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My name is Li Mei, I am 40 years old this year, and I am a typical yellow flower girl. I've always been very focused on my work, and my busy life has left me with no time to fall in love and never meet the right partner. It wasn't until this year, at the urging of my parents, and my desire to have a family, that I finally mustered up the courage to start a blind date.
The blind date process is very hard, I went to a dozen blind dates in total, and the people I met were either too big an age gap, or the education level did not match, in short, they were not suitable. I almost gave up, but my mother encouraged me to hold on a little longer. Just when I was about to be disappointed, the seventeenth blind date appeared.
I was a little moved by his directness, and responded with a smile: "Hello, my name is Li Mei, I am 40 years old this year, and I work as a designer in a foreign company. I also like literature, and I appreciate people like you who are cultured. Our ages and backgrounds do match well, and if you don't mind if I'm a little two years older, we can keep in touch. ”
Zhang Qiang said with a smile: "What is the 2-year-old gap, what I value is you." I think we can start by having a meal and get to know each other, what do you think?"
"Well, I thought so too. Why don't we go to a restaurant on the weekend and have a chat?" I am very happy that he is proactive and generous.
That's it. I can't wait to get to know you. Zhang Qiang had an excited smile on his face.
When I came to the restaurant, Zhang Qiang had already arrived, he stood up and pulled out a chair for me, and the gentleman said humorously: "Wow, you are so beautiful today, I am going to be fascinated by you." ”
I was a little embarrassed and smiled and said, "Thank you, you're also very handsome." This restaurant has a nice environment and great food, which is suitable for us to learn more about each other. ”
"You have good taste and it's really atmospheric. Let's order some food and talk while we eat. Zhang Qiang picked up the menu and carefully selected the dishes
We ate and chatted in a harmonious atmosphere. Zhang Qiang is not only handsome, but also has a good personality, humorous but very cultured, which makes me feel that he is a mature and stable person.
I first briefly introduced my family background and work situation, and Zhang Qiang listened carefully, interjecting a few words from time to time to express his understanding and concern. When he said that I have always been very focused on my work, so I am still a yellow flower girl, he smiled and said: "It is common for women to be independent in society now, and there is nothing wrong with you always focusing on your career." However, I hope you can pay a little attention to life in the future, because there are many good things in life. ”
I nodded: "Thank you for your advice, I also hope to have a confidant in my life to share life with." ”
"Okay, it's good to have a bosom friend like you. I've been writing a poem about seeing each other late, and I'll let you see it when it's done. Zhang Qiang's eyes were full of excitement.
This kind of date makes me feel that Zhang Qiang is a person with a lot of connotation. We talked very speculatively about literature, movies, life, etc., and one night passed. When he sent me home, Zhang Qiang offered to make another appointment next week. I readily agreed.
When I got home, my mother eagerly asked me how I felt. I said, "I was very impressed by Zhang Qiang, we had a very speculative conversation, he offered to ask for another date, I think he should like me a lot." ”
Zhang Qiang suddenly said: "Meimei, after these two dates, I have a very good impression of you. You are not only beautiful and generous, but also have self-cultivation and connotation, and I want to develop with you seriously. What do you think?"
I felt the same way, and said gently: "Qiangqiang, I like you too." I feel like we're a perfect fit on both dates. If you
Zhang Qiang's confession surprised me very much. After these two dates, I was also impressed with him. A man who is cultivated, steady, and cares about me is exactly the other half of my dreams.
So, I blushed and said, "Qiangqiang, I like you too." You made me feel the romance and happiness that I hadn't felt for a long time. I would like to be with you and develop our relationship. ”
Zhang Qiang happily held my hand, his eyes full of joy: "Meimei, I feel very lucky to hear your reply. I will treat you well and make you feel the beauty of life. Let's be together officially!"
"Well, I'm looking forward to the future with you. I also held his hand tightly, and my heart was very excited.
Since the relationship was established, we have become more engaged. Zhang Qiang often asks me to go to exhibitions and parks, and at least two or three times a week. Sometimes he would also pick me up for dinner after I worked and take me home. I was touched by his attentiveness and romance.
