My name is Daniel Zhang, I am 32 years old, and I am an ordinary office worker. Growing up, I have always felt that our family is a harmonious family, but recently because of one thing, I began to think about a question: uncle is a relative, uncle is a family, so who is closer?
1. My family background
There are five of us in our family: my father, my mother, my sister and me. My dad was an engineer and my mom was a teacher. Ever since I was a child, I have felt that the atmosphere of our home is very harmonious. Mom always took care of us gently, and Dad was responsive. My uncle and uncle also often come to our house, and every time we get together, I feel very warm.
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Second, my uncle's concern
My uncle is my mother's younger brother and has taken special care of me since I was a child. When I was a child, whenever I was sick or in trouble, my uncle was always the first to come to my aid. I remember one time, I broke my leg because I was naughty, and my uncle accompanied me in the hospital every day, bringing me delicious food and telling me jokes to make me happy. At that time, I was really grateful to my uncle.
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3. Uncle's company
Uncle is my dad's younger brother. He is an architect and travels a lot. But every time he came back, he would bring me some special gifts, such as handicrafts, special snacks, etc. My uncle often played chess and games with me, which made me feel a different kind of family fun. My uncle also often told me some life truths, which benefited me a lot.
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Fourth, the inner struggle
Although both my uncle and uncle have been very nice to me, recently I have started to think about who is closer. By blood, my uncle is my immediate family, and my uncle is a collateral relative. And my uncle's care and concern since I was a child also made me feel very warm. But my uncle's company and teaching also made me deeply grateful and loved him.
When discussing this issue with friends, some people think that blood is thicker than water, so uncles are closer, and some people think that family affection is priceless, as long as the affection is deep, it is the dearest. I began to realize that there is no standard answer to this question, and everyone understands and feels differently about family relationships.
5. Cherish every family affection
Now, I don't struggle with the question of who is closer. Whether it is my uncle or uncle, they are all my relatives and have given me endless love and care. I should cherish this family affection, whether it is to my uncle or uncle, I must treat them with a grateful heart. Because for me, they are all an integral part of my life.
For those of you who are thinking about the same question, I would like to say: don't compare who is closer, because family affection is priceless. Cherish every loved one around you and feel the love and care they give you with your heart, which is the most valuable treasure.