(Disclaimer: This article is purely a fictional story, not my own experience, if there is any similarity, it is purely a coincidence)
In the eyes of the older generation, they have a special obsession with feudal superstition, and always feel that as long as there is something unpleasant in the family, they will blame others, and even think that a certain person is specially to restrain her.
However, I never thought that such a thing would happen to me, at that time, by chance, I met my North Korean wife, after marrying home, all kinds of bad things made my mother can't help but wonder if it was her daughter-in-law who rejected her, until that day there was an accident at home, my mother directly shut her daughter-in-law out of the door, and roared: "You are a broom star, don't enter my house from now on, I feel like going back to your country!"
01
I was born in a small village in Henan, and the conditions of my family are average, my father's thinking is still quite avant-garde, but my mother's thinking is always a little feudal.
For as long as I can remember, there was always a smell of burning incense in our big house, and I would ask my father from time to time, "Why does my mother burn incense every day, the house smells bad and dies."
The father said earnestly: "You are still young, you don't understand this, your mother burns incense every day to pray for the safety and health of the family forever."
I didn't continue to refute this, after all, as the saying goes, "If you believe it, you don't believe it."
When I was in elementary school, because I didn't have a TV at home, I would often go to other people's homes to watch TV under the pretext of doing homework, and I also had a "selfishness" that I didn't want to smell the fragrance of my home.
It is precisely for this reason that the friends in the village rarely come to my house to play, and every time I invite them, it is always the same saying: "The smell of your house is so bad, we smell dizzy." ”
For this reason, I also said goodbye to my mother, I didn't want her to continue to burn incense at home, and no friends wanted to come to the house to play, but my mother treated it as if it was a deaf ear, and didn't care about my thoughts at all.
Since I was a child, I haven't said anything, anyway, my mother is also for the good of the family.
As the only child in the family, the burden will be picked up by me sooner or later, and for an ordinary family like ours, only learning is the easiest way out.
Time is like an arrow, time flies, I was admitted to a foreign undergraduate college by virtue of my extraordinary performance in the college entrance examination, and my mother's words seem to be burned by her high incense for me.
When I was in college, in order to reduce the pressure from my parents, I would go to the school cafeteria from time to time to work and study, so as to earn my living expenses.
After graduating from university, I followed the assignment of the school to the northeast, far away from my hometown, and it was really cold, and I had never felt such a temperature in my life.
Outstanding work ability and academic qualifications, in less than two years, he sat in the position of team leader.
However, what surprised me very much was that before the team leader sat in the position for a month, an intern came, and the personnel in the company were familiar with me at that time, so he asked: "A particularly beautiful beauty came today, I see that the resume is still from North Korea, do you want to assign it to you?"
At this time, my heart was ready to move, isn't this "pie falling from the sky, don't be in vain, I have seen enough men every day".
The day after I agreed, this North Korean girl came to report to me: "Hello, team leader, my name is Yeonjin, please take care of me in the future."
Although I just smiled at the face, but my heart was already happy, and then began to explain her work, in my opinion, her work ability is quite strong, Chinese is also very good, it seems that she intends to learn.
Since then, our relationship has gradually become more and more familiar, and anyone who doesn't understand anything at work will come to me to ask me, but my attitude towards her is also seen by everyone in the group.
From time to time, he would coax: "Team leader, you didn't tell us so carefully, it's a bit different."
As soon as Yanzhen heard this, her face turned red instantly, and she felt a little embarrassed, so I said next to me: "How long have you all been working, an intern is still a girl, so you can't talk about it in detail."
Colleagues laughed next to them.
The gradual improvement in my relationship with Yeonjin was that day when I was working overtime at the company, when I finished my work a little late, and just as I was about to leave, I found out that Yeonjin was also working overtime.
I asked, "It's raining so hard outside, why didn't you go back earlier, and you're still working overtime here."
Yeonjin replied, "It's not that I haven't finished my work yet, I want to finish it before leaving, and besides, I haven't brought an umbrella yet."
Hearing this, for those leaders, they all feel that this is a good and conscientious employee, but I don't have such a big "official authority", only pay attention to the living conditions of the team members, I directly said: "Hurry up and get off work, I bring an umbrella, it just so happens that I am not far from the company, I will send you."
Yeon-jin was a little embarrassed, but under my extreme invitation, she agreed, and when she came downstairs to the company, I heard Yeon-jin's stomach rumbling there, and if I asked, Yeon-jin would definitely be embarrassed to eat, so I said, "I'm a little hungry, or let's go eat something, are you working overtime and not eating."
Naturally, these words were sent to Yeonjin's lips, and she responded: "Indeed, then let's go eat casually."
After eating, I began to ask Yeon-jin where her house lived, and as I walked and walked, I suddenly wondered if this was not the direction of my house, but I didn't continue to ask.
02
When I delivered it to the gate of the community, I asked curiously, "Yeonzhen, does your family live here?"
