20-year-old Xiao Wang is a standard college graduate, beautiful and cute, full of vitality. Like many girls of the same age, Xiao Wang also has a beautiful love dream in his heart, looking forward to marrying a considerate and kind Prince Charming and living a happy life.
Not long after Xiao Wang entered the society, she met Lao Wang as she wished. Lao Wang is a successful person with a successful career, and he looks exactly like the prince charming in Xiao Wang's imagination.
What makes Xiao Wang even happier is that the two have very similar family backgrounds, which can be said to be a combination of good matches.
With the blessings of friends and family, the two entered the marriage hall. On the wedding night, Xiao Wang slept sweetly in Lao Wang's arms, feeling extremely satisfied and happy. She naively thought that she would marry the security of life and would definitely live a happy life in the future.
According to Lao Wang's wishes, Xiao Wang gave up his job and became a full-time wife. She put all her mind on taking care of her family and tried everything she could to please Lao Wang.
In Xiao Wang's opinion, Lao Wang has given her everything she wants, she just needs to be a competent wife and mother.
In the evening, when Wang came home from work tiredly, Xiao Wang had already prepared a hot meal. After dinner, Lao Wang sat on the sofa and read the newspaper, and Xiao Wang gently beat his back.
The home is full of warmth and happiness.
Xiao Wang spent a simple and happy decade. Although her life is dull, she feels extremely satisfied and sweet with Lao Wang. She was even a little proud that she had found such a good husband and envied others.
When Xiao Wang was 50 years old, her happy life changed abruptly. One day, Xiao Wang accidentally saw an ambiguous conversation with a woman on Lao Wang's mobile phone, and was dumbfounded.
She realized that her beloved husband had already had a third party who was having an affair.
Xiao Wang asked Lao Wang excitedly, but Lao Wang said confidently that he had needs, Xiao Wang couldn't meet him when he was old, and it was normal to find Xiao San. He even asked Xiao Wang to accept this fact, otherwise he would get a divorce.
Xiao Wang cried and fell to the ground, she couldn't believe that she had given 30 years of love and loyalty, but she was betrayed by her husband. What made her even more desperate was that the junior was only 20 years old, 30 years younger than herself.
After a painful struggle, Xiao Wang still chose to divorce. The moment she signed the divorce, she burst into tears. I can't believe that the happy life I have spent 30 years has fallen apart.
After the divorce, Xiao Wang fell into unprecedented pain and confusion. She has become Xi to following the old king and listening to the dependent life of the old king. Now that Lao Wang left suddenly, Xiao Wang was at a loss, like a lost child.
What made Xiao Wang even more desperate was that she found that she had nothing. Over the years, he has served Lao Wang wholeheartedly, and Xiao Wang has no job and no savings. Faced with an unfamiliar society, she did not have the courage to start over.
Xiao Wang kept thinking back to all the sweet times in the past, thinking that Lao Wang would always love himself. Now that Lao Wang's departure has made her struggle between love and pain.
She began to regret that if she had worked, maybe Lao Wang would not have changed her mind.
After painful introspection, Xiao Wang realized that he could no longer live in the past and pain. She wants to pick herself up, face the reality, and fight for her new life. Xiao Wang wiped away his tears and began to think about his way out.
After the divorce, Xiao Wang first faced the problem of livelihood. In the past, all living expenses were provided by Lao Wang, but now Xiao Wang has nothing and no source of income. At first, she tried to go out and look for a job, but as she got older, it was impossible to find a decent job.
In the end, Xiao Wang can only choose to rely on his adult daughter Xiaohong. Xiaohong has just joined the workforce, and her income is not high, so she can barely support herself and her mother. Every month, Xiaohong will give his mother a fixed amount of living expenses, and Xiao Wang relies on this money to maintain food and clothing.
At first, Xiao Wang thought that this would be fine, but he didn't expect to gradually find a problem. Xiaohong's personality is selfish and willful, and she doesn't take Xiao Wang's pain to heart at all, nor does she understand her mother's difficulties.
Once, Xiaohong didn't give Xiao Wang living expenses for a month. Xiao Wang begged hard, but Xiao Hong confidently said that she needed to spend money on social interactions, and she didn't take her mother's livelihood seriously at all.
Xiao Wang suddenly realized that he had doted on his daughter over the years, and the result was that he had raised a selfish and ruthless daughter. Now that she is old and has no one to rely on, her daughter not only does not take care of her mother, but also relies on her mother to support herself.
Xiaohong only gives her mother a few hundred yuan for living expenses every month, but she spends money like water, buying brand-name cosmetics and clothes. Xiao Wang looked at his daughter's willful and reckless appearance, and his heart was like a knife.
