Friendship is important, but not all friendships are genuine and friendly. Sometimes, children may encounter extreme or even hurtful friendships. In this case, parents need to intervene in time to help their children distinguish between right and wrong and avoid harm. Three suggestions, I hope all parents can pay attention, and you can also transfer them to your children to see.
First, judge the "poisonous friendship" in a timely manner
Once you find that your child is unhappy in a certain friendship, crying or doing something you don't want to do because of pleasing the other party, or even being ridiculed, belittled, belittled, often depressed, sad, disgusted with your own thoughts, and will be asked to do bad things to show the so-called "loyalty", if these problems occur, it is very likely that the child has been hurt in this friendship, parents should pay more attention to observe, although we can not replace the child socially, but we must teach the child to distinguish between real and false friends.
Second, don't put labels
When a child encounters a bad friend, parents should not interfere too much, but state the facts so that the child can learn to judge independently. By communicating with the child, let him pay attention to his own feelings, do not force the child to break up the relationship, but explain the stakes to the child, let the child feel for himself, so as to cultivate his ability to think independently and distinguish the truth of friendship.
Third, pay attention to the real needs of the child's heart
Behind the "toxic friendship" is often the neglected needs of the child. Parents should care about their children's inner feelings and solve the problems they may have. Think about whether we are too strict, whether the time to accompany the child is too little, or our words and deeds, or the surrounding environment, have made a bad example for the child, only by solving the child's innermost problems, he will be more confident, more independent, and more principled when interacting with friends.
All in all, parents should pay attention to their children's emotional experiences when guiding their children to cultivate friendships, and help them learn to distinguish the authenticity of friendships. Teaching children to choose friends wisely is an important part of cultivating their independent personality.
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