There is a saying that says it well: "Since ancient times, the red face is more than a thin life"
In fact, the meaning of this sentence is not that the ending is very bleak if it looks good.
It is because the bleak ending of "Red Face" has a large topicality.
The beauty of the entertainment industry is like a cloud, in order to live a dashing and happy life in the second half of her life, choosing to marry into the rich has become the ideal life of many actresses.
Female star Xu Huafeng used all her life experience to explain the above truth
Xu Huafeng is an extremely patient "hunter"
Originally, the future was bright, but after interfering in someone else's marriage, he became a rich man.
It took her 7 years to force the original lady away.
However, the life in the giants did not last long, and it was only a few years before the cancer was diagnosed and died.
"Is this God's punishment of her?"
Carrying the infamy of "Little Three" for a lifetime, he only enjoyed the time of the giants for just a few years.
What is the secret behind this?
01
In 1970, with a cry, a baby girl was born in a family.
Parents want this child to be as noble as the phoenix, so they named it Xu Huafeng.
Xu Huafeng's parents are ordinary workers, and the family's economy is limited.
But what Xu Huafeng wanted from childhood, her parents would try their best to satisfy her.
When Xu Huafeng and her mother walked on the street as a child, she saw a very cute plush toy, what children don't like toys?
Xu Huafeng was in love with this plush toy and said to her mother:
"Mom bought me a good one, I like this toy so much"
Faced with expensive toys mother hesitated,
Today I came out to buy flour, but looking at Xu Huafeng's eager look, she said to Xu Huafeng:
"Well, I won't buy flour today, I'll buy you toys."
After getting the toy, Xu Huafeng's face appeared with a smile.
Xu Huafeng looked very outstanding when he was a child, and his facial features were very attractive.
With the growth of age, she has interpreted all her own advantages,
The high bridge of the nose and the large pair of eyes are particularly moving.
With her looks, she made a bold decision: I want to be an actress!
When she volunteered for the college entrance examination, she told her parents that she wanted to become an actor after applying for art school.
After listening, the parents said: The daughter has really grown up, no matter what choice you make, we will support you, and we will always be your backing.
Xu Huafeng heard that her parents supported her so much and became more diligent and began to study desperately.
The exciting moment finally arrived, and Xu Huafeng jumped up happily on the day of the results
Yes, Xu Huafeng was admitted to art school.
She rushed to her parents' place of work with lightning speed, wanting to tell her parents the good news:
"Mommy and Daddy, you guys, I'm admitted."
After hearing this, my parents directly moved to cry: "Our girlfriend has a career, and she will become a big star in the future."
At the same time, he was happy but laughed at the side: Then I will ask Hua Feng for an autograph now.
Xu Huafeng, who enters the university, can be exposed to more opportunities.
When she was 19 years old, Xu Huafeng signed up for the beauty contest for Miss Jiale China by chance.
Although it was the first time to participate in this kind of competition, she still relied on her own appearance and her own unique temperament to make the judges and teachers remember her at once.
Although he only got the 4th place, this is already very satisfying for 19-year-old Xu Huafeng.
This also became a cornerstone for her to enter her acting career.
02
After participating in the competition and getting the ranking, Xu Huafeng hit the iron while it was hot and quickly filmed a wave of super beautiful photo albums "If in Heaven" and "Thousands of Styles"
These two photo albums are really "not letting go of any place on Xu Huafeng's body", interpreting her sexy charm in every way.
Once released, she gained a large wave of fans, which made her famous in the entertainment industry.
Xu Huafeng, who saw the situation, immediately released her own record "If in Heaven", which made her capture the hearts of many people.
Having such a temperament and achievements at a young age, this made Qiong Yao pay attention to Xu Huafeng.
After that, she accepted the invitation to participate in Qiong Yao's "Plum Blossom Three Alleys of Water and Clouds".
Xu Huafeng's acting talent is very high, and she is also very dedicated in the face of the difficult conditions of filming.
The role she played in the play was very successful, and the crew said that she would definitely become a big hit in the future.
After this drama, she once again gained a large number of fans.
Just over a year later, she was invited by director Choi Yue-hoon to star in The Meteor Garden.
This "Meteor Garden" has an extraordinary influence in the country and even the world, and can be said to be the "ceiling" of youth idol dramas.
The F4 in "Meteor Garden" instantly burned all over the streets,
But as a supporting role, Xu Huafeng did not have a big fire like others,
But this made her own fame a qualitative leap.
She has made great progress in her career, and she has many suitors in her relationship.
In the face of some pressures and setbacks in life, Xu Huafeng also gradually began to pay attention to her emotional life.
03
In 1995, Xu Huafeng ushered in the first love affair of her life.
She met Wen Zhaolun while filming the play "I Am Kind".
In the play, these two people will have some more intimate scenes, and I did not expect that in the love of the play, the two people brought to real life.
Wen Zhaolun took very good care of Xu Huafeng inside and outside the play, and perhaps the meticulous care soon made Xu Huafeng feel moved.
When the two people interacted, the paparazzi did not stop, and soon their relationship was exposed.
There would have been a voice that could have gained the support of the outside world, but on the contrary, the outside world was full of accusations.
Unexpectedly, Wen Zhaolun already had a girlfriend, Xu Huafengming knew that he had a girlfriend and chose to associate with him without hesitation.
This allowed her to successfully obtain the title of third party.
"Now the outside scolding you is too ugly, although I love you, but I don't want you to be wronged"
"It doesn't matter, I don't care what people say about me, as long as you keep loving me."
