On a cold winter day in 1979, in an ordinary house in Tianjin, a mother struggled to give birth to a baby girl. This ordinary girl is Pang Xiuyu, who was later called "Genius Girl".
Looking at his newborn daughter, Pang Yi's heart swelled with joy and hope. As an ordinary construction company employee, he originally thought that he was destined to live a peaceful life.
But the birth of this daughter made him see the light of life. He is determined to prove his worth and realize his dream through his daughter.
As a result, Pang Yi placed too much expectation and pressure on Pang Xiuyu. Pang Xiuyu's childhood was not happy at all, she was often severely criticized by her father, and she had to face countless books and homework.
The time for play was completely deprived, and laughter never appeared. Little Pang Xiuyu felt very lonely and lonely, and her only warmth was to take a short nap in the toilet.
Pang Yi's harsh discipline cast a shadow over Pang Xiuyu's childhood. But his expectations and encouragement also made Pang Xiuyu really like the skill of writing.
Under the guidance of her father, Pang Xiuyu's writing talent began to slowly show.
Under her father's strict requirements, Pang Xiuyu was forced to bury her head in Xi. Every day, she had to face a lot of reading tasks assigned by her father, as well as the daunting challenge of writing 2,000 words.
At first, Pang Xiuyu felt very struggling, and often completed the task late at night. But gradually, in reading and writing, she found pleasure. It turns out that words can be so vivid and interesting, and the collection of articles contains infinite possibilities.
As a result, Pang Xiuyu really fell in love with the art of writing. She has a rich imagination and vivid writing, and her articles are loved by teachers and classmates. Pang's father also saw his daughter's talent in writing, and he set out to contact newspapers and publishers to start publishing Pang Xiuyu's articles.
Soon, Pang Xiuyu's name became famous all over the country, and she was praised as a "genius girl".
In 1993, 14-year-old Pang Xiuyu reached the highest point in her life. At the National Youth Calligraphy Competition, her essay stood out and received high praise.
Pang Xiuyu was also invited to the Great Hall of the People to receive the award and attend the grand award ceremony. Reporters and the media praised this genius girl, and Pang Xiuyu became a model for Xi in the mouths of parents for a while.
However, in the applause of the outside world, Pang's father is using his daughter's fame for personal gain. He went around to get connections to win speech opportunities and published a collection of Pang Xiuyu's articles to spread the brand effect.
This brought a huge burden to Pang Xiuyu, who was originally good at Xi, and her Xi performance also seriously declined.
In the cheers of the outside world, what few people know is that Pang Xiuyu's results have plummeted. Except for the composition subject, she barely passed the other subjects.
The high school entrance examination is imminent, and the principal comes forward to discuss with Pang's father, hoping that Pang Xiuyu can repeat the grade for a year in order to make up for his academic shortcomings. But at this critical moment, Pang Xiuyu's parental relationship broke down, and her mother chose to run away from home under her father's violence.
Fifteen-year-old Pang Xiuyu is in a dilemma. She didn't want to give up her studies, but seeing her mother on the streets filled her heart with compassion. Eventually, she chose to suspend school and leave home with her mother to earn a living.
When struggling to find a job outside, Pang Xiuyu found that she was basically uncompetitive. With no diploma and only 15 years old, the only job she could find was as a waitress in a restaurant.
The work is very hard, Pang Xiuyu is often unreasonable by guests, and she has to face the taste from colleagues. There is no bookish smell here, but a struggle of reality.
It was at this restaurant that Pang Xiuyu met a man with the pseudonym Liu Desheng. He seemed to admire Pang Xiuyu's talent and offered to sponsor her for her Xi and writing. Pang Xiuyu, who was lonely and unbearable, had an impulsive relationship with this man who was several years older than her, and later gave birth to his 1 boy and 2 girls.
It turned out that Liu Desheng was already married, and he just used Pang Xiuyu to meet his needs. 21-year-old Pang Xiuyu suddenly became a single mother, and she had to take on the responsibility of taking care of her three children alone.
