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Editor-in-charge|Xiang Wanwan
In 2006, 30-year-old Shen Aojun found Nie Yuan and took out a bank card from his bag: This is the 2 million I saved, you can use it to prepare for our wedding!
Nie Yuan was stunned for a moment, and did not say anything directly, but turned to look out the window.
After thinking for a long time, he turned around and said, "I'm sorry, I can't marry you, I like the little junior sister." ”
In an instant, Shen Aojun only felt that the blood was surging all over his body, his body stumbled a few times, and he almost fell. She looked at Nie Yuan with tears in her eyes, but she saw a hint of relief in his eyes.
The 8-year relationship went down the drain, and Shen Aojun, who originally wanted to end the long-distance love run, finally lost the person who accompanied him.
Such a blow was devastating for Shen Aojun.
Despite the pain in his heart, Shen Aojun did not deliberately keep it, but chose to let go of this unforgettable relationship.
For Nie Yuan, she finally understood that it was not that he didn't want to get married, but that he didn't want to marry her.
01 became famous for filming advertisements and entered the showbiz
When it comes to Shen Aojun's name, many young people will be very unfamiliar, but for the post-80s audience, it is very familiar.
She is the Sai Xi Shi who looks forward to the brilliance in "Divine Doctor Xilaile", and she is also the graceful and noble Princess Gaoyang in "The Love History of the Tang Dynasty";
is also Sun Honglei's first girlfriend Zuo Lan in "Latent......
She portrays every character she creates with her heart, and she also deeply portrays her acting skills into the hearts of the audience.
Because of her outstanding performance in costume dramas, the audience even gave her a title - "Goddess of Costume Beauty".
Many people are attracted by the gentleness and dignity of the southern girl on Shen Aojun. In fact, Shen Aojun is an authentic northerner.
Her hometown is in Harbin, Heilongjiang, and she is the eldest of four girls in the family.
The reason why Shen Aojun embarked on the road of acting was precisely because of the influence of his eldest sister.
At that time, the eldest sister was admitted to the Shanghai Theater Academy with her strength, and after graduation, she stayed in the school to teach and became a university teacher. And the third sister is also particularly interested in acting, and in one fell swoop, she was admitted to the drama and became a student of the eldest sister.
The two sisters in the family went to the play, which made Shen Aojun also moved. Although her parents gave her pertinent advice and didn't want her to take this path again, the stubborn Shen Aojun still insisted on her own ideas.
In 1995, Shen Aojun was admitted to the Shanghai Theater Academy, majoring in TV editing.
In the 3 years of college life, Shen Aojun has never relaxed herself, she seized the time to learn Xi professional knowledge, and did not think about other things.
The hard work she put in during this period has also allowed her to grow rapidly.
After graduation, Shen Aojun was assigned to the Shanghai TV Xiaoyingxing Art Troupe with excellent results, engaged in behind-the-scenes work, and because of his strong professional ability, he was able to work with ease.
Shen Aojun originally thought that this stable and decent job would accompany her for the rest of her life. Unexpectedly, an advertisement changed her fate.
It turned out that Pepsi, which was endorsed by Aaron Kwok, was filming a promotional advertisement in Shanghai, and it also needed to find an actress to work with. The advertiser inadvertently saw Shen Aojun and felt that her temperament was very in line with the requirements.
In this way, 21-year-old Shen Aojun was lucky to be selected.
Although Shen Aojun graduated from Shangju, he has never filmed an advertisement.
Before the start of filming, she stood in front of the camera as if walking on thin ice and trembling, but when the shooting began, she seemed to find her feeling in an instant, and completed the shooting task naturally and generously, winning the unanimous recognition of advertisers.
Even Shen Aojun himself didn't expect that the response to the advertisement was very good after it was broadcast.
This advertisement has given Shen Aojun a certain reputation in the industry, and many directors have thrown olive branches, hoping to cooperate with her in filming.
In the face of the influx of invitations, Shen Aojun made a decision, that is: quit his job and go to the entertainment industry.
