In recent years, there has been a remarkable phenomenon in Chinese society - 100 million female singles. This huge number reveals a social problem that cannot be ignored. So, what is causing this phenomenon? Why do so many women choose to be single? Let's go into the inner world of older leftover women and explore the truth behind it.
[1. Personal Profile]
My name is Lin Xiaoxiao, I am 32 years old, and I was born in a small city in Northeast China. The family background is ordinary, and both parents are workers. After graduating from university, I stayed in Beijing and worked in the IT industry.
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[2. Reasons for being single]
1. High work pressure: In the IT industry, the work intensity is high and overtime is frequent. There is no time and energy to meet new people.
2. Limited social circle: Most of them are male colleagues, and there is a lack of opportunities to expand their social circle.
3. Expecting too much from love: Having been hurt, having doubts about love, and expecting to meet someone who really understands you.
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[3. Inner struggle]
In fact, not all single days are pretty. Whenever I see a friend posting a happy photo, I feel a little lonely in my heart. Especially during the New Year's holidays, in the face of the family's urging to marry, the pressure is particularly great. But I still firmly believe that true love needs to wait, and I will try to make myself better and meet the right person.
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[4. Self-redemption]
In order to get rid of loneliness and anxiety, I began to try various ways to enrich myself. Sign up for interest classes, join volunteer organizations, and try new sports...... Gradually, I discovered that there are many beautiful things in life waiting for me to explore.
[5. Prospects for the future]
Although I am still single, I believe that the future will be better. I hope to be able to meet a like-minded person and walk through every stage of life together. At the same time, I will not give up on self-growth and strive to achieve my career dreams.
The phenomenon of 100 million female singles in China is a complex social problem, and behind it lies the bitterness and expectations of many older leftover women. As individuals, we should face reality positively and strive for happiness. At the same time, all sectors of society should also pay more attention and support to work together to solve this problem. Only in this way can we usher in a more harmonious and beautiful future.