In 1970, an ordinary family gave birth to their only daughter in Taiwan, named Xu Huafeng. Her parents were ordinary working-class people, but they loved their daughter very much.
From childhood to adulthood, they did their best to provide Xu Huafeng with the best life and education.
Xu Huafeng has shown extraordinary talent for dancing since she was a child, and every stage performance can dazzle the audience. Seeing this, the parents decided to support their daughter's dance career, allowing her to participate in a famous beauty pageant at the age of 19.
At the scene of the competition, other beauties paid attention to Xu Huafeng's outstanding demeanor and dancing. She finished in 4th place. At this time, Xu Huafeng's eyes were full of longing and enthusiasm for the future, because it meant that she had officially opened the door to the showbiz.
After signing with the brokerage company, Xu Huafeng was full of joy and prepared for his first performance. However, when she saw the opportunity in front of her, she was a little caught off guard - she could only play some small roles in tricks and extras, and she was still far away from the stage of stardom.
At first, Xu Huafeng was frustrated that she couldn't stand out. On set, she often struggled to tell the difference between herself and the extras who came and went. However, she quickly adjusted her mindset and decided not to pass up every opportunity to hone her skills.
After several years of hard work, Xu Huafeng finally got a more important role as the third aunt in the TV series of the famous writer Qiong Yao. Despite being a negative character, she was able to appear on the cast for the first time under her own name, which made her feel the first turning point in her acting career.
This became an important moment for her to take a step on this rugged road.
By virtue of playing the role of the third aunt in Qiong Yao's drama, Xu Huafeng felt the joy of playing the main role for the first time. Although the third aunt she plays is a sinister and vicious character, Xu Huafeng is very excited to have the opportunity to give full play to her acting skills.
After that, Xu Huafeng continued to appear in many TV series, although she is still a supporting role, she can feel that her popularity and popularity are steadily increasing. On set, the crew and other actors no longer treat her as a nobody, but treat her with gentle eyes and tones.
Xu Huafeng is also gradually Xi to performing in front of the camera, and is no longer so nervous that his hands and feet are stiff. She learns to quickly switch emotions between different characters and immerse herself in that fictional character.
Gradually, Xu Huafeng got tired of her boring single life. She also hopes to find a place in the entertainment industry that can give her a sense of security.
In 1991, during the filming of a police film, Xu Huafeng met her director's boyfriend, who was still relatively unknown at the time. The two hit it off and were in a relationship in just a few months.
The director has a lot of experience in Xu Huafeng's career development, so she decided to live with him and live together for three years. However, the good times did not last long, and the two finally quarreled fiercely due to disagreement in philosophy, and finally broke up.
To make matters worse, they also went to court for the ownership of the item.
This failed relationship is undoubtedly a heavy blow to Xu Huafeng. She fell into an unprecedented trough, and lost motivation for life for a while.
Fortunately, the small achievements in her career gave her the courage to move on, and she told herself that she must not be knocked down by this relationship.
Emotional wounds take time to heal slowly. During that time, Xu Huafeng devoted all his energy to his acting career. Work became a temporary escape from her pain.
In the next few years, Xu Huafeng took on many supporting roles in TV series. Although there are not many scenes, she is meticulous about the performance in every shot.
This not only honed her acting skills, but also allowed the directors to see her attitude and potential at work.
In 2002, two major events happened in Xu Huafeng's life at the same time. FIRST OF ALL, A WEALTHY YOUNG MAN NAMED CAI MENGCHENG EXPRESSED HIS ADMIRATION FOR HER.
Tsai Mengcheng comes from Taiwan's premier top wealthy family, which made Xu Huafeng very pleasantly surprised. For this potentially life-changing opportunity, she took the initiative to cut back her work and focus her time and energy on getting along with the two.
However, transcendent wealth and status do not build true happiness. Xu Huafeng gradually discovered that Cai Mengcheng's family was not optimistic about the existence of her girlfriend.
It didn't take long for the relationship between the two to inevitably crack and finally come to an end.
Another thing is just as important. That year, when Xu Huafeng met Tang Wei, a wealthy businessman, the two fell in love at first sight. However, what caught Xu Huafeng off guard was that Tang Weishi already had a wife and children.
Despite this, the sincere affection emanating from Tang Weishi's eyes still moved Xu Huafeng, and she did not choose to leave after all.
Since then, Xu Huafeng has started a 7-year junior life. For her, it was both sweet and condemned by her conscience. But Xu Huafeng has never given up the yearning for money and status in her heart, she believes that as long as she endures, one day it will belong to her.
has been a junior for 7 years, which is a sweet and painful experience for Xu Huafeng. On the one hand, Tang Weishi gave her unprecedented material enjoyment and security. He sent expensive gifts from time to time, provided unlimited credit cards for her to use, and bought a luxury love nest for the two.
In these extravagant enjoyments, Xu Huafeng felt the call to success in life. She even took the initiative to learn Xi the knowledge of layout, design, etc., and wanted to become a hostess with excellent taste.
However, the insecurity of lack of reputation haunts Xu Huafeng all the time. She has seen the label of "Little Three" in news reports countless times, which has made her condemned and painful.
Every weekend, she watched Tang Weishi go home to accompany his legal wife and children, but she could only face the empty love nest alone.
So she began to quietly pay attention to Tang Weishi's plans to go further. Finally, after she was diagnosed with stomach cancer, Tang Weishi mustered up the courage to divorce his ex-wife, and soon officially registered his marriage with Xu Huafeng.
In 2009, officially entering the wealthy family, for Xu Huafeng, it was the moment when the plants hiding in the shadows finally ushered in the sunshine. She is excited like a child and can't wait to experience the luxury life that she has only seen in TV dramas.