Shen Aojun, who has not undergone professional training, has created many roles with his extraordinary acting talent, and has gradually gained a firm foothold in the talent-rich entertainment industry.
From teenager to adulthood, when many young people are drifting with the flow, Shen Aojun has always known what he wants.
It is this sobriety that allows her to make the right choice before various forks in the road in her life.
02 The 8-year relationship with her boyfriend has finally become a thing of the past
Shen Aojun is really well-known to the public for the TV series "Love History of the Tang Dynasty" starring her.
In the play, Shen Aojun vividly interprets the beauty and nobility and pathos of Princess Gaoyang. In the indecent love with the debate monk, Princess Gaoyang broke through the shackles, pursued true love, and performed a heart-wrenching Tang tragedy.
The emotions in the play are lingering and compassionate, and Shen Aojun in real life, like Princess Gaoyang, is trapped in the emotional abyss with Nie Yuan and cannot extricate himself.
It turned out that it was the young actor Nie Yuan who played the debate monk in the TV series "Love History of the Tang Dynasty".
Nie Yuan's young and handsome image not only left a deep impression on the audience, but also made the leading actor Shen Aojun secretly feel affection for him.
The filming of "Love History of the Tang Dynasty" lasted several months, and Shen Aojun and Nie Yuan also got along day and night, gradually sparking a spark of love.
Soon, the two established a love relationship, and the talented and beautiful two have also become a good story in the entertainment industry.
The time of love is always good, and the two people who fall in love are like glue and show their affection generously. Even if they are separated from each other, as long as they have leisure time, they will exchange phone calls to ask for warmth, which makes the friends around them envious.
Even though couples in the entertainment industry have become the norm to separate and merge, the relationship between the two people is as solid as a rock.
For Shen Aojun, Nie Yuan was more like the light that illuminated her life.
For the man she loves, she is like a treasure, and she puts all her thoughts on Nie Yuan.
Perhaps it was sweet love that brought good luck to Shen Aojun. Since he became famous as Princess Gaoyang, Shen Aojun has been making appointments.
But even so, Shen Aojun would rush back in a hurry after completing the shooting task, just to make dinner for Nie Yuan.
However, compared with Shen Aojun's career, Nie Yuan's acting career is not smooth.
He kept running to the crew to find a role, but he never succeeded, which made Nie Yuan, who has always been machismo, very uncomfortable.
As his girlfriend, Shen Aojun has always been by Nie Yuan's side. not only takes care of Nie Yuan's life in every detail, but also often comforts him to improve his acting skills and wait for opportunities.
Seeing that the gap between the two is getting wider and wider, it gradually destroys the once delicate balance.
In people's hearts, once a mustard is born, it will be out of control. And the two hearts that once loved each other will gradually drift apart because of this.
In the past, when Shen Aojun went to film in other places, the two of them would make three calls a day, but they didn't contact each other once in the next few days. Even so, Shen Aojun didn't care much about it, and was convinced of Nie Yuan.
said to Shen Aojunlai that his acquaintance with Nie Yuan was due to fate, the two of them had a deep emotional foundation, and getting married was a matter of course. She even had plans to give up her career for her family if necessary.
For Shen Aojun, managing love and marriage well is his ultimate ideal.
Every time he thought that one day he could wear a white wedding dress and walk into the sacred marriage hall with Nie Yuan's hand, Shen Aojun couldn't help but be overjoyed.
However, every time she gave a hint of "getting married", Nie Yuan would say: I am too famous now, and I will marry you home when I become famous in the future.
In a blink of an eye, the two of them have gone through 8 years of ups and downs, and Shen Aojun has also entered the age of establishment.
She didn't look forward to Nie Yuan's promise to herself, but she waited for his betrayal of her feelings, and the two who had always been favored were finally separated.
There is nothing more embarrassing than when one person is planning for the future and the other is planning to leave.
Even though there was too much reluctance in his heart, Shen Aojun did not deliberately keep it, but let go of this unforgettable relationship and forgot about each other.
