Guo Qilin was excited and kissed to break the rumors of incompatibility! I felt that Guo Degang was about to cry

In the New Year's Eve performance of Deyun Club a few days ago, Guo Qilin partnered with his father Guo Degang to perform cross talk, Da Linzi teased, and his father praised his son.

During this period, Da Linzi was caught off guard and gave his father a kiss, and Guo Degang almost cried.

It is said that on the cross talk stage, there has never been a stalk that Guo Degang can't catch, but after this kiss, Guo Degang first smiled, and then blinked for a few seconds to adjust his emotions.

As a compliment but no stubble at all, Lao Guo was obviously surprised by this sudden kiss, and lost his mind instantly, and the whole person was excited.

At that moment, Lao Guo should have thought a lot in his heart......

The son kissed his father, which is not uncommon, but it was discussed by everyone on the hot search, in the final analysis, because the father and son did not agree and the rumors have been spread for too long.

As Guo Degang's eldest son and the young class leader of Deyun Club, Guo Qilin has received an extremely strict education since he was a child, and he is not the second generation of spoiled stars.

Guo Qilin is the child born to Guo Degang and his first wife Hu Zhonghui, Lao Guo and Hu Zhonghui met when they participated in the cross talk student class held by the Tianjin Hongqiao Cultural Center, and got married half a year later.

Guo Qilin was born in 1996, his parents divorced when he was 4 years old, Hu Zhonghui went to Japan to work, Guo Degang was running around in Beijing for his beloved cross talk career, and he didn't have a good time, so he left the child to be taken care of by his parents in Tianjin.

In other words, Da Linzi grew up with his grandparents since he was a child, and both father's love and mother's love are missing for him.

Lao Guo married his second wife Wang Hui in 2004, at that time he had already established the Deyun Club, accepted a group of disciples, and became a phenomenal celebrity in the cross talk industry, a legend of the year, and successfully turned over.

But his son Guo Qilin can only come during the winter and summer vacations and long vacations, and even the baked cakes have sighed that Da Linzi is like a hang-out when he comes to the house.

Guo Qilin expressed in the interview the damage caused by his father's frustrating education, in this home, he is like a guest, there is no room and bed of his own, there are no daily necessities, towels, toothbrushes and the like.

When he was a child, no one helped him up even if he fell in the grass......

After a long time, Da Linzi recalled these old things from his childhood, and his eyes were still filled with tears, and he couldn't hide his sadness.

Other apprentices have chairs to sit on when they eat at his house, but Guo Qilin can only hold the rice bowl by himself, sitting on the corner of the stairs and eating the food he doesn't like to eat.

Regarding this matter, Guo Degang once explained to the camera that he did not think that this approach was wrong, but was proud of his unique education method.

At that time, there were more than a dozen apprentices eating at home every day, and Guo Qilin had to ask his father if he could eat the dishes he wanted to eat, but every time he got only a negative answer, he could only pick up leftovers that others didn't like to eat.

Guo Degang had his reasons, he felt that he could not let his apprentices think that his son was "a head taller" than them.

Not wronged by the apprentice, but it was difficult for his son, Guo Qilin cried and ate the dishes he didn't like to eat, but was driven down from the dinner table by Lao Guo: "If you cry, go to the side and cry, don't disturb me to eat." ”

This incident is just a microcosm, Guo Degang's so-called core of education is to hurt the child's self-esteem and "knock out all his self-esteem".

But Guo Qilin was still a child at that time! He didn't cry because he had to eat vegetables, but he couldn't figure out that as his father's only son, he couldn't get favor, and even his other apprentices who were not as good as his father, and he couldn't even get basic equality.

Lao Guo thinks that he has good intentions, he scolded his son enough, let him suffer a lot of setbacks, and no one will be able to hurt him in the future.

The current Guo Qilin is humble and polite, and has a very high emotional intelligence, but he doesn't feel that this is his father's credit. There was a time when he had extremely low self-esteem and always put himself in a very low position.

The so-called frustration education is more like arsenic wrapped in honey, which may raise children to be more resilient, but it may also make children prone to low self-esteem and self-abandonment, and become self-depraved people.

Even Guo Qilin himself said that it was he who achieved his father's education method, and if he changed people, he might not succeed.

Guo Qilin, who lacked parental care since he was a child, only got loneliness, indifference and various pressures that hurt his self-esteem during his childhood when he needed love the most, and it is difficult to say that it will not leave a huge psychological shadow in his heart.

However, Guo Degang and Wang Hui's son Guo Fenjing was born in 2015, and unlike Guo Qilin, this child has been pampered.

When he was one year old, Guo Degang hugged him and shared the stage with cross talk master Chang Baohua.

Not only are the living conditions extremely good, but the "frustration education" that Lao Guo is extremely proud of has not been implemented in Guo Fenjin.

Guo Degang once said that he was often away from home and had very little time to see his youngest son, so he was reluctant to say anything.

In Deyun Club, Guo Fenjin can be called a "little overlord" like an existence, even if the veterans of Deyun Club are present, Guo Fenjin can also be in the C position, just like the stars holding the moon.

In fact, there is a gap between Guo Degang and Guo Qilin's father and son.

Guo Qilin rented a house in Beijing, and did not live in the mansion and villa of the old Guo family, and the reason Guo Qilin gave was: "His family lives too far away."

When the reporter asked him if he would miss being at home, he replied categorically: there is nothing to miss.

From beginning to end, the relationship between father and son is always polite and alienated compared to ordinary father and son.

In 2019, Guo Qilin starred in the drama "Niu Tianci", and Guo Degang made a surprise appearance at the premiere, not only hugging Da Linzi, but also praising his son's performance.

Guo Qilin, who was used to being suppressed in Xi, heard his father's public praise and was so excited that he burst into tears on stage.

In recent years, Guo Qilin has developed in the film and television industry and variety show circle, and Guo Degang will also frequently appear to support his son, seemingly intending to make up for the lack of fatherly love in those years.

In the New Year's Eve special performance just a few days ago, Guo Degang also joked that he would buy a toothbrush for Da Linzi when he went back, which hit back against the negative public opinion in the past.

He also persuaded Guo Qilin to talk more about cross talk: "Deyun Club will be yours in the future!"

Without those years of rigorous education, there may not be Guo Qilin with three positive views and high emotional intelligence, but the pain suffered by the unloved children back then is also real, and no one wants to experience it, which is difficult to evaluate.

Guo Qilin, who is now 27 years old, no longer talks about the old things indignantly, but the father and son are on the same stage and happy. For Da Linzi, the trauma is difficult to erase, but he is relieved of his father's blame after all......