Finally, she can enjoy life in the name of it, instead of always carefully hiding herself.
However, the good times were short-lived. Just over a year later, Xu Huafeng's condition deteriorated, and in the end, he still failed to defeat cancer. Before she died, she whispered "I'm sorry" to her husband, perhaps because she didn't fulfill her wish.
In 2009, Xu Huafeng finally married into a wealthy family as she wished, but the good times did not last long, and she died of illness only two years later.
I remember that when the huge gift was delivered home for the first time, Xu Huafeng was so excited that she was at a loss. She carefully unwrapped the beautiful package, revealing a priceless piece of jewelry.
I never thought that one day, such a luxury would belong to me.
After getting married, I woke up every day and walked into the cloakroom, and countless brand-name packaging came into view. Xu Huafeng is often like a child, happy to choose her favorite clothes, and then elegantly attend various social occasions.
Every decoration and every piece of furniture in the mansion made her feel the joy of success in her career. Xu Huafeng will invite artists to explain the artistic conception in her paintings, and practice a unique appreciation eye.
Tang Weishi is also keen to take her around the world. Going to sea on a luxury cruise ship is Xu Huafeng's favorite way to travel. The sound of the waves crashing on the deck always brought her a great sense of satisfaction.
However, the pace of life does not stand still for anyone. The recurrence of cancer made Xu Huafeng realize that his time was running out. Even though Tang Weishi has always been by her side, she still survived the last stage of her life in pain.
Before she died, she said "I'm sorry" to her husband, probably because she couldn't fulfill her wish and left flesh and blood for Tang Weishi. Xu Huafeng closed his eyes like this and passed away with the last trace of regret.
The glory of her life that came to naught became a topic of discussion after dinner for those who envied and envied her. And the only thing who really experienced her heart was herself and the person who was by her side.
Looking back at Xu Huafeng's life, it is not difficult for us to find that she is a typical tragic life.
She was born into an ordinary family, and her parents tried their best to provide her with the best life and education. Such a family environment gave birth to her yearning for life, and made her determined to be beautiful and shiny, and become a star in the limelight.
Xu Huafeng unremittingly pursued her acting dream, participated in the filming of dozens of dramas, and honed her acting skills from the trick again and again.
Despite the long and arduous process, she never gave up her yearning for fame and fortune.
The two relationships gave Xu Huafeng a heavy blow and made her see the cruelty of reality. But she still chooses to tolerate being a junior, because it symbolizes the possibility of getting closer to the life of a wealthy family.
No matter how much you give, you can't change the ruthless reality.
Xu Huafeng finally married into a wealthy family as she wished, but soon died of illness. The short peak of her life could not make up for her previous sacrifices and tortures. Everything came to naught like a white horse, becoming the tragedy of her life.
Analyzing Xu Huafeng's experience, we can feel the strong desire for success and status in the hearts of ordinary people. This desire drove her to do whatever it takes, even at the cost of harming nature and reason.
However, the result is often embarrassing, success cannot fill the emptiness in the heart, and the pain will not be eliminated by wealth.
At the same time, Xu Huafeng also represents the cruel reality of the entertainment industry. It takes a lot of willpower and luck to stand out from the crowd. She had to face the possibility of polishing for many years before she came out, and the fact that her youthful face passed inexorably.
We should not judge her actions simply by moral standards. Because that kind of wealth and status is still like a moon in the water for most people, which is tempting.
Perhaps each of us has a shadow of such a side in our hearts to a greater or lesser extent.
Life in the world, do not seek success, do not seek success, but seek the truth. This is the wisdom of life that we can draw from Xu Huafeng's story. Do not blindly chase the external financial status, but see the essential meaning of life, so that you can live a meaningful life.
Looking back on Xu Huafeng's bumpy life, we can't help but think deeply about why a person's fate is so ups and downs and difficult to control.
She once had a youthful appearance, her acting skills are becoming more and more exquisite, and she seems to be only one step away from her dream of stardom. Life is full of hope and the future is bright. But in the end, the gears of fate slowly crushed her, and the moment she briefly touched the success, she was ruined.
Many times, we can't predict or change what is destined to happen. Destiny is like a vast stage play, where everyone is playing their part. We can't change the whole script and the ending, we can only try our best to play our part perfectly.
Therefore, when faced with a disappointing life, we should not be discouraged and let ourselves fall into disappointment. Instead, be open to all the possibilities in life and move forward without fear of failure.
On the road to pursuing your dreams, making mistakes and falling are inevitable processes. We need to stay positive, be brave enough to admit our mistakes, and then make changes and start over.
It's like getting lost in the middle of a journey, we can take a few steps back and rechart the path.
At the same time, learn to illuminate the heart and not be fooled by the external money. That vanity and falsehood will eventually disappear, and morality and value are the foundation of the foothold. By looking at the world with the eyes of the heart, we can see the essence of things.
On the road of affection, mutual understanding, tolerance and support can forge long-term love. Sincerely cherish the people in front of you, rather than doing things that hurt nature and reason on impulse.
Give kindness instead of harsh accusations, and be grateful instead of complaining about life, so that you can live a warm and harmonious life.
The most valuable wealth in life is not external success and status, but inner happiness and satisfaction. It comes from living your most authentic self and gaining the understanding and respect of others.
Accumulating positive energy will inevitably lead to insight into the meaning of life.
I firmly believe that if we live each day with hope and kindness, we will be able to live a positive and happy life. This is also the most precious spiritual sustenance we draw from Xu Huafeng's story.