Xiao Wang realized that this was all the result of his years of doting on his daughter and failing to properly cultivate her ability to live independently. Now that her daughter has grown up, she not only eats and lives for nothing, but also makes trouble unreasonably from time to time, and her own mother can only be slaughtered by others.
During this time, Xiao Wang experienced a great painful struggle. She finally realized that she had to change, otherwise she would only be hollowed out by her daughter. In order to survive, she must pick herself up and fight for her own way out.
After experiencing the divorce and his daughter's change of heart, Xiao Wang fell into unprecedented pain and confusion. She began to reflect on what had gone wrong with the way she had lived her life over the years that she had gotten to where she is today.
Xiao Wang realized that the biggest problem was that he was never independent and always relied on the life given by others. After marrying the old queen, she relied on the food and clothing given by the old king; After the divorce, she relied on her daughter's alms to survive.
When he was washing clothes once, he saw the patches on his clothes, and Xiao Wang suddenly realized. It turned out that in Lao Wang's heart, she was like a shabby piece of clothing that could be changed at any time.
Because she didn't bring any value to Lao Wang's life, she was just a pure consumer.
Since then, Xiao Wang has found the strength to live. She realized that she had to work and could no longer rely on anyone. In the face of social competition, she is no longer afraid, but full of fighting spirit.
During the day, Xiao Wang went out to apply. At night, she reads books to learn Xi new skills, and works overtime to earn money when her health allows. Her life was busy all at once, but she felt fulfillment and happiness that she hadn't felt in a long time.
Xiao Wang also began to actively participate in various social activities, gather and talk with old friends, and regain his confidence and courage. She is no longer trapped in the pain of the past, but looks forward to a new life.
With the encouragement of his friends, Xiao Wang started dating again and bravely found his own love. She no longer fears possible failure, because she has already experienced more painful blows.
In contrast, the pursuit of happiness is worth it.
Now Xiao Wang lives confidently and bravely. She lives on her own abilities rather than on handouts from others. In the face of all kinds of difficulties, Xiao Wang did not retreat and escape, but rose to the occasion and fought for the life he wanted.
After realizing his educational mistakes, Xiao Wang is determined to change his doting attitude towards his daughter. She strictly controlled the living expenses for Xiaohong and forced her to work to make money.
At first, Xiaohong was very uncomfortable, complaining every day that she was too tired outside and didn't want to work. Xiao Wang was unmoved, telling his daughter that there would be no food without labor, and that if she wanted a good life, she could only rely on her own efforts.
Under the pressure of her mother, Xiaohong had to find a job as a clerk. At first, she felt how hard the work was, and often complained about her mother's inconsiderateness. Xiao Wang ignored it, and just gave her a fixed living allowance every month.
There is no way, Xiaohong can only endure the pain. Gradually, she learned to do her own laundry and cooking, and also saw the competition in society. Work gave Xiaohong a sense of accomplishment and made her mature a lot.
Now Xiaohong is completely independent and able to live on her own. Sometimes she would give her mother a little money to help the family. Xiao Wang is very relieved that her daughter has finally grown up and can be on her own.
Xiao Wang feels that raising children is a hard but fulfilling task. In the past, I doted on my daughter and ended up hurting her, but now I finally guide my daughter to the right path, and my mission as a mother has been completed.
Seeing his daughter's progress, Xiao Wang was very pleased. She is aware of the importance of strict requirements and proper education. A person's most valuable asset is not money, but the ability to be independent.
This is also the life value she wants to pass on to her daughter.
After experiencing this series of ups and downs, 50-year-old Xiao Wang summed up his life insights:
First, don't rely on others and learn to be self-reliant. Neither men nor children can be the support of their own lives. Only through one's own hard work can one strive for happiness.
Second, plan your life in advance. Whether it's love, career or retirement, you must have a long-term plan, rather than following the crowd. Otherwise, it will be too late to react in old age.
Third, we must have the courage to face life's problems and dilemmas. The road must be walked by oneself, and the difficulties must be faced by oneself. Relying on others for a long time in your comfort zone will only end up ruining yourself.
Fourth, keep learning Xi and progressing, and then you can avoid becoming a tragedy. We must maintain an insatiable mentality and keep forging ahead in order to become a better version of ourselves.
Xiao Wang's story also tells us that women must be independent and don't wait to rush to others. Plan ahead for your future and not rely on others.
Only by moving forward bravely in the face of difficulties can we avoid tragedy and live a wonderful life.
There are no shortcuts in life. Only by constantly Xi striving for self-improvement, continuous learning and progress can women gain a foothold in this complex and ever-changing world and avoid becoming a tragedy. We must remember Xiao Wang's story, strengthen our hearts, and move forward bravely.