Gender should not be the criterion by which a person is judged to be worthy of love, and everyone should be treated with respect and equally. Here are some perspectives:
1. Betrayal and cheating: Whether it's a man or a woman, if they betray your trust or engage in cheating, it can ruin feelings and intimacy. In this case, it is reasonable to reconsider whether or not to continue to love.
2. Disrespect and violence: It is unacceptable if a person has shown no respect for you, including verbal or physical assault, or engaging in any form of violence. Protecting your own safety and health is a top priority.
3. Lack of communication and support: Building a stable and healthy relationship can be difficult if a person lacks effective communication skills and emotional support to meet your emotional needs. In some cases, it is necessary to re-evaluate whether the relationship contributes to your happiness and growth.
However, these situations do not apply to everyone, and everyone's situation and values are different. The most important thing is to find a relationship that respects, supports, and grows together, and makes decisions based on individual circumstances.