03 Choose to start over and reap the rewards of a happy life
After breaking up with Nie Yuan, Shen Aojun locked himself in his room, did not go out without answering the script, and cut off all contact with the outside world.
But this emotion that spanned her entire youth ended hastily without any warning.
She was unwilling after all.
When the family saw Shen Aojun's appearance, they couldn't help but worry about her, and they tried everything they could to get Shen Aojun out of the trough of their relationship.
So, on the pretext of taking her to relax, her family kept introducing her to blind dates. Shen Aojun didn't make it clear after seeing through it, but just cooperated with his family to deal with the blind date dramas.
People who have been emotionally wounded find it difficult to believe in love anymore.
Shen Aojun, who had no intention of going on a blind date, only felt ridiculous and helpless in the face of blind dates. She always felt that she had completely discouraged her relationship and would be lonely in the future.
It didn't take long for her to change her mind. And the person who made her change was her husband now.
The two met because of a blind date.
The first time they met, Shen Aojun felt that the other party was not tall and looked very ordinary, so he was not too impressed by the man in front of him.
However, during the conversation, Shen Aojun learned that the other party was a diplomat.
He told Shen Aojun what he had seen and heard, and his humorous language could always make Shen Aojun lean back and forth. Her profound knowledge and humorous personality made her impressed by the man in front of her.
So, the two left each other's contact information.
Although diplomats are usually very busy with work, they always don't forget to care about Shen Aojun, and as long as he has time, he will accompany Shen Aojun to the movies.
The two will discuss the plot together, and they find that they have a lot in common with each other, and they are surprisingly consistent in their views on some issues.
Every time a diplomat goes on a business trip, he remembers to bring a small gift to Shen Aojun and tell her about the local customs. This made Shen Aojun unconsciously full of expectations for every meeting.
What touched Shen Aojun the most was that the diplomat deliberately saved up for 2 years' salary to buy a loose diamond for her, and personally put it on her hand when proposing.
This relationship not only gave Shen Aojun enough love, but also gave her a sense of security that she had never had. rescued Shen Aojun from the quagmire of disappointment in love, little by little.
She finally believed in love again.
In 2009, Shen Aojun and her boyfriend entered the palace of marriage.
It is better for one person to understand the pain of a thousand people, and Shen Aojun's husband is the one who understands her.
After getting married, he respected and supported Shen Aojun's acting career as always, even if he was busy with work, he did not forget to ask Shen Aojun to take care of himself and pay attention to safety.
As long as he has free time, he will go to the crew to visit the class, or cook soup and rice at home, and wait for his wife to come home.
Shen Aojun was immersed in a happy married life, and the following year ushered in the crystallization of their love.
The once two-person world has become a happy family of three, and Shen Aojun has gradually faded out of the entertainment industry, choosing to teach his husband and children at home and accompany his family.
Today's Shen Aojun is 47 years old.
The bright face of the past has already had traces of years of carving, and the figure is not as good as before. However, beauty twilight is the norm in life, and no one is exempt.
Now, she has reaped the family happiness she has always dreamed of. And all this is exactly what she wanted in her heart at the beginning.
Everything she got was what she wanted, and God never treated her lightly. The past has been let down and hurt, and it has also turned into a cloud of the past, which is not worth mentioning.
04
Just like Shen Aojun himself said: I feel that life has given me so many tests to prove that there are so many people around me who love me.
The love that ran through her entire youth also made her miserable and physically and mentally hurt, but she was as sober as she was, and she did not entangle, but turned around decisively and started again, and now she has reaped her own happy life.
Facts have proved that we can never keep a person who insists on leaving, and no amount of retention is just self-inflicted humiliation.
Like Shen Aojun, when he loves, he devotes himself wholeheartedly, and if he doesn't love, he completely gives up and waves goodbye to the past.
Not thinking about the past and not fearing the future is the wisest choice.
Today's Shen Aojun has finally found her own happiness, and I wish her to live happily ever after!
Reference: Shen Aojun Baidu Encyclopedia
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