The Peking University dream of the daughter of an ordinary family
In 1977, an ordinary Shaanxi worker family gave birth to their first daughter, and her parents happily named her Shi Hengxia.
Xiaoxia has fair skin, a pair of big black grape-like eyes, smart and cute, and has been very smart since he was a child.
After going to school, Xiaoxia with a good upbringing is loved by teachers.
She has always been among the best in her Xi studies, especially in her composition, and is often guided by her teachers and shared as a model in the class.
A lovely girl with literary cells, always with a distinctive imagination and keen observation. Her dream is to be admitted to Peking University or Tsinghua University and become an elegant and intellectual talent.
However, the good times did not last long, and when the college entrance examination came in 1996, Xiaoxia played abnormally due to neglect of training when preparing for the exam, and unfortunately failed to get admitted to the coveted Peking University Tsinghua University.
She could only study mechanical engineering at the local Shaanxi Institute of Technology, which was not the life she wanted.
A year has passed, Xiaoxia decided to muster up the courage and take a year off to prepare for the 1997 college entrance examination, hoping to successfully realize the dream of Peking University.
The parents expressed their understanding and support for their daughter's choice, which gave Xiaoxia the motivation to continue to move forward.
However, just a week before the college entrance examination, fate gave Xiaoxia a heavy blow. In a sudden car accident, his left hand and leg are comminutedly fractured, and while he suffers physical injuries, more importantly, he is at risk of blindness that can lead to lifelong disability.
The doctor persuaded her to give up the college entrance examination to take care of her injuries, but Xiaoxia's dream could not be given up. She blackmailed her parents into giving in with a hunger strike, and finally challenged the college entrance examination scene with bandages on her body under their helpless compromise.
However, the injuries were so severe that she collapsed again after barely finishing the Chinese exam and had to leave the field for medical treatment.
This time, Xiaoxia's beautiful dream of Peking University was shattered. But life continues to be reborn in the pain of illness like a phoenix nirvana. Adversity can't easily crush this smart and resilient girl, she must rise up again and start again.
Internet celebrities become popular and red dust is frustrated
After the car accident, Xiaoxia returned to Shaanxi Institute of Technology to continue his studies. Although she lost the opportunity to take the college entrance examination, she still studied hard to Xi, and her grades in college were outstanding, and she won many scholarships.
After graduating from college, he was assigned to work for a construction company. At first, she tried to adapt to her new environment, but eventually found that her interests and dreams were not here.
After quitting his stable job, Xiaoxia began to come to Beijing alone to prepare for the graduate school of Peking University through self-study, hoping to realize his dream.
However, the accident like the college entrance examination happened again, and Xiaoxia's test scores failed to meet the standard several times. In the shadow of repeated failures, the inner bubble gradually bursts. One day in 2004, she posted some photos of herself and sad words on the Internet forum of Peking University and Tsinghua University, hoping to get a little comfort.
Unexpectedly, this article entitled "Peking University, you are my deepest and most beautiful pain!" 's post unexpectedly became popular on the Internet, and Xiaoxia became an Internet celebrity overnight, and was affectionately called "Sister Furong" by fans.
When the limelight was in full swing, a song "Brother-in-law Furong" that maliciously mocked her quickly spread on the Internet. The vitriol lyrics seriously affected her relationship with her boyfriend, and the two chose to break up under the pressure of public opinion.
Just when both career and relationship encountered Waterloo, the 29-year-old Xiaoxia also faced another accident - he was pregnant. Alone in a foreign land, she faced the situation of unmarried pregnancy and the departure of her boyfriend, Xiaoxia fell into unprecedented confusion and pain.
This is a key turning point in his life, does Xiaoxia choose to continue to sink, or find the inner strength to turn over again?
Inspirational transformation for single mothers
A new life arrives unexpectedly, allowing the little man who is struggling in pain to thrive overnight. She realized that this new life needed her own care and companionship, and as a responsible woman, she had to stand up to meet this sacred mission.
After careful consideration, Xiaoxia decisively chose to give birth to the child and take on the responsibility of raising it alone. The baby born has fair skin, and a pair of black eyes that are exactly like her are smart and cute.
Xiaoxia decided to name this new life with his own name "Xia", pinning on his unyielding will to struggle.
Since then, Xiaoxia no longer caters to the noise of the Internet, but has begun to live a low-key and introverted life, devoting all his time and energy to taking care of the growth of his children. She takes care of the baby's daily life and diet, reads stories and sings nursery rhymes to the child herself, and feels the happiness of being a mother in the interaction.
Three years later, Xiaoxia created his own media company. In 2009, she choreographed, directed and starred in a solo drama, which was a great success. During this period, the 29-year-old single mother has completed a magnificent transformation from an internet celebrity to a successful female entrepreneur with amazing perseverance and resilience.
