In this world, it is a matter of course to repay debts, and we must not have the idea of escaping debts, otherwise we will live up to the kindness of others and eventually be counterattacked. Ms. Song and Mr. Du are facing such a dilemma.
During their married life, due to the family's financial pressure, they had to borrow money from Mr. Du's brother and sister to make a down payment on the house. However, as time went on, the stress of debt began to affect their lives, and Mr. Du's brother and sister began to urge them to pay them back. This made Ms. Song feel very uncomfortable and stressed, and she was worried that the stress of this debt would make it impossible for them to lead a normal life.
Mr. Du believes that the money is part of the joint property of the husband and wife, and he is willing to take the responsibility of repaying the debt himself and not let his wife worry. However, Ms. Song still feels that she can't let go of it, and she is worried that this debt will affect their lives and the relationship between the couple.
On this issue, the mediator advised them to seriously consider the issue of repaying the debt, after all, it was a debt they owed and they had to be held responsible. At the same time, the mediator also understands Ms. Song's concerns, after all, this debt pressure will affect their lives and the relationship between husband and wife. Therefore, the mediator suggested that they should discuss together to develop a reasonable debt repayment plan and try to reduce the stress on Ms. Song.
In addition, the mediator also pointed out that Mr. Du should try to keep in touch with his parents, after all, it is the duty of children to support their parents. He can try to communicate with his parents and understand their thoughts while also explaining to them what he is struggling with. And Ms. Song should also try to understand the thoughts and Xi of her in-laws and respect their way of life. Only in this way can they reduce unnecessary conflicts and maintain family harmony.