One day, he suddenly said: "Meimei, we have been together for two months, and I think we are very compatible." Why don't we think about getting married, I want to spend the rest of my life with you. ”
I was a little surprised that getting married was still a big deal for me. But on second thought, Zhang Qiang is indeed a responsible and caring person, and I like him very much. So I said, "Qiangqiang, I want to be with you too." Then let's get married!"
Zhang Qiang was so happy that he immediately reported the good news to his parents. Both parents were very supportive and started to actively prepare for the wedding.
On the eve of the wedding, Zhang Qiang said to me with a smile: "Meimei, I am finally looking forward to this day." I will spend my life loving you and taking care of you. I will be gentle with you on the wedding night and will not put pressure on you. ”
I also smiled and responded, "I can't wait." But don't be too gentle on your wedding night, I'll surprise you!"
"Wow, you're so naughty! Zhang Qiang smiled and hugged me.
On the day of the wedding, I put on a white wedding dress and Zhang Qiang's handsome and straight suit, and we exchanged vows in the presence of relatives and friends, and became husband and wife. I felt extremely happy when I saw tears of relief in my parents' eyes.
The beauty of the wedding night brought my relationship with Zhang Qiang to the highest point. After marriage, we lived a very sweet and happy life.
Every morning, Zhang Qiang would say "good morning, my wife" to me and give me a sweet good morning kiss. He would prepare breakfast, eat it with me and then take me to the office. After work, he often picks me up for dinner and cares about my work and life for a day. In the evenings, we would walk together, talk and have fun.
One night, we were sitting on a park bench together, and Zhang Qiang suddenly said, "Wife, are you happy with this month's married life?"
I smiled and leaned on his shoulder: "I'm very happy, I feel like I've found the other half of my life." I feel very happy every day, I don't want to go to work anymore, I just want to be with you all day. ”
"Me too, and it's the luck of my life to meet you. Zhang Qiang hugged me gently.
"By the way, wife, if we prepare a baby, our family will be more complete. Zhang Qiang looked at me expectantly.
I smiled and nodded, "Okay, I want a baby too." Let's do it tonight!"
That night, we had another lingering night. Looking forward to the arrival of a new life in the family.
Sure enough, a month later, I found out I was pregnant. After the examination, the doctor said that it was a healthy baby boy! I was so happy that I immediately called Zhang Qiang to tell him the good news.
Zhang Qiang was also very excited: "Great! We have to be parents! We must take care of ourselves and our baby's body." I will take good care of you mother and child every day. ”
I was very moved: "You are the support of our mother and son. With you, I'll be much more relieved. ”
During my pregnancy, Zhang Qiang took care of me meticulously, from diet and daily life to precautions during pregnancy, he carefully arranged for me. I felt like a princess being pampered and very happy.
In this way, accompanied by Zhang Qiang, I passed ten months of pregnancy safely and gave birth to a lovely baby boy. Zhang Qiang was very happy, and immediately named the baby Zhang Tian, saying that he would make him happy every day.
After being discharged from the hospital and returning home, Zhang Qiang said: "Wife, thank you for bringing a baby to my family. I will work harder to make a good life for you mothers and sons. ”
I was moved to say, "With you, my baby and I already have the whole world." We will always support you. ”
After the baby was born, the life of our family of three became more colorful.
Zhang Tian is a very cute baby, with big eyes and long eyelashes, which is particularly cute. Zhang Qiang couldn't wait to hug him and play when he came home from work every day. We would read a storybook to Zhang Tian together and take him to the park to see the scenery. Zhang Qiang often made him laugh, and Zhang Tian giggled non-stop, making us happy too.
One day, Zhang Qiang hugged Zhang Tian and said to me: "Wife, our baby is so cute, it is the best gift that God has given us." I will raise him to be a sunny and cheerful person. ”
I smiled and nodded: "Our baby is so smart, he will definitely be excellent when he grows up." I am relieved to have such a good father as you. ”
"It's a good mother like you. Zhang Qiang said with a smile.
