Yan Xuejing was born in 1972 in an ordinary rural family in Yunding Town, Jilin Province. In her childhood, she had a lively and cheerful personality, and her style of acting was very hot and direct. She always mingled with boys of the same age in the village, and sometimes even scuffled over the slightest friction.
Although Yan Xuejing is not as strong as a boy, with her extraordinary courage and pungent personality, she can often repel her opponents and become one of the few "female men" in the village who dare to fight with boys.
However, her irascible personality didn't dampen her passion for music. In the era when television sets were still rare, Yan Xuejing's musical enlightenment came from the public broadcast at the head of the village.
At a fixed time, all kinds of two-person programs will be broadcast on the loudspeaker. She always listened with relish, and had an amazing ability to imitate and memorize - she could memorize the passage after listening to it a few times, and retell it to the villagers in its original form, which attracted a lot of applause.
Yan Xuejing's enthusiasm for the two-person performance drove her to take the initiative to sign up for the training class held in the town. Although the teacher was not optimistic about her talent at first, she persevered with great willpower and was recognized and praised by the teacher.
This planted the seeds for her future career in the arts.
To sum up, various experiences in childhood life have shaped Yan Xuejing's spicy, resolute and persistent character. It was this personality that supported her to overcome many obstacles and eventually succeed in their careers.
In 1989, 18-year-old Yan Xuejing faced the first major decision in his life. This year, she passed the exam with her outstanding performance and successfully entered Jilin Opera School for further study.
At the same time, she has also established herself in the Jilin Provincial Armed Police Art Troupe and has a regular job.
For many children from ordinary families, it is not easy to get such an opportunity. In addition, the salary and benefits provided by the art troupe are indeed good, and the parents hope that Yan Xuejing will develop her career well and live a decent life.
However, the Xi of the drama school will make Yan Xuejing leave her relatives and devote herself to an unfamiliar environment. What's more, it meant that she had to give up her stable job and face a fresh start in her career.
Standing at the crossroads of life, Yan Xuejing did not choose the path that her parents and most people expected. She resolutely decided to enter the opera school and chase her infinite passion for the two-person turn art.
This choice reveals a unique side of Yan Xuejing's personality. First of all, she has an independent will that surpasses her peers. She does not waver in her inner choice because of the dissuasion of her family and friends, but acts according to her own wishes.
Secondly, she has an almost paranoid pursuit of the two-person career. It is this obsession with her dreams that supports her to give up her immediate interests.
Of course, the choice of opera school is also due to Yan Xuejing's confidence in his talent. Through years of self-study and training, she knows that she has outstanding talent in two-person turning, and she is fully capable of making a leap through professional Xi.
At the same time, she has infinite possibilities to surpass her current achievements and become the best in this industry.
This decision is undoubtedly an important turning point in laying the cornerstone of Yan Xuejing's acting career. It showcases her resolute personality and foreshadows the possibility that she can achieve great success through hard work.
In 1993, 21-year-old Yan Xuejing married Lin Yue, who was divorced with a daughter, and became the stepmother of Lin Aoxue, an 8-year-old girl. For many, such a family structure is unimaginable – a young woman who needs to take care of her daughter, who is only a decade younger than herself.
However, with Yan Xuejing's innate affinity and understanding, the relationship between her and Lin Aoxue was not as awkward and difficult to get along as the outside world expected. On the contrary, they soon became as close as mother and daughter as their own mothers and daughters.
When the two met for the first time, Yan Xuejing's sincerity and friendliness left a deep impression on Lin Aoxue. She took the initiative to tease the little girl and listened carefully to her heart. Lin Aoxue also opened her heart to accept this gentle new mother.
What makes her even happier is that Yan Xuejing is never big, and always makes love to her like a sister.
After marriage, Yan Xuejing's care for the two children has always been equal. She will put her daughter's needs first and ensure that Lin Aoxue is not wronged in the slightest. When Lin Aoxue had an argument with her younger brother, Yan Xuejing would also fully support her daughter and make her feel the great power of maternal love.
As the years passed, an inseparable bond was established between them. Lin Aoxue regards Yan Xuejing as her biological mother, and the latter also regards her daughter as her own mother. For this reason, Yan Xuejing has said bluntly in public countless times - agreeing to be Lin Aoxue's mother was the most correct choice in her life.
Even in 2016, after Yan Xuejing and Lin Yue ended their 20-year marriage, her beautiful relationship with Lin Aoxue was not affected at all. The daughter still calls "Mom" affectionately as before, and often calls her to confide in her.
