On the last day of 2023, what are you doing at the moment, and what are you thinking?
Time, like a thief, unknowingly steals another year from us.
For me, the past year has only two words: regret.
It's a pity that too many goals have not been completed, that too many things have not been done, and that too many people have not seen them.
What about you? What have you been in the past 2023:
Is there success, reunion, joy, and harvest?
Or are there failures, separations, losses, and regrets?
All the past is prologue.
There is only a single ticket in life, and there is no turning back, and the past days are painful or happy, and we can only accept the gift of life.
On the last day of 2023, may you let go of everything and no longer be locked by the old time.
On the first day of 2024, I hope you will start anew and start a new journey in life.
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Respect for the past
All the past is prologue.
What kind of people are the happiest?
He is a person who never dwells on the past and never consumes himself.
I know that in the past year, you may have been crushed by life just like me:
Elderly parents always have to go in and out of the hospital several times a year, not a major illness, but a minor illness is just as tormenting.
During those few days in the hospital, you may be physically and mentally separated.
At work, the long-winded scolding of the leader, the exclusion of colleagues, and the evasion of subordinates make you suffocate and want to escape.
There are also the hardships of raising children, getting along with lovers, and socializing with friends.
There are goals that have not been achieved, wishes that have not been fulfilled, people who have not been seen.
……
There are so many little things in life that you suddenly have a breakdown at one moment, and you even want to give up on yourself for a moment.
"People who haven't cried in the middle of the night are not enough to talk about life. ”
But those who are sad, sad, crying, failing, falling out of love, breaking up...... It's just a little thing in life, just a silhouette of life.
Most of the time our lives are happy.
When you work hard and then get a salary increase and get promoted;
the moment when I squeezed the high-speed train and traveled thousands of miles to finally reunite with my parents;
quarrel and reconcile, play with your lover and check in the moment;
……
The small happiness in life is enough to heal our sorrows.
Good things and bad things will eventually become a thing of the past.
No matter what you've been through in the past 2023.
On the last day of 2023, I hope you can empty yourself: don't let the past become a shadow of the future.
Try to let go, those who don't belong to you, no longer clinging to what you have;
Try to relax, no longer have internal friction, no longer entangled, go to see the bigger world, and stop being trapped in a small world.
One day begins this year, and a year ago is empty.
May you empty yourself on the last day of 2023 and welcome the new year with a new self.
02
Love the moment
Cherish the moment and live the moment.
In the past 2023, life may not be very satisfactory.
Maybe you work hard and work overtime, but you still haven't been promoted and raised;
Maybe you really pay for a relationship, but you are disappointed;
Maybe you tried your best to take the public test, or failed to go ashore;
Maybe you are desperately trying to live every day and night, but life doesn't give you too many smiles.
We may do our best, but the result is never satisfactory.
But don't complain, don't blame yourself, don't have internal friction, the more you dwell on the past, the more painful it will be.
If you keep dwelling on the past, life will get worse and worse.
Recognize life and accept it.
Learn to accept everything in the past, which is your experience, and don't reject or blame yourself for the past, which is also your life experience.
The most precious thing in life is never "not obtained" and "lost", but what we have in the present moment.
The past is irretrievable, don't be sad about the loss, and don't be anxious about how to live the days ahead.
What you can do is grasp the present and live the present.
Be grateful for what you have, let go of past regrets and future worries, and live wholeheartedly in the present.
03
to the future
Life is clear, and everything can be expected.
Why do we look forward to the New Year?
Because there is always new hope and new possibilities in the New Year, the future is always bright and happy.
As long as we work hard to live seriously in the future, the beauty you expect will eventually come true.
No matter how bad the past was or how difficult the situation is now, as long as you think of the beginning of the new year, you will see hope and see the future.
The new year is what we use to restart our lives.
If you only read half of the book in the past 2023, read the whole book in 2024.
If you lost love in the past 2023, then continue to look for it in 2024, and you will always meet love around the corner.
If in the past 2023, your plan was only one-third complete, then complete the remaining half in 2024.
If your job was a mess and your career was a mess in the past 2023, start your business again in 2024 and climb the peak of your career again.
If you are not to blame for the past, the future will be promising.
I have seen such a sentence: The best state of life is that time moves forward all the way, and everything can be expected.
Don't waste your time, don't let the new year have more regrets.
In 2024, work hard for your dreams and put your precious time and energy into making yourself happy.
In the new year, don't be perfunctory, don't lie flat and rotten, and don't wait until 2025 to regret that the past year was wasted.
In the new year, we must always fight for life again and leave no regrets.
Before going to bed, everything is turned over, and when you wake up, you will be a new life.
On the last day of 2023, I hope you will let go of the past and accept yourself
On the first day of 2024, I hope you will take it in stride and live a better life.
On the last day of 2023, I hope you: respect the past, love the present, and look to the future.
I hope that in 2024, you will renew yourself, restart your life, I hope you can live the life you want, and I hope you can live your own life.
This is more important than everything.
In the new year, everything is expected, and we all have a bright future.
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