On Zhang Tian's first birthday, we specially held a small one and invited both parents to celebrate Zhang Tian's birthday together. We prepared a fresh milk cake, and after Zhang Tian blew out the candles, the family hugged each other happily. On this day, Zhang Qiang also gave me a heart-shaped pendant engraved with the words "Family Happiness". I was very moved.
In this way, the days passed day by day, and Zhang Tian gradually grew up, and he was already three years old. He became more and more lively, running around a lot, which made us a little overwhelmed.
Once, Zhang Tian accidentally fell down the stairs, and I was so nervous that I hurriedly took him to the hospital. After examination, the doctor said that it was only skin trauma and there was no major problem. I was relieved, but I still had palpitations.
When I got home, I said to Zhang Qiang: "Zhang Tian is so lively, we need to pay attention to take care of him to avoid accidents." ”
Zhang Qiang nodded and said, "You're right, we have to protect this little life." I'll go home early in the future, and you can take him to my mom first, it'll be safer to have someone take care of me." ”
"Well, we must let him grow up safe and happy. I nodded.
In order to take care of Zhang Tian, Zhang Qiang took the initiative to reduce his working hours and try to go home early to accompany his children. I also often take him to the park to play, or to Zhang Qiang's mother's house as a guest. The two of us took turns to take care of Zhang Tian and ensure Zhang Tian's safety.
Time flies, and in a blink of an eye, Zhang Tian is already in kindergarten. He became more and more sensible, dressing and eating by himself. Every day when I came home from school, I would tell us what I had learned, and then excitedly say, "Mom and Dad, I've grown up!"
Watching the child grow day by day, Zhang Qiang's hearts and I are full of joy. This is what it feels like to be a parent, we will always protect him and let him grow up healthy and happy.
Time flies, Zhang Tian graduated from elementary school and became a lively and intelligent little boy.
One day, Zhang Tian ran up to me and said mysteriously: "Mom, I want to surprise you, you close your eyes!"
I smiled and closed my eyes: "Okay, a big surprise for Mom!"
"One, two, three, Mom, look!" Zhang Tian said excitedly.
When I opened my eyes, Zhang Tian was holding a piece of paper with a heart drawn on it, which read "Mom, I love you".
"Baby, did you draw this? It's so beautiful, mom is so happy!" I gave him a big hug.
That night, Zhang Qiang also saw Zhang Tian's painting when he came home, and said to him with a smile: "My son is awesome at painting, you have art talent!"
"Of course, I'll draw more and better pictures for you!" Zhang Tian said proudly.
"Haha, our son will be a great artist!" I said to Zhang Qiang with a smile.
In order to encourage Zhang Tian's interest, we sent him to an art class. Zhang Tian is very happy to learn and often excitedly shows us his new works. His paintings are getting better and better, and his teachers praise him for his talent.
In middle school, Zhang Tian became a little star in his class. He not only has excellent grades, but also good ball skills, and can draw, which is deeply loved by teachers and classmates.
After a parent-teacher meeting, Zhang Tian's homeroom teacher said to me: "Li Mei, your child is really well-rounded, with good grades and many specialties, he is a little genius!"
I smiled and said, "Thank you, teacher, it's all his own efforts, we just create conditions for him." ”
"Your way of education is very good, Zhang Tian is so good, you must be very proud, right?" The head teacher said approvingly.
"yes, we're so proud of him!" I said happily.
When I went home that day, I excitedly said to Zhang Qiang: "Husband, do you know that today's teacher Zhang Tian praised him as a little genius!"
"Really? Haha, our son is amazing!" Zhang Qiang also smiled from ear to ear.
We decided to hold a birthday for Zhang Tian to celebrate his fondness in the mood for love. Zhang Tian invited many good friends to his house, and we prepared crepes, pizza, music, singing and dancing together, and had a great time. Looking at Zhang Tian's happy smiling face, we felt extremely gratified.
Time flies, Zhang Tian graduated from high school, and his grades and artistic expertise are very good. He decided to continue to develop his artistic career, to