They are like a real mother and daughter, even if they are not involved in blood, they continue to give up their affection.
So, what kind of conditions and experiences do Yan Xuejing need to successfully play the role of a good stepmother? She herself is determined that she can win their trust and closeness by getting along with her children sincerely and caring for them from their point of view.
When children have the big tree of their mother in their hearts, their growth path will be carefree. This is also the most fundamental reason why she and her daughter Lin Aoxue have been able to go through 20 years of ups and downs.
In 2016, Yan Xuejing, who had just divorced Lin Yue and was single, once again took the hand of his new love Ma Mingdong and entered the marriage hall at the age of 46. It stands to reason that she should have started to enjoy life leisurely in middle age, but she didn't expect a series of unexpected situations to follow.
First of all, soon after remarrying, Yan Xuejing unexpectedly found out that she was pregnant with a second child. This really surprised a woman in her 40s who is already a mother, after all, this is beyond ordinary people's understanding of childbearing age.
Faced with the sudden accident, Yan Xuejing was also nervous. After all, giving birth at an advanced age is extremely harmful to the body, and the success rate is also low. Therefore, she revealed the news to her beloved daughter Lin Aoxue and her biological son Lin Aofei as soon as possible, hoping to relieve her inner panic with the help of the children's opinions.
Sure enough, Lin Aoxue, who was already a wife and mother, persuaded Yan Xuejing to give up the fetus in her womb. She felt sorry for her mother and had to go through the torture of childbirth at such an age, and worried that her mother's body would not be able to bear it.
In contrast, Lin Aofei firmly supports his mother in giving birth to a child, because whether it is a younger brother or a younger sister, he will play the role of a good brother.
In the face of the children's conflicting opinions, Yan Xuejing chose to give birth to the fetus after careful consideration. Because she understands her son's thoughts, she also looks forward to having a little life to accompany her in her later years.
More importantly, it seems to be a gift from heaven to her, a precious gift that completes this life.
In this way, after experiencing hardships and obstacles, Yan Xuejing finally gave birth to a lovely little daughter at the age of 47. Every time she holds her heart and soul in her arms, she will sincerely thank her for the right decision to give birth to her daughter, and the support of her children.
As a well-known and well-known actor, Yan Xuejing's acting career is at the peak of his popularity. The crew praised her not only for her outstanding acting skills, but also for being extremely amiable and respected by her peers.
However, no matter how busy she is, she has never neglected her family because of work. This has also become a place of high recognition and praise from the outside world.
In fact, Yan Xuejing's secret to achieving both family and career is to always keep her family in mind. Whenever work is over, she will go home to accompany her husband and children as soon as possible.
Sometimes in order to meet the deadline, I will take my little daughter to live in the crew, and I don't worry that she will have problems.
When his son Lin Aofei held a wedding, the busy Yan Xuejing rushed back to his hometown to participate regardless of the impact on work. She put on the most beautiful and solemn clothes, and the whole wedding was full of joy.
The most memorable moment for her is the moment when she took a photo with her son with her ex-husband Lin Yue.
Looking at her son and filial daughter-in-law in front of her, she was relieved to think of all this since she married Lin Yue in 1993. Although the pain of divorce was experienced in the middle, now the whole family is in harmony and reunited, and everything has passed.
She sincerely thanked God for allowing her to have such happiness.
Looking back at Yan Xuejing's half-century life history, it is not difficult for us to summarize the secret and success code of her career and family. These valuable life insights will also inspire every middle-aged woman to calmly move towards a fulfilling and happy future.
First of all, Yan Xuejing has a firm independent will and persistent pursuit of dreams. From giving up a stable job to be admitted to an opera school, to remarrying and having a daughter in middle age, she dared to follow her heart and face the results in every important life choice.
It is this confident and resolute power that allows her to realize the infinite possibilities of life.
Secondly, Yan Xuejing's affinity with people is also indispensable. Whether facing her stepdaughter Lin Aoxue or the relationship between her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, she can move the other party and resolve obstacles with emotion.
This kind of popularity and wisdom is exactly what middle-aged women need to learn Xi.
In the end, her success also stems from her ability to manage her family. Yan Xuejing not only has a prosperous career, but also can take care of her husband and children. The act of returning home frequently makes loved ones feel full of love.
This kind of family and social double harvest life is also worth learning and Xi for every working woman.
Through the above analysis, we sincerely hope that Yan Xuejing's story can inspire more female friends, based on reality and ideals; Use wisdom to create the future; Give it your all and enjoy the good.