At that time, the situation of the two was very chaotic, the outside world was full of accusations against these two people, and many people were not optimistic about their relationship.
Some netizens said: Wen Zhaolun can betray his ex-girlfriend, but also betray you.
In the face of these public opinions, the two acted as if nothing had happened.
They even lived together, and their little days were very moist.
There is a saying that is very good, we must leave enough space for each other to reduce the occurrence of contradictions.
After Xu Huafeng and Wen Zhaolun lived together for a few years, from the sweetness at the beginning to the endless quarrels later, there was a crack in the relationship.
Later, Wen Zhaolun unfortunately broke the law and was arrested and imprisoned.
And this relationship that is almost unsustainable is over.
04
But Xu Huafeng, who is both beautiful and talented, does not worry about not having a boyfriend at all.
Her "suitors can line up to go abroad."
However, in the face of various realities in life, she set her sights on the giants.
Soon after, she met Cai Mengcheng, a famous local tycoon, at an event.
"This beautiful young lady, can I have a drink with you?"
Xu Huafeng only saw that the man in front of him was very good from dress to temperament, and he said hurriedly:
"Okay, but I can't drink more."
Cai Mengcheng said: "It's okay, I'll let the driver send you home in a moment."
Later, after learning the identity of Cai Mengcheng, Xu Huafeng also took the initiative, and the two people who came and went quickly fell in love.
However, as an actor, Xu Huafeng will inevitably have a very intimate role with male actors when filming, which has caused dissatisfaction with the rich Cai Mengcheng.
Cai Mengcheng angrily said to Xu Huafeng:
I'm your boyfriend, and you're too intimate with other men, don't you think about my feelings?
Xu Huafeng: The plot script needs what I can do, I am an actor, not a machine.
Unexpectedly, this caused dissatisfaction on both sides, and the two broke up soon after, and the relationship ended completely.
When she interacted with the rich, she experienced an unprecedented feeling, and she was more determined to marry into the rich
"No matter who you are, you have to be a big man first."
Since then, she has been "hunting".
In 2002, she met a rich young master named Tang Wei.
However, this man also has a family, but Tang Wei is from a rich family, how could Xu Huafeng let go of such a good opportunity?
Xu Huafeng still did not change his previous idea of wanting to be a "third party".
Xu Huafeng was attracted by the mature breath of this man who was 15 years older than himself.
Xu Huafeng was already deeply in love with Tang Wei.
Even if Tang Wei has a wife and children, she will continue to love him with the insults of "third party" and "mistress".
In order to be able to manage this relationship well, Xu Huafeng chose to quit the entertainment circle.
Tang Wei is indeed a rich man, not only buying a mansion for Xu Huafeng, but also spending most of his time with Xu Huafeng every day.
However, how could Tang Wei's original wife not know all this?
In the face of these Tang Wei's wives, they can only turn a blind eye, after all, everyone wants to cherish this hard-won luxury life.
The two people's 7-year-long unsightly love affair finally made Tang Wei's original wife unbearable, and finally chose to divorce.
How can a man he loves stand to love another woman without a line?
At the same time, Xu Huafeng and Tang Wei's original wife's 7-year open and dark struggle finally divided the victory and defeat.
Endure for 7 years to marry into the rich, which is worth the 7 years of waiting for Xu Huafeng.
In 2009, Tang Wei and Xu Huafeng held a grand wedding in Bali.
Xu Huafeng, who joined the giants, could have enjoyed a comfortable life of a rich man, but at this time, his stomach cancer once again metastasized and recurred.
As early as 2008, she was diagnosed with stomach cancer, and she also had a total gastrectomy.
After the operation, Xu Huafeng gradually got better and better under the careful care of Tang Wei, and even reached the state of a healthy person.
But who would have thought that the cancer cells that had just joined the giants and become Tang Wei's veritable wife had spread further.
At that time, when the two people got married, Xu Huafeng also said that the next plan was to give birth to children for her husband.
But because of the spread of cancer cells, she had to remove her uterus.
Tang Wei did not dislike this wife with cancer, but took good care of her.
In the rest of their lives, the two of them struggled with the disease together.
Xu Huafeng also served as an anti-cancer ambassador, actively encouraging patients suffering from cancer.
In order to attend the anti-cancer activities, she painted herself a very delicate makeup to cover her haggard face.
At the event, Xu Huafeng said:
"Patients don't give up, I have had several surgeries myself, I have forgotten the number of chemotherapy and radiation therapy, but everyone must have confidence in themselves, we will overcome the disease together." 」
Despite the careful care and strong self-confidence of her husband, this can not withstand the spread of cancer cells.
On December 6, 2011, Xu Huafeng died while receiving treatment in the hospital.
She lay in Tang Wei's arms and smiled and walked away, at that time her whole body was thin and could only be described as skin and bone.
After Xu Huafeng's death, Tang Wei's reaction was very flat,
Until he saw Xu Huafeng's body being sent to the freezer, he could no longer suppress his mood and collapsed and cried.
Now Tang Wei has never married another wife, and every time The Qingming Zhongyuan will visit Xu Huafeng.
Some people say that Xu Huafeng is stupid,
She could have shined on the road of acting, but she only wanted to marry into the giants,
In the end, he ended up dying at the age of 41.
Interfering in someone else's marriage, he still bears the scolding of a "third party" until he dies.
In the face of these evil fates, Xu Huafeng did not get good results until his death.
The Buddha said:
All his life in the pursuit of the giants, although as desired, the ending is not perfect?
Maybe this is really what Xu Huafeng wants?
If she had to do it again, how would she choose?
And if you were her, how would you choose?