After a tragic encounter, 21-year-old Pang Xiuyu suddenly became a single mother of three children. Liu Desheng abandoned her, cut off her source of livelihood, and she could only rely on her mother's meager pension to survive.
The 3 children are still young, and the milk is milking, and the baby powder money has become astronomical. The cost of electricity, water, and books at home has become a luxury. Creditors come to collect debts every day, children cry incessantly, and Pang Xiuyu and her sick mother are on the verge of collapse.
Finally, on a cold winter night in 2005, Pang Xiuyu couldn't bear it anymore, she chose to send a distress letter to the media and publicly ask for marriage. For her, there is no more urgent desire than a warm home and a man to rely on.
Even in the face of public opinion, she does not hesitate.
Soon, the Chongqing Morning News reporter came to the slum where Pang Xiuyu lived. Among the garbage heaps on the ground, a simple tin house stands out. Pushing the door in, the reporter saw a thin middle-aged woman lying on the bed gasping, while three emaciated children were squeezed into the other bed.
"They haven't had enough to eat in a long time, and we're at the end of our rope. Pang Xiuyu told reporters with red eyes. She said that she did not have any requirements for her future husband, and only hoped that the other party would accept her and her children and give them a warm home.
First of all, there is a problem with Pang's father's education method. He focused on nurturing his daughter's talents, but neglected the love that a father should give. Utilitarian education consumed Pang Xiuyu's childhood, and also blinded her eyes for judging right and wrong.
A child who has not been loved enough is more likely to lose his mind in the temptation of love.
Secondly, Pang Xiuyu's social role is distorted, and she has become the object of competition between her father and the media. The pursuit of fame and fortune has caused her academic Xi grades to decline, and she has also lost the environment for her normal growth.
When the heat subsides, Pang Xiuyu, whose self-esteem has been hit, is even more easily deceived.
Again, Liu Desheng used Pang Xiuyu to demand. She longs to be understood and loved, but she accidentally falls into an emotional scam. We must teach girls to be wary of flirtatious relationships and avoid being deceived.
In the end, the weight of reality also made Pang Xiuyu's idealism compromise. Livelihood issues forced her to openly ask for marriage, and public criticism also made it difficult to continue writing. But we should not despise those who are in distress, but give sympathy.
Pang Xiuyu's experience is full of pathos, but she should not be held responsible alone. As individuals and as societies, we all have lessons to learn from this.
After reading Pang Xiuyu's story, we can't help but reflect, as parents and members of society, what inspiration can we draw from it?
First of all, parents should give their children a healthy and reasonable education, and do not blindly pursue achievements. The shadow of childhood will accompany a lifetime, and the love of parents is the most needed nutrient for children's growth.
Second, we must protect girls and teach them to avoid emotional traps. Guide them to establish a sense of self-protection and stay away from tigers and wolves. A healthy and confident woman can have the ability to choose true love.
In addition, do not be carried away by fame and fortune, and insist on the purity of literary creation. Business will weaken the artistic charm of the work, and we should pursue truth, goodness and beauty, not monetary gain.
In addition, don't give up on your dreams in difficult situations and maintain the dignity of life.
Finally, we need to arouse the sympathy of society and give love and help to those who are in difficulty. The warmth of humanity can overcome the coldness of life, and each of us can be a light to others.
Let's draw wisdom from Pang Xiuyu's story and learn how Xi live the value of life.
After experiencing ups and downs, we sincerely hope that she can get out of the predicament of life as soon as possible and regain the hope of life.
Life is brutal, but it's also full of surprises. We call on all sectors of society to give Pang Xiuyu care and support, so that she can regain her self-confidence and give full play to her talents. Perhaps, she will write another touching bestseller in the future to continue to ignite and help more people.
We also hope that Pang Xiuyu can find someone who is sincere and good to her, and give her and her children a warm home. Life is still long, the road is still long, and she deserves a fresh start.
Let us give Pang Xiuyu sincere care in life within the scope of our ability, warm people's hearts with kindness, and light up the light of life. I believe that as long as there is hope, she and everyone in difficulty will regain a happy new life.