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People who are over 50 have reached the watershed of their lives, and many people will be extremely confused at this time, wanting to see the direction of the road ahead.
This is the most common thing in the current age, and you should not be overly anxious, as long as you keep working hard and restraining yourself, you will soon be able to see what happens.
However, some people do not have a clear understanding and always step into the path at the most critical stage.
They often go to these three places, and they can easily drain the blessings they have accumulated, and I hope we can all wake up.
01: When you go to a place where you spend time drinking, it's easy to take yourself badly
As the saying goes: those who are close to Zhu are red, and those who are close to ink are black.
What kind of people make friends, what kind of environment they are in, what kind of life they invisibly brew.
Those who are always in the same relationship with mentors and friends, and who are surrounded by the sound of reading aloud, generally make progress slowly and eventually achieve their dreams.
And people who wander forever in places where they spend time and only waste time with fox friends will gradually become contaminated with bad Xi, so that they will eventually lose their way out.
I hope we can keep our eyes open and stop being fooled by the prosperity in front of us.
A truly high-quality life is not a drunken obsession, but a reminder.
The place that allows you to realize your dreams is the most worthy of cultivation, and the others are all virtual, don't be deceived again.
02: It is easy to get lost when you go to a place where you compare with each other
On Zhihu, a netizen told about his own experience, which made many people empathize.
Originally, he was also a promising senior engineer, with a lot of income, which was enough to make a good life for himself and his family.
But since he met a new group of friends and hung out regularly, he found that these people liked to compare themselves to each other as to who had the biggest house, the most luxurious car, and the higher annual salary.
Compared with each other, he was nothing more than this in front of others, so he had an inferiority complex.
Later, in order to make more money, he did not hesitate to embezzle public funds than others, and finally Lang Zhong was imprisoned, and returned to life again after many years, he regretted not at the beginning, but it was too late.
Time never waits for anyone, and at an age when you should live well, you will only sink forever if you pursue an ethereal life.
Comparison is the most boring and meaningless thing in the world.
People are in different life trajectories, have different cognitions, and there is no comparison in itself.
On the contrary, the more you compare, the easier it is to make people impetuous, gradually forget what you really need, and waste all your time on meaningless life.
The real winner of success is never to be better than others, but to win the life he wants.
Whether it is glamorous or ordinary, rich and luxurious or simple and free, as long as you satisfy yourself.
When we are no longer obsessed with comparing ourselves with others, but see our hearts clearly and keep our feet on the ground, it means that we have cultivated a sober and powerful mind, and from now on, no matter how many difficulties we have, we will only live more and more wonderful.
03: Going to a place that violates morality will tear the family apart
It is not easy for ordinary people to create a stable family, it takes decades of struggle, and it requires the family to work together and support each other.
But destroying a family is as easy as a hand, as long as we casually step into the land of fireworks, betray the family, and violate the personality, everything will be ruined.
When people reach middle age, they will inevitably get tired of the ordinary life and find life outside of marriage more exciting, but this is just a fantasy.
The more unobtained things are, if they are easy to forget, the preciousness of them lies in the fact that they cannot be obtained, and once they are touched, they are not interesting at all.
The truly happy people in this world never have everything, but keep the most precious things at the moment, such as marriage and family affection.
The more people who can stick to it because of love, the more they can appreciate the meaning of true love, that is, to share weal and pain, and never give up.
This kind of heartfelt emotional connection is far more fascinating than momentary emotions, and I hope we don't choose the wrong one.
Before the age of 50, we have the cost of trial and error, and after the age of 50, life becomes a one-way journey, and once we make a mistake, it will be irreparable.
At this stage, be careful not to go to any of these three places.
From now on, work hard, live well, treat your family well, and please yourself.
There will be endless emotions in a simple life, and a short life will be full of charm because of it.
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