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"The clouds are light and the wind is light, and today's afternoon is really pleasant. I looked at him meaningfully, trying to elicit his interpretation of the sentence.
He seemed to sense my suspicion and smiled slightly, "Honey, you look a little wrong, what's wrong?"
He was stunned for a moment, and then sighed softly: "After so many years, you are still as sensitive as ever." ”
"Please, that's what you said, and I, as your wife, have a right to know what you're implying experientially. ”
He looked at me with a hint of bitterness in his eyes: "Actually, this sentence is not what I want to say, but I saw it in a book." When I saw it at the time, I thought it was very interesting, so I said it casually. ”
"Oh, I see. I breathed a sigh of relief, it seemed that I was overly concerned. But I still felt a little uneasy.
Actually, this sentence is not intended to imply anything, but just to express that the living conditions and tastes of different people may be reflected in some details. He tried to explain.
He nodded: "Yes, that's what it means. ”
He smiled: "My dear, you will always be my crape myrtle, and you don't need to imitate anything." ”
I looked at him, and a warmth rose in my heart. Perhaps, some differences in details are not important, what matters is the firmness and loyalty to each other in our hearts.
"Well, it looks like it's right?" I said to him excitedly, holding a pink pajama in my hand.
He took the pajamas and looked at them carefully: "This one is really good, the color is very pastel, and it looks comfortable." ”
He smiled slightly: "That's right, your choices are always so decent. ”
I looked at him with some trepidation, as if expecting him to say more.
He sighed lightly and looked at me: "Honey, in fact, that sentence was just something I said unintentionally at the time, and I didn't have any deep meaning. ”
I frowned slightly: "Don't underestimate this sentence, it made me start to pay attention to some details in life, and it also made me think about a lot of things." ”
He gently stroked my hair: "Perhaps, my open-mouthed mouth sometimes bothers you, but my dear, my love for you will never change. No matter what kind of pajamas you wear, you are the most beautiful woman in my heart. ”
My heart was touched and I knew that his words were sincere. Perhaps, I am thinking too much about this sentence. The most important thing in marriage is not the details, but the sincerity and trust of each other.
From that day on, my opinion of him changed a bit. I began to focus more on the communication between us and less on the petty doubts. We often walk together and talk about our hearts and share the moments of life. I feel that our marriage is stronger.
Gradually, I stopped caring about the type and style of pajamas as much as I used to. I feel that what is important is the tacit understanding and deep understanding in our hearts. In his eyes, I will always be the crape myrtle in his heart, no matter what kind of clothes I wear.
Gradually, I also began to pay more attention to my inner world and emotional life. I tried to learn to be more honest about my thoughts and feelings, so that he could understand more clearly what I really thought. Our marriage has become more harmonious because of this change, and our trust in each other has become stronger.
Perhaps, marriage itself is a practice, which tests our patience and tolerance all the time. At the same time, I gradually realized that it was more important for me to find my inner home. As a result, I began to think more about my own inner needs and try to find a deeper spiritual connection with him.
"Honey, you seem to be a little different lately, is something going on?" he asked softly.
I looked at him with a smile, "It's not a big deal, it's just that I've been thinking about myself lately." ”
"Questions about the ego?" he looked at me curiously, "what are you going to say?"
"I feel like I need more self-growth and inner peace, and I'm not saying I'm not satisfied with married life, but I want to have more control over my inner world. "I told him honestly.
He was silent for a moment, then said seriously: "I understand you, everyone needs their own inner space. I will respect your choice and will support you on the path of self-growth. ”
I felt a wave of emotion in my heart, "Thank you for understanding and supporting me, I will try to make myself stronger, and I hope that our relationship will be stronger because of it." ”
In the process of finding self-growth, our marriage also burst out with new vitality. We have learned to listen more to each other and to give each other more space and understanding. Every word we say becomes more profound, and every time we get together, it becomes more meaningful.
Slowly, I also found my inner peace and home. In this marriage with whom I grew up, I felt great happiness. And he has always given me infinite support and encouragement on my growth path.
I turned my head and smiled brightly: "Thank you for your continued support and encouragement, your love has made me more determined to pursue my heart's desire." ”
"I've always been grateful to you, you've made me more respectful and tolerant. Marriage is not a bondage, but a process of tolerating and growing up with each other. He said.
"Yes, it is because we are in mutual tolerance and understanding that our marriage has become better. I said with emotion.
At this moment, marriage is no longer a simple marriage between two people, but a kind of spiritual fit. We grow together in mutual understanding and respect, making love more solid and emotions more abundant. There will be ups and downs on the road of growth, but with each other's company, even if we go all the way to the end of our lives, we will not be alone.
Yes, life is a practice, and marriage is one of them. The pursuit is not only external glitz and vanity, but also inner tranquility and growth. We pay silently, tolerate each other, go through joys and sorrows together, and practice love for each other with our hearts. This love is the most beautiful scenery in marriage, and it is the destination of the soul.
Perhaps there are some things that cannot be fully expressed in words, as now, when I look at the letter in his hand, the emotions that surge in my heart cannot be described.
"Who sent this? Seeing how you looked, is there something wrong?" I asked.
He slowly opened the envelope, revealing a beautiful invitation, "This is my sister's wedding invitation." ”
I was slightly stunned, "His sister is getting married?" I don't think your expression is very pleasant?"
He looked at me deeply and smiled bitterly, "I should be happy, but I can't let go of it in my heart. ”
"Why?" I asked curiously.
"Her marriage, and your understanding of me, makes me feel guilty and guilty. I didn't have much support or encouragement for her married life, but her choice made me realize that I might not have respect for her life decisions. His tone was sad.
"Everyone's experiences and choices are different, and not everything requires you to be held accountable. What's more important is that you are already aware of your problems and are willing to make amends and change, which in itself is great growth. "I tried to comfort the explanation.
He was silent for a moment and nodded, "You're right, I want to bless my sister, and I want to cherish your dedication and trust in me even more." ”
We have grown up in tolerance and understanding of each other, and we have also learned more in each other's grinding. Perhaps true growth does not lie in external evaluation and vision, but in self-awareness and inner commitment.
We move forward hand in hand, all the way up, all the way, all the way to grow. And now our love for each other is quiet and good, forever.
In our marriage, I slowly learned to be resilient and tolerant, and experienced traces of growth. No longer easily reveal your heart, and no longer easily distracted by external objects. He and I both understood that true happiness comes from within, and is contained in mutual understanding and trust. Perhaps, marriage is not simply a matter between two people, but a heart-to-heart relationship with each other.
He walked up to me and gently stroked my hand, "Honey, this is a letter I have addressed to you, and I hope you will take it." ”
I took the envelope he handed me and stared at him in bewilderment, with doubts and a hint of anticipation.
I opened the envelope, and a beautiful invitation card slowly unfolded in front of me, "You...... You're going to have a wedding with me?"
He smiled and nodded, "Yes, I want to use the wedding to show you my love once again and promise the world the dedication between us." ”
Tears welled up in my eyes, and I couldn't believe that he had proposed to me again in such a beautiful way.
"Will you marry me and walk with me every day ahead, happy or painful?" he asked, holding my hand tightly.
I was so moved that I could hardly speak, and said in a trembling voice: "Yes, I do, I am willing to spend my life with you forever." ”
On that special day, we walked into the palace of marriage again, and I wore a white veil and pledged our mutual commitment to love and loyalty in his company. At that moment, our love became eternal and a deeper commitment under the witness of relatives and friends.
At this happy wedding, we told our deepest emotions and swore to the world that we were firm to each other. The warm vows are engraved in my heart, and all dreams will be strengthened by our company and hand in hand.