Preface
What is love? Many people see a model couple, but their problems will be exposed in the run-in over time. However, Chen Hao, who has been married for 10 years, and Queen Yin Yu, have never had negative news, what secrets are hidden in their love story?
He was born in a medical family, but he lost his father but had a great mother
Chan Ho was born in Hong Kong into a medical family. His father was an anesthesiologist and his mother was a nurse. Chen Hao also has two older brothers. In Chen Hao's childhood memories, his father's figure has been very blurred.
Because before he went to elementary school, his father died of illness. This is undoubtedly a huge blow to the Chen family, a doctor can't save himself, the mother has lost her husband and financial support, and suddenly needs to take care of her three sons alone.
At first, the mother chose to stay in her old employer and save money while raising the children, hoping to give them the best possible future. But the hospital's salary was far from enough to support the family's expenses, and the mother was forced to leave her job.
Living on a small inheritance and savings left by her husband. The small house was deserted by the laughter of the loss of his father, and Chen Hao and his two brothers were worried about their mother, for fear that she would not be able to withstand such a blow alone.
All three children are very sensible. The eldest brother gave up the opportunity to go on to higher education and came out to work to help support the family. The second brother helped the neighbors deliver newspapers from morning to night, and not a penny fell into his pocket.
Although Chen Hao is still young, he also does his best to share the housework and reduce the burden on his mother. Seeing her sons working hard and Xi studying every day, her mother's heart was like a knife. She understands that relying on this income alone, it will be difficult for her sons to soar in their lives.
When she realised that Hong Kong's environment did not offer her children a good future, she decided to take them to Australia to start over. The hardships of life as immigrants can be imagined. At first, my mother worked during the day and worked hard to educate herself at night.
Passing the examination and finally obtaining the qualification certificate of TCM physician. In this way, she has a regular income to support her family. As kids, let alone how hard it is. The three brothers spared no effort and immediately joined the social work after graduating from high school to share the family's income.
The harsh environment has made Chen Hao sensible since he was a child, and he knows all the sacrifices and sacrifices his mother has made for himself and his brothers. Whenever he thought of this, Chen Hao's heart would swell with infinite gratitude.
He was always reminded that he should be diligent and studious, so as to live up to his mother's hard work. Many years later, when he reached the peak of his life and recalled those years, Chen Hao's tone was full of awe.
I lost my father, but I had the greatest mother in the world. It is because of her that I have outstanding achievements today.
Australia's return to Hong Kong has seen ups and downs in the performing arts
At the age of 20, Chen Hao suddenly decided to leave Australia and embark on a journey back to Hong Kong for development. Perhaps it was his mother's "Xiangjiang Dream" teaching over the years that made him look forward to this birthplace.
Or the boring and dull life in Australia can't wipe out the ambition for the career in my heart. Or, it was the longing for his hometown and distant place that made Chen Hao decide to give it a try. At first, the acting road was not as smooth as expected.
Chen Hao knows that his acting skills are rough and inexperienced, but his fame is far away. He has auditioned for more than 10 plays before and after, but he is still a few small roles.
In order to make a living, Chen Hao also had to do odd jobs to make money, relying on sweat in exchange for food every day.
In this way, 5 years of rough days passed. Chen Hao was finally photographed by the director in a feature-length TV series "Forever" and got the opportunity to be the second leading actor. This was a breakthrough in his acting career.
He performed well in the play, received an enthusiastic response, and became famous in one fell swoop. Since then, the career has entered the fast lane, and producers and directors have favored one after another, and the drama appointments have continued. However, just as his career was booming, his love life was at a low point.
Chen Hao and his girlfriend have been in love for many years, and the relationship between the two has cracked because of the work reasons of getting together less and leaving more. The news of his girlfriend's sudden announcement of their breakup caught Chen Hao off guard, and he fell into unprecedented pain.
What made him happy was that just when his thinking was the darkest and he almost lost confidence in his feelings, one day, Chen Hao met his future wife Yin Yu. fell in love at first sight, the two quickly established a relationship, and Chen Hao regained the courage to love.
10 years of running-in has yielded love fruit
After 10 years of running-in, Chen Hao and Yin Yu finally entered the palace of marriage. After the official announcement of the engagement on the same day, fans and industry insiders were extremely happy for them. The two have been together for 10 years and have long been recognized as a model couple.
On the day of the wedding ceremony, Chen Hao's face was filled with a happy smile, he was dressed in a straight black suit, with a little nervousness and excitement, and led the bride Yin Yu slowly onto the red carpet.
At the moment when he exchanged rings and took the oath, Chen Hao's eyes were full of his wife's figure, and his tone was sincere and moved. "I do. "Crisp vows echo in the church. The guests applauded them and welcomed the couple into the marriage hall.
In married life, the two are too affectionate, and often post sweet photos on social networks. Even so, there has never been negative press.
When asked about the secret of maintaining a relationship, Chen Hao replied to reporters with a smile: "We will give each other enough space and respect each other." ”
He had a faint smile on his face, and his eyes were full of trust and enthusiasm: "A little farewell is better than a newlywed, and it may be the norm to gather less and leave more." But as long as you have each other in your heart, distance is no longer an obstacle. ”
Not only that, but the relationship between Yin Yu and her mother-in-law is also very harmonious. When Chen Hao is busy with work, Yin Yu will often ask her mother-in-law to go out to eat and chat.
On this trip to Spain, my mother-in-law and uncle also accompanied me, and the family was happy. Chen Hao looked at such a scene and sincerely felt that he was blessed to have such a happy family.
The exemplary father is strict with himself
After getting married, Chen Hao did not take over the busy work like other stars. He is satisfied with the shooting plan of 1 TV series every year. "My focus is on my family now, and I don't want a busy schedule anymore. He said.
He is also very strict about the education of children. "I grew up with ups and downs, and I know the importance of reading and Xi. Chen Hao firmly believes that only knowledge can change fate. Therefore, he asked his three children to develop good learning habits and etiquette from an early age XiXi
At his request, the children had to wake up at 6 a.m. every day. You can't play with mobile phones and electronic devices for more than half an hour in a day. After the homework is written, you are allowed to watch the cartoon. Every month, you should choose a good book to increase your knowledge and read it completely.
They must also participate in community volunteer activities, which is both moral and talented. Watching the children grow up healthy and happy, Chen Hao is sincerely happy. He told himself all the time that the happiest thing in life was to watch them grow stronger day by day.
Sometimes thinking of his childhood and his mother's sadness, Chen Hao works harder and wants to give his family the best material life. He was always reminded that he could not be arrogant and lascivious, and forgot the bitter years of the past. Always be humble and diligent.
epilogue
Chen Hao led his family on another trip to Barcelona. On the way, they tasted food, bought souvenirs, and had a good time. This has also become the most precious memory of Chen Hao's life.
"Life is too short, I want to spend this life hand in hand with Yinyu. Sitting on the plane on the way back, Chen Hao gently stroked Yin Yuan's hair. 20 years have passed, and the friendship for my lover has never changed. Perhaps this is the ultimate secret of a loving model couple.