My sister recalled the details of Coco Li's death
One night in early July, Coco Li's sister dreamed that her sister was waving to her, and her face was full of tears. Early the next morning, my sister received the bad news that Coco Li had committed suicide.
My sister couldn't help crying bitterly, she still remembered that when Coco Li first entered the hospital for treatment three days ago, she and her mother stayed in front of the bed day and night, for fear that Coco Li would do something stupid once she did.
Who knew that just one day after he left, tragedy happened.
When my sister rushed to the hospital, Coco Li had been resuscitated for 2 hours. Only then did she see Coco Li's pale face and bloodstained left hand. It turned out that Coco Li committed suicide by overdosing at home, and he was already found when he was found.
My sister's heart was like a knife, recalling Coco Li's abnormal behavior a few days ago.
Coco Li became depressed, talked less, sometimes said to himself, "It's all my fault", and his eyes were often empty, and he could no longer see the brilliance of the past. At first, my sister thought that Coco Li was just exhausted, but now it seems that Coco Li has actually been self-loathing in her heart and is under great pressure.
The only consolation is that when Coco Li hears the music, she can't help but hum along, and her face will reveal a long-lost smile. My sister hopes from the bottom of her heart that music can become the salvation of Coco Li's soul.
Now that I think about it, my sister regrets leaving at that time. Perhaps it was precisely because of her departure that Coco Li felt helpless, so she chose to end her life in despair.
The elder sister was grief-stricken, and she vowed to always be by Coco Li's side in the future and never let her be alone again.
Coco Li cared about Zheng Xinyi before her death
After Coco Li passed away, in addition to his family, the saddest person was probably Zheng Xinyi. It turned out that the two suffered from depression and became friends and confidants.
Coco Li often mentioned Zheng Xinyi to her sister, saying that she was too worried about Zheng Xinyi. Zheng Xinyi is introverted, doesn't communicate with people very well, and is depressed all day long. Coco Li wanted to wait for her illness to get better, so she went to accompany Zheng Xinyi more and give her some encouragement.
In fact, Coco Li has also been looking forward to the care of others. She has a docile temperament, and after her husband cheated, she chose to swallow her anger, but her heart was extremely fragile. Coco needed the support of family or friends, but her depression worsened due to the lack of warmth for a long time.
Coco Li's concern for Zheng Xinyi is likely to stem from her inner hope for her family and friends. She needed support and encouragement, but she just couldn't wait. Thinking about it now, Coco Li took care of others so hard before her death, but few people reciprocated her warmth, which is really distressing.
In fact, every life deserves to be cared for, and every soul desires to be understood. Coco Li didn't know how much of a blow her departure would bring to Zheng Xinyi. My sister believes that they will definitely meet again in heaven and continue to be the most loyal confidants.
The inspiration that Coco Lee left us is to care for each other and melt each other's loneliness with love. Her story reminds us to cherish the people around us, because you never know how long you can be with you.
Analysis of the causes of Coco Li's suicide
Coco Lee's suicide shocked everyone, and everyone was discussing what had led her to a dead end. After layers of scrutiny, the outside world can almost determine that the failed marriage is the main reason why Coco Li decided to end her life.
Coco Li's husband Le Yumin has been exposed to extramarital affairs many times, and the two officially separated this year. A marriage that was supposed to bring happiness ended up making Coco Li desperate.
She has tried to salvage this relationship many times, but Le Yumin's change of heart is undoubtedly the last straw that broke the camel's back.
It is rumored that Coco Li had been artificially inseminated many times before his death, hoping that a child could save Le Yumin's heart, but all of them ended in failure. The fatherly love she was looking for from Le Yumin was finally shattered.
Coco Li's inner trauma cannot be understood by outsiders.
What's even more criticized is that Le Yumin disappeared soon after Coco Li committed suicide, and the outside world suspected that he was trying to escape alimony. He and Coco Li's two stepdaughters also quickly logged out of their social accounts to avoid being questioned.
This undoubtedly confirms that there is only a superficial rapprochement between the couple and their children.
A person will only make the decision to end his life when he is desperate. Coco lacks care and support around her, and in the face of the blow of a failed marriage, it is understandable that her depression has worsened.
Instead of blaming her for her choice, we should reflect on how to bring more painful lives out of despair.
Coco Lee's efforts and regrets during his lifetime
Coco Li's suicide caught many people off guard, because in the eyes of others, she has been working hard and living a good life. However, her life was not as happy as it seemed.
Coco Lee's father passed away at an early age, and she has always longed for a complete home. So in the face of Le Yumin's change of heart, she still chose to be tolerant and retain again and again. Coco Li has made great efforts to save this marriage, not only swallowing her anger, but also undergoing artificial insemination many times, hoping that a child can retain the love of husband and wife.
But in the end, Coco Li still didn't wait for the happy family she longed for. The trauma of failed IVF, and ultimately the resulting depression, is hard to imagine.
In fact, Coco Li said before her death that she hoped to have two children, but this little wish became her eternal regret after all.
A person's life cannot be judged simply by success or failure. Coco Li is very good in her acting career, and her hard work and persistence are equally admirable. It is heart-wrenching to choose to end your life just because of a few setbacks on the road to relationships and childbirth.
But we also have to understand that when her flowery youth is completely destroyed, the despair in her heart is difficult to express in words. The sunny image that Coco Li brought to everyone will live forever, and her departure has also made everyone reflect on the meaning of cherishing life.
Coco Lee's funeral and aftermath
The news of Coco Li's suicide shocked everyone, and everyone was concerned about the follow-up funeral and other matters. According to Coco Li's sister, Coco Li's body will be autopsied in the hospital to find out the exact cause of death, which is expected to take 4-6 weeks.
After that, a funeral will be held in August, and a Buddhist ceremony will be used to see off Coco Lee.
As soon as the details of the funeral came out, they immediately attracted attention. Whether Coco Li's husband Le Yumin will come back to participate, and whether their two stepdaughters will show up, are particularly curious to the outside world.
Because after Coco Li committed suicide, Le Yumin lost contact, and the two stepdaughters also closed their social accounts. This ostensibly harmonious family was completely broken with the death of Coco Li.
Coco Lee's departure has undoubtedly brought great grief to the family and friends involved. As the living, we all have to reflect on whether we have ever ignored her inner cry.
Coco Li's unfulfilled wish has also become our regret.
More importantly, however, Coco Lee's message through suicide is that life is fragile and needs love. Everyone faces difficult situations, and we must learn to encourage each other and let people see hope in the midst of despair.
Coco Lee's story is particularly touching because it is also a portrayal of many women in this era.
Coco Lee has rested in peace, may her soul find her own paradise. As her last memory before her death, we will describe her life with grief and respect.
What Coco Li deduced with his life, we will all keep in mind.