Yeonjin hurriedly nodded yes, she couldn't help but be a little happy, she didn't expect us to be a community!
I told Yeon-jin, "What a coincidence, I'm also from this community, but I didn't expect that in the past two months, we didn't know about it, it's ridiculous."
Yeonjin was very surprised and said, "It's really fake, is it so coincidental?"
Since then, the two of us have commuted to work together almost every day, eating and other things together, and from time to time I will teach her some hometown dialect, and after a long time, the relationship has gradually warmed up.
However, the company has a clear rule that employees are not allowed to fall in love with each other, but when the feelings come, they can't care about those express regulations of 3721.
After falling in love in private, almost a year later, Yeon-jin suddenly told me that she was about to be repatriated to China, because the rule could not exceed 3 years, unless there was a marriage contract.
I also thought about this matter carefully, and discussed it with my family, my father didn't care much about her identity, and my mother was okay, not that I didn't agree, so the next thing is to see what Yeonjin thinks in her family.
Then I and Yeon-jin found a chance to go to his home, the first time we met, the number of gifts must be in place, we can't lose the face of our country, I took more than a dozen big gifts and small gifts, Yeon-jin's parents were stunned when they saw it, they didn't expect me to be so generous.
The first impression is good, everything is easy to say, after three rounds of drinking, Yanzhen's father is not very good at drinking, and after drinking almost, he discussed marriage, I just mentioned it, and my father-in-law said: "Xiao Zheng, I am very optimistic about you, I agree with Yanzhen to marry you, but you must not let Yanzhen receive any grievances, after all, she is also raised by us since childhood."
After seeing that my father-in-law agreed, my mother-in-law stopped the two of us from continuing to drink, and after a while, we drank too much, and after playing there for a few days, I took Yanzhen back to discuss marriage.
At that time, it was discussed that after getting married, I would return to my hometown to develop and get a small shop of my own, anyway, I have saved a lot of money in my hands in the past few years.
After getting married, the business of our small shop is also very good, but just when life was just beginning to get on the right track, my grandfather died of a sudden cerebral hemorrhage.
But in my mother's eyes, it seemed a little abnormal, she felt that since I got married and married Yeonjin, the people in the family were always sick, either this person had a fever or a cold.
Since my grandfather died, my mother began to have no good face for Yeonjin, she just can't tolerate a grain of sand in her eyes, and when Yeonjin does something wrong, she will magnify things, and I have said my mother many times during this period.
It's not easy for Yeonjin to marry from afar, she knows me as a person, if she doesn't treat her well, she will be-for-tat everywhere, which makes her parents know what to think.
Yeonjin is also good-tempered, and she always feels that her mother-in-law says that she should be, after all, she should be quarreled with if she does something wrong, but that one thing makes me very angry.
Yeon-jin was pregnant at the time, but my father wanted to buy some delicious food for his daughter-in-law, but because he ran a red light, he was overturned by a car, and when we arrived at the hospital, we saw my mother staring at Yeon-jin with a black face.
Maybe in her opinion, if my father didn't buy Yeonjin something delicious, this wouldn't have happened.
After a few days in the hospital, I thought that I could let my mother and Yeonjin go home and rest and take care of my father in the hospital, but I didn't expect that my mother's actions would make me very angry.
Because it was a bit hot, my father wanted to change into a thinner dress, so I went home to get his clothes, and before I could get to the door, I saw a lot of neighbors around my house, and I hurried to check on it, afraid that something would happen.
03
I saw Yeonjin crying and sitting on the ground and banging on the door, saying in her mouth: "Mom, open the door for me, I'm not a broom star, let me enter the house."
Then there was a voice: "You are a broom star, if it weren't for you, would so many things happen in our family, hurry up and go back to your country, don't be bad people here"!
When I heard such words, an instant surge of anger surged into my heart, first I helped the pregnant Yeonjin up, and scolded angrily: "Mom, you have gone too far, it was originally my father's problem of running a red light, what does it have to do with Yeonjin, aren't you doing this to make the neighbors laugh?"
My mother opened the door at this time and responded to me: "It's definitely her problem, our family used to be safe, why did she come like this?"
Hearing this, I didn't pay attention to my mother anymore, just comforted Yeonjin on the side, and went back to the house to pack up my father's thin clothes, turned around and took Yeonjin away, and when I left, I was very disappointed and said to my mother: "I will not let Yeonjin enter this house again half a step in the future"!
Later, I also heard from my neighbors that during the days when I was not at home, my mother kept Yeonjin out of the house and did not allow her to enter the house!
Since then, I have used the money I have saved in recent years to buy a house in the city, and I will go back to see my father myself when I have time, and I will not let Yeonjin have anything to do with my mother again.
Do you think I'm doing the right thing? The girl who married far away is not familiar with her life, and you don't care about her, how can you explain it to your father-in-law and mother-in-law?
(Disclaimer: This article is purely a fictional story, not my own experience, if there is any similarity, it is purely a coincidence)