At the speech of Peking University, the makeover little man appeared in front of everyone elegantly and generously. She used her story to tell the young people present that there is no need to be afraid of failure in life, as long as you don't give up, you will definitely be able to get where you want.
At this time, Xiaoxia has become the spiritual mentor of the strugglers.
Now, the 8-year-old son of Xiaoxia is in the period of enlightenment. Xiaoxia carefully cultivated his son's interest in reading, and often took him to bookstores and libraries, learning Xi is the best gift.
She hopes that children will have a love for learning and Xi, and no matter what setbacks they experience, they will never give up their original intention to grow.
A low-key and elegant life transition
In the years that followed, Xiaoxia continued to develop his career steadily, but he has completely gotten rid of the flamboyant personality he had when he was an Internet celebrity, and instead turned to a low-key and introverted attitude towards life.
She regularly takes her son on outings to appreciate the beauty of nature. Climb the Great Wall and feel the indomitable will of the Chinese nation; Go to the botanical garden and teach my son about all kinds of exotic flowers and plants.
Xiaoxia hopes that children will have a strong love for this land from an early age.
On weekdays, Xiaoxia is keen to participate in various outdoor sports, which not only strengthens his body, but also adjusts his cheerful and positive attitude. She no longer dwells on the past, but lives in the present and strives to be a positive person.
This also affects and infects the people around him.
Xiaoxia gradually got rid of the label of Internet celebrity, but enriched his connotation through reading, sports, and work. She will share her reading insights on social networks, recommend positive movies, and share fitness experiences.
Many people feel the positive burning power of life from her changes.
Today, Xiaoxia is one of the most successful strong women in the industry. But she was not carried away by fame and fortune, and her life was still simple and simple. Now his 15-year-old son is in the stage of youth and rebellion, Xiaoxia chooses to tolerate the changes of his children with wisdom and love, and believes that he will gradually grow up.
In this era of materialism but scarcity of positive energy, Xiaoxia uses his own story to tell everyone that exercising body and mind and maintaining a positive and optimistic attitude make people feel more satisfied and happy than any external achievements.
This is also the destination of her wisdom in life.
Sober and resilient feminine power
Today, the 44-year-old Xiaoxia has transformed into an independent and confident successful woman who cultivates both inside and outside. Along the way, she has experienced ups and downs from an ordinary girl to an Internet celebrity to a strong woman, but she has always maintained her sobriety and tenacity.
In the past 17 years, those who once mocked and attacked her have long since changed their targets. They may no longer remember what they did, but the little man who never admits defeat uses those bad words as motivation and climbs up from the quagmire step by step.
Failure in the college entrance examination, unexpected pregnancy, career ups and downs, every seemingly small turning point in life is a test of fate for Xiaoxia. In those difficult moments, many people chose to give up or retreat, but Xiaoxia chose to rise up every time.
In the face of bad comments, she was silent; In the face of loneliness, she resolutely moved forward; In the face of adversity, she is fearless. Because she knows that only she can truly control the course of life.
Today's Xiaoxia is already an intellectual, elegant, and positive woman. She is willing to share her reading insights, advocate positivity, and use her story to tell future generations that there is nothing impossible in life, as long as you don't give up, the night will pass, and the dawn will eventually come.
Because he is too strong, Xiaoxia is often considered to be weak and considerate enough. But that's what sets her apart from the rest.
She used her courage and perseverance to prove that women can also be completely independent, can fight for their ideals for a lifetime, and can turn mud into flowers in the face of adversity.
The story of Xiaoxia has given generations of women the strength to dare to chase their dreams and dare to fight against injustice and discrimination. In their hearts, Xiaoxia is a symbol of self-improvement.
It is precisely because of such a firm belief as a guiding light that Xiaoxia can come from the quagmire step by step. The ridicule and denial at the beginning have become the driving force for her to move forward.
It also inspires everyone who is in a difficult situation.
There is no standard answer to life, but as long as you are strong enough in your heart, you can overcome all external adversity and move from the mire to the light. This is the spiritual message of Xiaoxia's life journey.
In this materialistic era, Xiaoxia's story reminds the world that money and fame cannot determine a person's life. Only self-confidence and positive energy are the driving force of life.
Xiaoxia is worth learning from everyone Xi because she represents the awakening and rise of a generation of women. From being ridiculed to being admired, she used her life to practice the life experience of the star who still bloomed after being burned.
Today's Xiaoxia is a symbol of tenacity and positivity in this era. But her life story will not stop there, she will continue to walk with a more wise and elegant attitude, and use her unique spirit to infect and light up more people's hearts.
I believe that at every turning point in her life, a dazzling light will shine.