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My name is Li Xiaoxia, an ordinary Chinese woman. My story begins with my married life with my husband Zhang Qiang. We have been married for five years and have three children, but unfortunately, they all have cerebral palsy.
"Xiaoxia, look at what child you gave me!" Zhang Qiang's voice was always full of anger and dissatisfaction. Our home has always been shrouded in his angry scolding and the cries of the children.
"It's not my fault, Zhang Qiang, the children are also pitiful. I replied softly as I stroked the child's head. But he never listened to my explanations, just continued to blame me, even calling me a "broom star".
My mother-in-law, a traditional Chinese woman, was always on her son's side. "Xiaoxia, you have to understand Zhang Qiang. It is normal for a man with three sick children in the family to be stressed. "My mother-in-law persuaded me while doing housework.
But I knew I couldn't stand this life for long. I needed to change, not only for myself, but also for my children.
My neighbor, Aunt Wang, was the only person I confided in. "Xiaoxia, you can't just live your whole life, you have to think about yourself. "Aunt Wang always persuades me like this.
Finally, after a heated argument, I left Zhang Qiang with my child. Although the children are not in good health, I want to give them a better living environment. I started a new life and a new love.
I met Li Ming, a gentle and considerate man. He accepted not only me, but also my children. We got married soon and I got pregnant again.
"Xiaoxia, this time I will definitely give birth to a healthy baby. "Li Ming encourages me like this every day. But I was always nervous, fearing that history would repeat itself.
Until the baby was born and the doctor told us that it was a healthy baby. Li Ming and I both shed tears of gratitude. But it was at this time that we discovered an astonishing truth.
The doctor looked at the report and frowned, "Xiaoxia, Li Ming, there is something I must tell you. Your child is completely healthy, but, judging from the genetic test, Li Ming is not the biological father of the child. ”
We looked at each other, shocked and puzzled. "How is this possible?" Li Ming clasped my hand, his eyes full of confusion and worry.
"I suggest you do a comprehensive genetic test and maybe find the cause. The doctor's voice was calm, but it sent waves through our hearts.
On the way home, we were silent. It wasn't until the evening that Li Ming spoke, "Xiaoxia, no matter what, I will support you, and we will face it together." ”
The results are incredible. I carry a rare genetic mutation that directly led to the illness of my first three children. And Li Ming, fortunately, does not have this gene, so our children will be healthy.
I felt an indescribable sense of guilt and self-blame. "It's me, it's ......all me," I sobbed in my bedroom. Li Ming hugged me tightly, "Xiaoxia, it's not your fault. Now that we know why, we can take better care of the children. ”
In the following days, we took the child to various treatments and rehabilitation. My ex-husband Zhang Qiang also heard the news, and he suddenly appeared at our doorstep.
"Xiaoxia, I'...... I blame you. Zhang Qiang looked at the ground and said in a low voice. I looked at him with mixed feelings.
"Zhang Qiang, let it pass. The children need to be taken care of together. "I try to stay calm.
Zhang Qiang nodded, but I could see the guilt and helplessness in his eyes. From that day on, he began to visit the children frequently, although there was still a gap between us.
One day, while I was walking in the park, I bumped into my college classmate Xiaoling. "Xiaoxia, it's not easy to hear about your experience. Xiao Ling said with concern.
I smiled, "yes, but now everything is fine." ”
Xiaoling suddenly said, "Xiaoxia, what you have experienced is really touching. Have you ever thought about writing it down? I know editors from several publishing houses, and it's definitely an inspirational story. ”
I was stunned for a moment, then smiled, "I'm writing a book, I haven't thought about this yet." ”
But Xiaoling's words were like a seed, quietly taking root in my heart. That night, I lay in bed, thinking back on the past few years, and an urge surged in my heart to write about it all.
So, I started writing. I recorded my encounter with Zhang Qiang, the birth of our children, our quarrels, my new life with Li Ming, and the emotions after discovering the truth. Writing became a way for me to express myself and heal myself.
A few months later, my manuscript was completed. Xiaoling helped me contact the publisher and they were very interested in my story.
On the day the book was published, I held my work in my hand and my heart was full
Full of indescribable excitement and pride. I never imagined that my ordinary life could be turned into words and touch the hearts of others.
