In 2002, a youth idol drama called "Eighteen-Year-Old Sky" became a smash hit, and Jin Sha, who played the gentle and intellectual school flower in the play, became famous in one fell swoop and stood out as a popular star.
Because she is the heroine, she has had touching rivalry scenes with many male actors in the play. One of the most talked about by the audience is the young and sweet campus romance between her and Li Zhinan.
Li Zhinan has had many beautiful collaborations with Jin Sha in the play, coupled with the other party's outstanding appearance and talent, he can't help but fall in love with her. So on many public occasions, Li Zhinan did not hesitate to express his love and liking for Jinsha.
However, what he never expected was that not long after he publicly confessed, Jin Sha actually issued a public rejection of him on his social media platform.
Her wording was very direct and indifferent, and she didn't save any face for Li Zhinan. "Even if there are only two of us left in this world, I will never choose you."
As soon as this sentence came out, it immediately caused a huge controversy on the Internet, and most people criticized Jinsha for not knowing how to be considerate of other people's feelings and not taking care of other people's face.
One was when she was becoming famous, Jin Sha slapped Li Zhinan, who had a crush on her, in the face like this, completely ignoring the latter's mood. This incident can be said to be the first rift in her personality, and it also indicates that some of her next words and actions may be incomprehensible.
At the beginning of Jinsha's popularity, she was still stained with Lin Junjie's light, and was called his little sister by the outside world. The two often work together in various events and performances, and the relationship seems to be good.
But during this time, some netizens suddenly discovered that Jin Sha would pretend to be a fan of Lin Junjie in his personal blog, and vigorously touted the scandal between the two.
She first posted a star-chasing text about Lin Junjie in the comment area, and then cheered their CP combination as a fan, which was completely a self-directed and self-acted drama.
Subsequently, due to the system upgrade of the blogging platform, all the previously anonymous users were exposed. It turned out that the author of this series of blog posts was actually Jinsha himself.
At this time, her fraud was completely exposed, and immediately attracted the condemnation of Lin Junjie's fans. Everyone demanded that she apologize publicly and stop this unethical hype.
Under the pressure of public opinion, Jin Sha had to issue a statement to apologize, but her relationship with Lin Junjie also existed in name only, and it was no longer possible. This is the famous "bloggate" incident, and it has also become one of the turning points of the collapse of her personality.
In 2008, Jinsha's image fell to the bottom in the entertainment industry. This year, she was revealed to have an improper relationship with two married men. The first is Yan Po, the husband of her and her friend Mei Ting, and the intimate video of the two was exposed on the Internet.
In the video, they warm up in their hotel room like a couple and behave intimately. As soon as the news came out, Mei Ting quickly announced her divorce from Yan Po. Jin Sha was once again criticized by netizens as a junior, destroying other people's families.
What's more serious is that in the same year, the kissing video of Jin Sha and married writer Han Han also went viral. In the video, the two kissed on the street, as if no one was around. This is undoubtedly a destruction of Han Han's marriage.
Although Jinsha explained that she was just an ordinary friend, the public's evaluation of her has fallen to a freezing point. Her reputation was hit to rock bottom, and any justification was useless.
This year can be described as the lowest point in her life and career. After a few years of downturn, Jinsha finally regained popularity in a popular women's stage variety show and regained her prestige. She showed her generous and independent side in the show and gained a lot of new fans.
Just when her popularity was rising again, she suddenly disclosed a new relationship on social media, and the object was a post-00s boy who was 19 years younger than her.
This tumultuous relationship once again sparked heated discussions among netizens. In order to prove the relationship between the two to the public, Jin Sha also took her boyfriend to star in an emotional variety show, showing her affection in front of the camera. But the interaction between the two in the show is like a mother and son, and Jinsha often needs to guide each other.
This attracted a lot of negative feedback from the audience, and they began to question the authenticity of this little boyfriend. Sure enough, netizens later found out that the boyfriend told a lot of lies on the show to brag about himself, and he was also picked up for the inconsistencies of his own design.
Although Jinsha claims to believe in her boyfriend, it seems that she is still in a vague and confused relationship.
As a public figure, Jin Sha's emotional journey and private life will inevitably attract attention and discussion from the outside world, which is inevitable to a certain extent. However, it is ultimately inappropriate to speculate and judge the private lives of others.
We should not point fingers at Jinsha's new relationship, nor should we criticize her choices. The public has the right to express their opinions, but they should do so in a rational and gentle manner, and should not trample on the autonomy of others. We can discredit some of Jinsha's style, but we should not deny her right to pursue happiness.
Her emotional life is her privacy, and we can take it with a grain of salt, but we can't be overjudged. We may not be able to fully understand Jinsha's choice, but we should respect different lifestyles with a broad mind.
Although Jinsha has stepped on a lot of minefields on the emotional road, she still has a chance to start again. She should face up to the fact that she has hurt others because of some of her words and deeds over the years, and reflect deeply.
For example, when openly rejecting suitors who had a crush on her, she could have used more gentle wording; Another example is that she should not create an affair with a married man and damage other people's families.
Jinsha needs to realize that some of her past practices have invisibly harmed her own interests and those of others. She is still young and fully capable of re-examining her way of doing things and facing life and relationships with a more mature and stable attitude.
We expect her to learn from the past, truly turn her ways, and reshape her public image with positive values and actions. She also had time to become a better person and regain public understanding and recognition.