The dilemma between heart and beautyWhen we read that report, we inevitably felt a little uneasy in our hearts. On social media, she bombarded the three female hosts of CCTV: "I have never seen such a disgusting host, she looks so beautiful." Such remarks are undoubtedly harsh, but what is even more worrying is why she lashes out at others so fiercely, and then praises their beauty in the last sentence? The relationship between beauty, talent, and personality has always been a controversial topic. In society, the pursuit and prejudice against beauty are endless, but few people are aware of the struggles and pains that may be hidden behind beauty. Everyone deserves to be respected and understood, regardless of their appearance.
We may have experienced a similar situation in our daily lives. When we are judged by others and define our value with our eyes, we often feel extremely frustrated and aggrieved. As a newcomer to the workplace, I have been in the same situation. In the office, my appearance is often the focus of other people's comments, while my abilities and efforts are often overlooked. I can't help but wonder: Does beauty mean that I can't be accepted and respected?
Gradually, however, I came to understand that while appearance is important, it is more important to be resilient and intelligent on the inside. So I worked hard to improve my abilities, actively participated in the work, and showed my professionalism and talent in my work. Through my own efforts, I gradually gained the recognition and respect of my colleagues. I learned that it is only through strength and hard work that I can truly change the perception of others. And when I communicate with others, I also learn to empathize. Instead of judging others based on their physical appearance, I try to get to the bottom of their inner world. I've found that everyone has their own story and unique sparkles. Every human life deserves to be respected and cared for. Different appearances do not affect a person's inner charm, and should not be the standard by which we judge others.
I want to tell everyone who is blindly evaluated by others: your beauty is not all your representatives, and it is not the only basis for others to judge you. In the depths of your heart, there must be infinite charm and abundant energy. As long as you are willing to open your heart and feel and understand yourself with your heart, you will be able to find your inner strength and release your own light. Perhaps, we have all been constrained by appearance, but let us not be limited by appearance. Let us communicate with others with the tenacity and wisdom of our hearts, and understand and tolerate others with sincerity and patience. Let's put aside prejudice and respect everyone around us, because everyone deserves to be cherished. The world needs more understanding and respect, and this also requires each of us to feel the hearts of others. Don't be fooled by appearances anymore, let's work together to create a more inclusive and better future.