Ho Yun-tung was born into a wealthy family, and his parents were both Hong Kongers. His father, He Guosoul, is a stage designer, and his mother is a housewife. What seems to be an ordinary family actually contains a strict way of education.
He Rundong was not tall since he was a child, and he was often ridiculed by his classmates, which brought damage to his self-esteem. In order to make him taller, his mother forced him to play basketball every day.
However, height is only external, and He Rundong's inner inferiority complex still exists. He is not good at talking, and even a little withdrawn and eccentric.
Painting is Ho's only interest. He could spend the whole day painting alone in his room, isolated from the outside world. Sometimes they even talk to themselves, as if they are living in their own world.
Public speaking at school is what He Rundong fears the most. He would always find all sorts of excuses to escape, such as hiding in the bathroom. His parents were unhappy with his weak character.
When he was 13 years old, He Rundong and his sister were sent to Canada to study, and his father directly cut off his financial resources, and he had to work on his own to earn money to pay for all expenses.
The harsh environment did not erase his inner loneliness, and as he grew older, this inferiority complex seemed to be more profound.
He Rundong, who studied art and design Xi, could have embarked on the life path of a designer. However, opportunities don't come around often. At the age of 19, a Hong Kong musician stumbled upon him and paved a path to the film and television industry.
In fact, He Rundong's parents are both from the entertainment industry, his mother is a dancer, and his father is a stage art designer. Perhaps, the factor of starlight is hidden in his genes.
Under the recommendation of the musician, He Rundong starred in the movie "Liang Zhu" for the first time, and played a classmate and friend with the popular movie star Wu Qilong. After the release of the film, the critics gave affirmation to the newcomer with this small role.
This is just like a spark that ignited his ambition on the road to film.
He Rundong is a careful person. In the first TV series he starred in, he was always worried about whether his performance was intriguing and contrived. So he began to read books on acting skills and learn Xi wonderful performances of senior stars.
Slowly, with low self-esteem, he dared to perform boldly in front of the camera and play to his heart's content. In the next TV series, he began to become a powerful actor and was loved by the audience.
He Rundong has a delicate and handsome face, coupled with an eye-catching and sturdy figure, which is simply a textbook of walking male gods. However, his outward appearance is extremely incommensurate with his inner world.
is obviously outstanding, but He Rundong is still inferior and introverted; Obviously the conditions are superior, but he is extremely hesitant emotionally. The reason for this contrast lies in his withdrawn childhood.
According to psychological research, a person's personality traits are largely inherited from childhood experiences. He Rundong lacked the care of his parents when he was a child, and was often bullied by his classmates, which led to the formation of an inferiority complex.
It is difficult for people with low self-esteem to see themselves correctly, let alone the subjective criterion of appearance. He Rundong may not have been able to believe that he has such outstanding appearance conditions.
Many of the plays he chooses have stains and even ugly roles, which confirms this from the side.
Emotionally, it is difficult for people with low self-esteem to face it frankly, let alone an acting star who has gained fame and fortune. He Rundong has had scandals with many actresses, but none of them developed into true love in the end.
In these short and illusory feelings, we can't see the real He Rundong. However, when someone who truly loves each other appears, external fame and fortune can be given up at any time.
Someone once asked He Rundong: "Why are you still acting? You already have too much." He smiled and said nothing. In fact, many people think that celebrities with careers, money, and fame have long been frank and confident in their hearts.
But beneath the seemingly glamorous surface, there may still be weakness and confusion. Especially in the realm of feelings.
He Rundong is known as a "true character actor". His emotional world is as simple and sincere as he is. From the two-year relationship with Song Xinni in the early days of the film, it was admiration from the bottom of my heart until the separation of the work of the two parties.
Later, he and Jia Jingwen were rumored to have an affair in the cooperation of "King Li Shimin of Qin". At that time, the two were already engaged and were just waiting to announce the good news. However, in the end, what was waiting for was not a feast of happy events, but a storm of videotapes, which disappeared.
Later, Zhang Nara, Da S, and Huang Xiaolei ...... The beautiful and moving stars, and the love fire with He Rundong, were extinguished in an instant without exception.
Perhaps, what really made He Rundong, who had low self-esteem in his heart, settle down, was the ordinary girl outside the flash. Because she quietly watched with a peaceful and warm gaze, this man with great contrast between inside and outside.
Lin Meixi, an ordinary department store salesperson. She is not as eye-catching as a celebrity star, but she has a kind and sincere heart. One day many years ago, Lin Meixi received a handsome man who came to buy goods, gentle and polite, without the slightest star shelf.
This was her first encounter with He Rundong. At the wedding many years later, after her friend Xu Ruoxuan heard the details of their acquaintance, she couldn't help but tears: it turned out that Lin Meixi had silently accompanied He Rundong for 9 years.
In the past 9 years, Lin Meixi has witnessed the distress brought to He Rundong by fame, fortune and feelings. She doesn't have a big career and can't share the burden with her; She is not an insider and cannot give a warm embrace.
She can only accompany quietly and pass on support with her eyes. Finally, He Rundong saw the possibility of true love in her eyes. In 2016, the underground love affair that had been endured for 9 years finally ushered in a perfect ending.
He Rundong was lucky. When his life was confused, fate let sincere people come into his life. Lin Meixi is not perfect, but for He Rundong, it is enough.
He longs to be loved, and her kindness is the antidote to his heart.
After five years of marriage, He Rundong and Lin Meixi have no children. Once, as a film and television star of "fame and fortune", He Rundong was nicknamed the "Eagle King" by the outside world.
His career and relationship have been "double harvested", but none of his flesh and blood are safe. After many years of marriage, the feeling of emptiness in my heart has quietly grown.
He Rundong looked at the children of his friends around him, and gradually understood the shortcomings of the couple's lives.
IVF technology is very mature today, and He Rundong also mustered up the courage to take this step. Perhaps, when he picks up the baby that belongs to his own flesh and blood, the deep insecurity in his heart will disappear.
He longs to use his father's love to heal the heart of that little boy with low self-esteem.
We don't know for sure what the future holds. Maybe He Rundong will succeed in becoming a father and usher in a new role in life. Or, fate makes people, and still nothing is found.
Whatever the outcome, however, we bless him from the bottom of our hearts – may you open your heart and live your true self.
He Rundong's life can be described as ups and downs, with external achievements and inner distress coexisting. We often think that celebrities who have become famous and have a perfect life. But in fact, they also have weaknesses and pains.
He Rundong has been a shy and introverted child since he was a child, and his lack of security is the shadow of his growth. Even if his career is smooth and his relationship is abundant, his inner lack of self-confidence still affects his life choices.
However, the inferiority complex that has been precipitated for many years may dissolve in front of true love and new life. Lin Meixi melted He Rundong's ice for many years with kindness and chose him as his partner for life.
IVF technology also provides new hope for the two, and perhaps in the near future, the arrival of a new life will inject the booster He Rundong needs most in his heart.
In this era of rampant materialism and the ubiquitous halo of stars, He Rundong's story reminds us that external fame and fortune will eventually fade. And the loneliness and weakness in the heart are the real life that everyone needs to face.