At the book launch, I told my story publicly for the first time. I was a little nervous in front of the audience, but when I started talking, everything became natural. I recounted my hardships, challenges, and how I was able to regain my life with the help of Li Ming. I saw some in the audience wiping away tears and others applauding in support.
At this moment, Zhang Qiang and the children also came to the scene. I stopped talking and looked at them, and a wave of mixed emotions welled up in my heart. Zhang Qiang walked onto the stage with the children, his eyes full of apology.
"Xiaoxia, I'm sorry, I've ...... misunderstanding and hurt you all these years" Zhang Qiang's voice trembled a little. I interrupted him, "Zhang Qiang, we are all at fault, the important thing is that we are all working hard for the children." ”
At that moment, I realized that while our marriage was over, our responsibilities as parents would never end.
The success of the book was beyond my expectations. Many readers write to me to share their feelings and their own stories. I started attending lectures and autograph sessions and became an inspirational voice.
In this process, Li Ming has always been my strong backing. He managed the family, took care of the children, and supported me in every decision. Our family, while not perfect, is full of love and understanding.
I also started a foundation to help families like me, especially those with special needs. I donate a portion of the proceeds from the book to the foundation in the hope of bringing hope to more families.
One day, I received a special letter. It was written by a young mother who saw hope in my book. Her children also have special needs, and she wrote in the letter: "Xiaoxia, your story gives me strength and lets me know that there is still hope in the midst of despair. You are not only my role model, but also the hope of my children. ”
Reading this letter, my eyes filled with tears. I realized that my story could give hope to others, and that was my greatest achievement.
Time passed like water, and my book gradually became a bestseller. And I have grown from an ordinary woman who has suffered a lot to a person who can help others and transmit positive energy.
One fine afternoon, I took the kids to the park. Watching them frolic in the grass filled my heart with gratitude. Although life has given me many hardships and challenges, it has also given me infinite love and hope.
It was on a park bench that I started to conceive of my next book. This time, I would like to write about hope and how to find meaning in life in the midst of difficulties.
My phone rang, and it was a message from Li Ming: "Xiaoxia, you are really the best, the children and I are proud of you." ”
I looked up
Looking at the blue sky, my heart is full of warmth. I replied to Li Ming: "I can get to where I am today because of the support of you and my children. ”
I started to get involved in more public welfare activities, using my experience to encourage people who are struggling in difficult situations. I've found it powerful to share my story with others and to listen to them share their stories.
Once, I was invited to a school to share my story with the children. After the speech, a little girl walked up to me with her eyes sparkling. "Aunt Xiaoxia, I also want to be as strong as you. Her words warmed my heart, and I gently hugged her, "You can do it, little friend." ”
My life gradually calmed down. In addition to writing and participating in activities, the greatest joy of every day is spending time with your family. Li Ming and I will take the children on outings together and enjoy the warmth of family.
I'm also starting to write my second book, this time on how to find yourself in the face of adversity, how to let pain be a source of strength. Writing is not only my passion, but also my way of communicating with the world.
While I was busy with writing and public welfare activities, Zhang Qiang slowly changed. He began to be actively involved in his children's lives, learning how Xi could be a better father. Even though our relationship has ended, I feel relieved to see the change he has made for the sake of the children.
When my book was released, the response was overwhelming. I've received letters from readers across the country sharing their stories and the impact my book has had on them. I feel that my experiences and efforts can inspire others, which is more precious than any honor.
I also started a support center with Li Ming to provide help and guidance to families like us. We organise a variety of activities such as parent-child activities, psychological counselling and rehabilitation to help children with special needs and their families.
One evening, I sat at my desk and looked back at the past. I remembered the first time I met Zhang Qiang, the longing and happiness at that time, the laughter and tears when the children were born, the encounter with Li Ming, and our common efforts and growth.
I deeply feel that although life is full of uncertainties and challenges, as long as there is love and hope, there are infinite possibilities. I hope to convey this feeling to every reader through my writing.
In the process of writing the second book, I realized more deeply that everyone's life is unique, and everyone's story deserves to be heard. I hope that through my words, more people can bravely face the difficulties of life and find their own light.
Writing has given me healing and the opportunity to heal others. I hope to be able to continue like this, with mine
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