Lou Shide taught his younger brother how to behave in the world
The early morning sun poured into the courtyard, and Lou Shide sat on the mahogany dragon chair, looking at his younger brother in front of him with a serious expression. He took a deep breath and spoke slowly: "Brother, you are about to go to work alone, and I am worried that you will not be able to deal with the sinister affairs of officialdom.
The younger brother looked up at Lou Shide, and his eyes revealed firmness: "Brother, please rest assured, I will definitely be cautious in my words and deeds, and deal with it carefully." ”
Lou Shide shook his head slightly and patted his younger brother's shoulder: "You are still too young to see the world." I must teach you the wisdom of the world, so that you will not be harmed.
He got up and walked slowly through the courtyard, frowning slightly, as if to consider the wording. After a while, he looked at his younger brother fixedly: "The most difficult thing in the world to deal with is jealousy.
If you hold a history of assassination, you will definitely attract suspicion and even slander. Don't be in a hurry to refute at this time, but live with it. Just like someone spits on you, you don't have to blame, just wipe it silently.
Let it dry, and things will settle down naturally. If you persist in arguing, you will only add fuel to the fire.
The younger brother listened to it and couldn't help but redden. Lou Shide patted him on the shoulder and said earnestly: "I often think about life, and I feel more and more that there are only two words in the way of life - patience!
The younger brother wiped away his tears and hugged Lou Shide: "Brother, I must remember your teachings!
Lou Shide looked at the back of his younger brother leaving, and a trace of relief rose in his heart.
Family conflicts should be dealt with coldly
Lou's teachings inspire us to remain calm and tolerant in family conflicts.
I remember when I was a child, my brother and I used to fight over small things. For example, grabbing each other's toys, competing for delicious food, and so on. Every time we quarreled, my mother helplessly persuaded us to reconcile, but the two of us]))) ignored them and still bared our teeth and cursed each other.
Later, as they grew up, they still often had some quarrels with each other. For example, I think my brother has nothing to do all day, and he thinks I'm too snobbish. A little spark can make us quarrel, and my mother is in a hurry.
Until one day, a kind old man came to our house. When he saw that we were arguing again, he gently admonished: "Young man, you are all brothers of flesh and blood, why should you be angry over trivial matters?
The old man's words touched me deeply, and since then, my brother and I have learned to understand and tolerate each other. No matter how big the gas is, it will dissipate quickly. Now we have a good relationship, and we often joke and joke, which makes my mother feel very relieved to watch.
I often think that there will inevitably be some discord between family members, but a little more tolerance and less consideration can make the family full of warmth and harmony. This is also the true meaning of Lou Shide's younger brother - stay away from strife, stay calm, and cherish your siblings.
Lao Huang let the vegetable field resolve the discord between the brothers
There has not been much communication between Lao Huang and his younger brother. When they were teenagers, they always quarreled over trivial matters, which broke their parents' hearts.
I remember one time, the two brothers fought again over the family's vegetable plot. Lao Huang was furious, pushed his younger brother to the ground, and then ran away from home in a huff.
After wandering for a year, Lao Huang came to the county seat and began a part-time life. After hard work, he was promoted to HR manager for a large company. Finally fulfilled the vow he made when he ran away - to break out of the world.
One year, during the Spring Festival, Lao Huang returned to his hometown for the New Year. Unexpectedly, the younger brother has taken care of his hometown in good order and planted a lot of cash crops. Lao Huang realized that he gave up the vegetable field, and his younger brother's life was not bad, but because of this vegetable field, the life of the whole family has improved a lot.
At this time, the old father's kind gaze fell on the two sons.
Lao Huang and his younger brother glanced at each other, tears rolling in their eyes. They hugged each other and wrote off their previous suspicions. Since then, the two brothers have often talked on the phone, traveled together, and spent a good time of friendship, good-neighborliness, and generosity.
Providing parents cannot tolerate themselves
In the face of elderly and frail parents, we as children have a heavy responsibility. However, the situation of different families is very different, and the way of providing for them also varies from person to person.
I have a friend, Xiao Li, who supported his family by working as a small trader in the county seat. And his brother, who works in the city, only sends a few hundred yuan home every year to do some food and clothing.
I once asked Xiao Li, and he didn't mind that his brother was less filial because he earned enough. He said that honoring one's parents is a matter of the heart, not something that can be bought with money.
My other friend, Xiao Zhao, didn't say it so easily. He farmed in the village to support his parents, and he also had to take care of his old uncle who was paralyzed in bed. And his sister, who is an official in the provincial capital, never cares about the situation at home, and rightly thinks that she has fulfilled her obligation to support her parents.
Xiao Zhao was angry, but in the face of the sick old man, he couldn't have a seizure, so he could only endure it.
Regardless of the method of support, children should care for their parents meticulously, in order to be truly filial. I have realized that the philosophy of life is that down-to-earth work and dedication is the means, and dedication and care is the true meaning.
Don't accuse others of being unfilial, it's better to do your best for the sake of your parents everywhere; Don't complain, actively face the helplessness of birth, old age, sickness and death.
The family must tide over the difficulties together and help each other in the same boat
Any conflicts between family members are just small disputes that are commonplace. I remember that my grandfather's family of five brothers often quarreled over the family's land and house.
However, when the old man in his eighties was critically ill, the five brothers quickly put aside their grievances and united to take care of the old man until he took his last breath.
Perhaps, the family knows the horsepower between the road. There are some contradictions between us, which are beaten and sharpened by time and fate. Before his death, my grandfather told us that our brothers and sisters should be in the same boat in order to survive the storms of the family's fate.
His words reminded me that as younger generations, we should unite and help each other and shoulder the burden and responsibility of the family together. Don't lose sight of others because of your own selfish interests; Don't let the ears not listen to persuasion because of a little quarrel.
We must have good thoughts, good hearts, accumulate good virtues, and blessings will naturally gather them.
Life is a long road, and each of us has to go through it alone. But there is a deepest bond between family members, and this bond will last until the end of life. My grandfather's last wish was for his children to be reunited and his grandchildren to be in harmony.