the room to call him the day before, but his tone was gentle and gentle, and then he asked the staff to call Nie Yuan up.
As long as Nie Yuan is at home, Qin Ziyue doesn't want to be idle.
After serving, he began to serve and wear, and Brother Yuan even had to ask Qin Ziyue if the weather was cold, and he didn't want to do such a simple thing as opening the window to test the temperature.
As a result, Qin Ziyue was still picky after matching his clothes, and when he went out, he called his wife and complained that "she wore less for herself".
The sheep really couldn't help but stiffen his fists
But Qin Ziyue is really good... She also asked Nie Yuan if she wanted to send him a piece of clothing.
秦子越干啥聂远都要说一嘴。
The more Qin Zi eats potato chips, his brother said that potato chips have additives, so eat less.
As a result, as soon as his daughter came home, Nie Yuan immediately turned into a loving father and coaxed her daughter to eat less potato chips.
It is understandable to be tolerant of children, but when Qin Ziyue tutored children to do their homework, Nie Yuan had to secretly tell the answer, and said that he didn't need to go to school in the first grade.
emmmm... Are there sisters who are envious?
In the interview with the husband and wife in the show, Qin Ziyue scored himself as a wife, mother and daughter respectively, and in the end, he felt that he was very sorry for his parents, because he gave most of his time to his children.
Qin Ziyue cried, but Nie Yuan was expressionless.
Of course, it's not that he doesn't have anything to offer at all
Brother's personality is actually not particularly terrifying, he speaks slowly, he will be coquettish with Qin Ziyue, he will help cook and organize clothes, and occasionally he is quite clingy.
But "Yu does not hide flaws", Nie Yuan is indeed a machismo who does not care much about other people's emotions at home, and has a strong desire to control.
From a modern point of view, Nie Yuan's series of performances are a bit daddy, and few people praised him after the show was broadcast at that time.
Recently, as soon as the rumors of "seven-figure monthly living expenses" came out, everyone wanted to become Qin Ziyue-
3 million living expenses per month, living in a big villa with my parents, my husband can't serve him for a few days for a month when he is busy with work, this kind of life is refreshing, right? !
This kind of husband and wife relationship mode is really not new
As soon as 3 million news came out, the whole network was discussing Nie Yuan's family relationship.
But from a macro perspective, this husband and wife model is actually very common, but Nie Yuan's 3 million magnifies it.
Isn't the relationship between Nie Yuan and Qin Ziyue still in essence a form of existence in which "men pay to support the family, women take care of household affairs, and are dependent on men in life"?
Qin Ziyue's compromise is really too common in marriage relationships.
For example, there is a highly controversial video on the Internet recently, about a full-time wife and her actor husband quarreling over living expenses.
In recent years, the woman has not gone out to work because she is pregnant and taking care of her children, and the expenses of the whole family depend on her husband and her income from occasional goods.
Due to the lack of living expenses in the later period, the woman listed a very detailed bill to the man, hoping that he could face up to the family expenses, and his attitude was good and even a little humble.
The woman was calm throughout the whole process, but the man said: Can you die if you don't move the money you save?
Although the husband finally compromised the amount, in the 11-minute video, he blamed the woman for not controlling the cost well and believed that the woman did not share the cost for the family.
But the point is
He blames the woman for not controlling the costs, but he avoids the problem and does not look at the bills, and he does not want to bear the household expenses alone, but he cannot think of a way to replace his wife's motherhood.
The end result was that he was very resentful, and his wife was humble because she had no financial rights.
Doesn't that sound magical?
But here's a pretty scary set of stats
According to the statistics of a platform in 19 years, the proportion of young parents in China who are at home full-time has gradually increased, and the proportion of post-95 full-time mothers exceeds 82%.
It's clear to everyone what it means to be full-time, and it means that a lot of women are decentralizing the economy.
There are a lot of women on the Internet who have photographed their daily life with a baby, and these daily routines are indispensable to calculate expenses.
Some people even feel distressed about eating out for a meal of 110 yuan (big city, three people).
What's worse is that the worse the economic environment, the lower the success rate of women's job hunting, and the higher the proportion of stay-at-home mothers.
In recent years, the overall decline of the world economy has caused the proportion of women in the workplace to decline to a certain extent in many countries and regions.
What is the result?
Marriage in many parts of the world is beginning to move closer to the traditional marriage model.
So, it is also a traditional family relationship model, why is Nie Yuan called a high-level machismo?
Should we envy Qin Ziyue?
Many people are envious of Qin Ziyue, not only because of the 3 million rumors, but also because his machismo is actually traditional-
"I am responsible for earning money to support the family, and my wife only needs to fulfill her duties as a wife and mother at home. ”
When he and his ex-wife Wang Hui divorced, he also chose to leave the house to provide the woman with financial security to the greatest extent.
But what does the pervasive machismo look like in this society?
It is both modern and traditional, or in other words, it is completely self-interested and full of calculations.
Many men will consult a lawyer about the division of property before marriage, and even calculate to let the woman leave the house
There is a subtle difference between the two.
The former believes that women are the second sex and should take care of the family, and it is the man's business to earn money to support the family.
The latter believes that women are the second sex and are born to serve the family and carry on the family, but when he is really asked to support the family according to tradition, he will say that women do not provide financial contributions.
In such a comparison, isn't Nie Yuan considered good?
Scared to death by this comment...
If you carefully analyze the marriage model of Nie Yuan and Qin Ziyue, you will find that the division of functions between the two is very clear, Nie Yuan is responsible for the economy, and Qin Ziyue is responsible for doing everything possible to meet her husband's emotional needs.
Although Nie Yuan's performance in the show was very poor, he did not ask his wife to take time out of his wife's job to share the financial pressure from beginning to end.
ps: The film and television industry has also been turbulent in recent years, and the cost of their family's living must not be low.
Qin Ziyue seems to be doing a high-income housekeeping job, completely handing himself over to the family.
It is precisely because of Nie Yuan's generosity and calculation that everyone praises him in various ways.
However, should we really envy Qin Ziyue?
To be honest, Sheep thinks both of these "machismos" are quite bad
Touting Nie Yuan is no different from touting the literature of the boss, and the essential core is the attachment of women.
Of course, Yang didn't know how their husband and wife were doing, and they couldn't figure out the individual feelings of the parties, and Yang just felt that he shouldn't over-embrace this model.
A high-paid servant who originally had a career and chose to be her husband after marriage would be abandoned one day, what would happen to her?
Nie Yuan may choose to leave the house, but most of the men in life are not Nie Yuan, and self-interested machismo is the norm.
There are a lot of cases of consultation on the Internet
Nie Yuan is just a sample of ultra-small probability, everyone should just have fun watching it, excessive praise is not good.
It's not easy for feminism to spread, so don't let the overlord literature be used as an Internet brainwashing bag in another way.
Just like Lei Jun who became popular a while ago, a man wants to be Lei Jun, but a woman wants to marry Lei Jun.
Which mindset is superior?
It can well be imagined.
It's good to be rich, but it's better for anyone to be rich than to be rich.
Isn't our opposition to hegemony literature in the hope that women can get rid of the traditional dependency thinking?
Looking forward to becoming the next Qin Ziyue, it is better to work hard to be your own God of Wealth.
You must know that there are not so many Nie Yuan in this world who can call you as you wish.